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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2012): I'm so glad I ran across this post. I'm 17 and a virgin, but the guy I'm with now might be my first. I personally think I have an excessive amount of hair down there and I hate it. I tried shaving but it hurts like hell when you cut yourself or when the skin gets irritated. I also tried waxing but it didn't work that well either. I think I'll just trim it from now on and go from there. Thanks all ^.^
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 guys like hair, no hair, a little hair, a landing strip etc.
in other words they like you, not weather you have hair or not. at 16 and still a virgin i would suggest you leave thing as they are. nice and natural.
i think its more important to know the correct names for your parts though. vaginas dont have hair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): Bit hairy
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): I prefer closely trimmed. I think most guys are fine with this. Shaved is nice, but the stubble is rough during oral, and it can irritate my junk sometimes. Some women also get irritated from their own stubble on their outer labia/inside thigh during prolonged or agressive sex. I guess it depends on how hairy they are to begin with, how much lubrication and which positions you do. Shaved is nicer if you are both "visual", if you know what I mean.
A hairy bumhole is a bit of a turnoff tho...I do prefer that to be shaved or waxed if she has hair back there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): no offence but if i was you i would shave it all off! i personally think it looks horrible with hair :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Do whatever you are most comfortable with.
Ive gone throught cycles of being shaves and having slight hair.
Personally I prefer it with a little hair, about an inch long. When its shaved it may feel nice to touch but it doesnt look good in the mirror, I felt less of a woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): The hair makes it more attractive and shaving makes it look like a childs, hence not a turn on
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): It doesn't really matter, whatever you're comfortable with.
Personally I prefer trimmed or shaven. Just simply because it's easier to give head without picking pubes out of your teeth or holding back pubes to get to the fun bits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Hey well I have not felt any relief till i did a laser treatement with ten sessions on my whole area :) wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Hahaha ! Shavee (:
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reader, Jeseh.  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 It depends on ones preference.so look for what is cormfortable for you and your boyfriend.
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reader, Hungry89  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Shave! Shave! and again shave! idk about other guys but i like my girls vaginas nice and smooth so we dont have a tangled mess if ya get what i mean?
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reader, papiforgueras +, writes (25 September 2010):
is shaved is look clean and sexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Guys like girls who are comfortable with themselves! So, if you think you're too hairy - trim... or if you want to experiment with hairless try it, just READ UP on how to shave before you do as you can get ingrown hairs which can itch!
Some guys freak out with a young girl who shaves- as they feel like a creep going after a kid.
But let's back up... at your age you shouldn't be thinking how to trim to attract boys! Some boys are going to seek you out once they hear that you're making yourself available for them to get off with- and then your reputation is trashed. Save yourself for someone who's worth it and who will not tell all his freinds that your an easy lay.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (25 September 2010):
This is entirely a personal taste thing. Some guys like a lot of bush, some like completely shaved.
Most guys will get along with whatever you decide - however, there's really nothing more versatile - sure to appeal to the highest number of guys than a well trimmed and groomed pubic region. You don't have to shave, but putting in a little effort to tame the jungle helps let a guy know that you put forward the effort to not just be 'pretty' but to be 'sexy' or more to the point - 'sexual'. It makes a guy feel special, like you put that effort in for him. Even if you didn't, there's something about the obviousness of effort being made to be sexually appealing that makes a guy respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Depends on the guy but more importantly depends on what you want. But as to our opinions, me personally I like shaved.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 From what i've seen is nowadays guys prefer shaved.
Honestly though, do what you want. If you want to shave it, go for it. If you don't, then don't.
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