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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I think my doctor likes me

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...

Anal skin tag

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so this is embarrassing.... I have a skin tag on my anus (im a girl btw) Its just a loose piece of skin, nothing else. Woukd this bother or freak them out? I know the whole 'if he likes me it wont matter' bla bla bla etc, but seriously, ...

What would you do if someone you met for the first time smells funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Lets just say you are going to meet someone for the first time (woman/man) and as soon as she/he gets in the car she/he smells like onions better yet bummy.what would be your first reaction? And how would you approach her/him? Lol :)...

Will I keep getting thrush while I am on penicillin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - hello i have septic tonsilitis and at present on 8 tablets a day using penecillan and now i have got thrush. apparantley it is common so i have bought somthing for thrush a tablet and cream which i have just taken but my question is i dont finish my ...

I know I need treatment but I'm terrified of needles!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hey all, i have a problem, but im too scared to sort it out. I think i have IBS, actually im about 100% sure i have IBS. Ive read numerous amounts of articles on it and symptoms about it. I have almost like contractions or spasms of really intens...

How can I get my girlfriend to shave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Ok first question on here......lol My GF has a hairy vulva...and id prefer her to be shaven/waxed , How can i encourage her trim up? [Mod note: changed 'vagina' to 'vulva' for accuracy]...

Could this be a sign of a mental illness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I am married to a man that can never see his own flaws, but yet he can always point out my flaws. It's like he has to be right because he is the head of the household. I am aware that he may know he is wrong, and just have so much pride to actually ...

Should I shave to have my first pap smear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Ok, I know this is a really stupid question but I'm going for my first pap smear soon and I was wondering if I should be clean shaven or neatly trimmed down there. Any advice? I'm kind of nervous about this.....

Dry ejaculation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hey Help!!, Last night I had an erection and I held it in with my PC muscle. I know it was kind of stupid to do this. So in essence I had a dry ejaculation. I've never really tried it before but I had a sharp pain in my lower stomach. Now the...

The man I love has HIV, how can I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, There is guy I work with. He is such a great guy and I've really started to get on really well with him. But he said to me we could never go out because we work with each other. I kind of accepted this and moved on. He then got a boyfr...

He smokes weed every day and I hate it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - my bf smokes weed every day and im really starting to hate it. i recently decided to show him a few articles about the effects of weed and he just laughed and said he already knows what hes getting himself into. i dont know if i should break up with ...

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

I'm tired of getting pushed aside. Why is my self-confidence so low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I'm some what of a nice guy. Im a lover not a fighter. For me, all my life it seems as though I have no back bone. Im friendly, but at times im rude. My friends somewhat take advantage. They thing they are better than me. What should I change about ...

Anxiety attack, all went wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I really need some advise i hope you can help, im a 26 yr old male living in the uk, my problem is this, ive just started seeing this gorgeous amazing girl that im crazy about but i seem to have developed some sort of anxiety, when we became ...

Svelt fast weight loss pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Does anyone knows about a weight loss pill called Svelt fast? :)...

Could I have HIV?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hi i am 38 years old female and had two sexual encounters 9years ago, i am really scared i might be hiv, generally i have been in good health, odd cold/flu generally accompanied by a cough(im a smoker), chest infection x2 in that time, but over the ...

How could I have hpv this long and not know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for 14 years. He is the olny one i been with. On May 2010 my DR call me to tell me that I have hpv. I know he gave it to me. my question is could I had hpv for 14 years and not know it....

I know I need more than good looks to get me through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I m 26 years old girl with many issues.I have amazing boyfriend,good,tolerant,calm,very rich,I get almoust everything what I want, but I never feel satisfied.I ve been surfing the net in search for help to my overcontrolling and agressive ...

Getting married in 6 weeks but can't get over my insecurity and self-esteem issues!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi all. Im 23, getting married in 6wks (wow!) and i cant get over my self esteem/insecurity problems! My fiance is wonderful, always telling me he thinks im beautiful and the most gorgeous woman in the world etc etc, but most times i laugh or tell ...

Scrotum hair removal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants to remove the hair from his scrotum. What is the best way to go about this? He's also worried it will be itchy when it grows back....

How do I move on from a drug user that I love so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - hi everybody how can i move on from a drug user that i love so very much ...We always said that we were always going to stay together no matter what but it hurts so much seeing him killing himself with the drug and all the lies he been saying i ...

Need help with my life with girls, badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hi guys, ok here is the thing, i have a big china wall infront of me when it comes to starting conversation with a girl. We are talking a wall up to the sky, i feel like my brain is just empty , nothing there i cant come up with a single word when...

Are her parents holding us back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about ...

Anyone had any results from Kegel exercises?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hey,has anyone had great results from kegel exercises?...

I want to surprise my boyfriend but the surprise might be on me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - i want to sprise my boyfriend .. we are going abroad and i got my vagina pierced this afternoon and we are going abroad tommorow night will it beep going through the metal detectors? i want to suprise him i dont want him to find out this way.. ...

Should I be worried about pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - The other night me and my boyfriend were having sex and he pulled out when he felt he was going to cum, which is what he always does but this time when he looked at his penis there was already a white liquid on the tip of hos penis and 2 seconds ...

Her alcoholism and depression are making me sad and confused. What's her deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression. She also told me she's an alcoholic and used to be a cutter and that the day we split she really felt the old urges to cut herself again. Naturally this ...

