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30-35,
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writes:I go to post-secondary school with people who are all older than me and at different stages of their life. They all seem to be in a relationship. I feel sad that I'm alone or that I have so many people around me there that live with their loved one and gets to see them everyday. That they get to experience life and school and everything with them. That they get to celebrate Christmas together. I'm right out of High School and the people I'm at school with have been out of school for at least 3 to 5 years pursuing other things or educations elsewhere. But this is where we are now and the past seems like it doesn't matter but I know it's the reason most of them have a relationship. I understand that. It's just sad. I can't develop any kind of relationship since I am where I am in my life compare to where others have been before when they too just came out of high school. The girl I love is going to school somewhere else. She can't be in a relationship right now. She once was and we went out but now she can't. I see her once a week for a short moment after school and I look forward to it. And it matter very little to me if "she said she loves me but..." Because I understand completely that she can't be in a relationship right now. The girl I love is doing the same thing as I am. She's pursuing a degree right after high school and has very little in mind for having any kind of commitment. She's not the settling kind. This girl is everything my heart desires and I am not one to hold her back from her passion. She knows that. I just want people to give me some insight as to what it is or might be that I'm feeling. This might also make some people realize that they can't ever take their loved one for granted because of how lucky you are to be with the person you love and how insignificant all those fights seem. I'm 19. It's been 6 months since I graduated in the graduating class of 2011. I am currently pursuing a BBA. For all intents and purposes, my question is that to what extent is my sadness justifiable and how and how did you cope with seeing everyone in a relationship if you were at this point in life like me.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (22 December 2011):
 There are people in all diffrent phases of life that are single. Im sure your not the only single person at your university that is single. if you dont want to be single attempt to meet someone.
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