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writes:Hi!I´m a 16 year old girl (and Im going to make 17 years next month, january) and lately I have been wondering why do i think at every second about sex.At the beginning, when i started to noticed it I thought that thinking about sex all the time was normal but now, i think that i am a sex freak, because all of my friends are not always thinking about it.I love sex, even though i have never tried it but im anxious to do it and to put in action all my fantasies! I do even think that in the future im going to be a sex godess! Help me´Im afraid that i might be a sex addict or something or that thinking constantly about sex isnt normal!Im freaking out guys, please help me. Give me your advice
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Thinking about sex all the time is normal when you are a teen…
I would be happy to BET MONEY that when you finally DO have sex you will be SADLY disappointed.
How can you say “I love sex” when you have no clue what it is going to do for you? IT may hurt… it may feel yucky and wet and sticky. It will SMELL… (yes there is a distinct smell in a room after sex)… you probably will not orgasm….
SEX is not love…. It’s a physical act… so what’s the fascination? Do you masturbate to orgasm? Sex will NOT be like that at all… at first it’s awkward and uncomfortable…
What so fascinates you about it? What are you expecting ? do you watch PORN and think that’s what sex is?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Sounds like you're just hitting that peak(sexual maturity) estrogen is flowing-keep it in check lest you do something you'll be eternally sorry for. You can't unring a bell or get virginity back. Hold on until you marry some lucky guy then, screw him silly but in the meantime just relax and don't do anything stupid. Luck to you!
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reader, punksavage  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 it normal to think about sex alot at your age, your hormones are all out of wack at this stage. theres nothing wrong with it its just you have to be carefull. you dont want to get the stigma of being called a slut or a whore. just make sure when you do have sex its with a person that u truely care about and they care about you, then have as much sex with that person as you want just be safe, use some sort of birth control
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