He hurt me so bad before I don't know if I can trust him to not hurt me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5173 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I split up from my boyfriend at the start of June. We went out for 6 months during which me and my friends think he treated me badly, it was both our first relationship and we had been building up to it for years and are both 16 years old. we had ...

Not sure about anal sex but want to try!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - i am interested in having anal sex with my girlfriend of a year and im not really sure on whats safe or what we should do... is it safe not to use a condom and cum inside of her or can i get an infection or something? and is there a way to cle...

What do men think about women with deep vaginas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - What do men think about women with deep vaginas?...

I heard him tell a woman he loved her, but couldn't move or get up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - How do you believe a man that you have heard talk to another women and heard him tell her he loves her, and for some reason hearing all this I COULDN'T get up so when I told him what I heard he denies it of course that I was dreaming but I HEARD ...

Thought I had a cyst ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Ok so the other day (2 days ago I think) I found a lump in my vagina, and it didn't hurt or anything when I touched it or pressed it, I don't know how long I had it, but it really scared me, it wasn't like attached though, like it moved up a little, ...

No sex in 2 years, no period for 2 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I haven't had my period for 2 months and I am not pregnant as havent had sex in 2 years. I am starting to get worried now as I do not usually experience this at all. Does anyone have any idea why I could be having this problem?...

Is it normal for breasts to be flat when a woman is lying down?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1644 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I have a somewhat silly question I haven't seen asked here before. I have size C breasts - good enough when standing upright, but when I lay down they go flat...too flat for my liking. I wish they defied gravity haha! So my question is, do ...

What is this thing inside me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I have like this weird feeling in my vagina like a ball in the back of it.and when i have sex my partner hits it and it does not bother me but it make me feel like i have to pass a stool what can that ball feeling be?...

When I get really angry or sad my body hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - This isn't exactly a relationship issue, but whenever I get really sad or angry, my inner wrists and chest hurt in a strong aching sort of way (especially if I'm holding it in). And if I continue to get more and more sad or angry, other parts of me ...

Does a brazilian wax hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - Hey I'm 19 and I wanna get a brazilian wax and I was wondering does it hurt?...

Do guys like hairy vaginas or not?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - I am 16 in a few months but ive never had sex before. Im not sure if my vagina is normal or really hairy, but i think its too hairy. Is it weird if i shaved it? What do guys prefer, hairy, a little bit hairy or no hair at all?...

Body proportion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

25 September 2010 (F) - Hey guys, what's crackin? Here's a ridiculous one for you all, and I'd hate to be a cliche but...: I feel like my boobs are too small sometimes. Some days I'm thinking, "oh, they're an alright size." And other days, I'm thinking, "oh... Where'd t...

I appreciate that this girl is reaching out to me but I don't know what to talk about without sounding stupid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I have anorexia and this girl about a year older than me (who I vaguely know) knows. She used to have something similar, and she said I could talk to her about it. She invited me to have a chat with her and another older girl who's having similar ...

Why does it bother me that my mate smokes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - why does it bother me tht my mate smokes? Ok i was once in love with him, still kinda am but i know that will never happen and i;ve got my own life to lead. Either way we;re still good friends and im happy for it. Thing is its upseeting me how hes ...

Pain during sex and unable to reach an orgasm.....what is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - i am a lady aged 28 and am having problems with my boyfriend when it come to sex. when having sex i feel pain on penetration and i dont reach my orgasm. what can i do because i am not sexually active and i dont even think of having sex when i am ...

Is thick and yellow normal for cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - When I perform oral sex on my man, I noticed when he cum in my mouth, it is thick and yellowish. When I go to spit it out, I gag every time. Have any male experienced this? Can anyone tell me what this could be? It looks like old mucus....

My husbands touch makes me nauseous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I have been married for 22 years. I have remained pretty close to the way I looked when I married my husband. I work very hard at keeping myself fit and looking good. I eat right and workout on a regular basis. My husband is a good man, he works ...

I am attracted to my wife's younger, sexier sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - I'm married for over three years now with my wife. I met her 5 years before that. My wife was really good-looking when I met her, but a couple of months before the wedding she began to gain weight, at least 20 lbs. from what I can tell, and most...

Should a 20 year age gap matter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I like this man who is 20 years older than me. I'm 26 and he is 46. He winks at me everytime he sees me, which, by the way, i haven't seen him do to anyone else, just me, and he always gives me a kiss. He has also said that ...

Healthy self worth/esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - It seems to me that almost all of the problems and unhappiness posted here are about unhealthy self esteem/worth and the solution is so very easy, simple and available. I did a lot of self esteem work and have found that it repairs almost e...

I am jealous of my friends moving forward when I appear to have stopped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Thanks in advance to those that read this, I need an ear, I finished uni this summer and had to move back home with my parents, and I'm still trying to find a job. I have little in the way of friends; as many have moved on and my best friend...

He's gone from being a gentleman to being loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I have a college friend that I have known for 8 years. When we met, it was wonderful and pleasant. A real gentleman he was. Now, he is loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting. He always want to have special dinner evenings in public. When ...

Smoking at 18 and mum still doesn't know! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I guess this is a dumb situation but basically, I've been brought up knowing how bad smoking is and everything - my mum is very against it. Problem is, though, I've been smoking for the last two years and I'm yet to tell my mum. I hate being ...