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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

Does he want more than FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - About a year ago I started uni and met a whole lot of new people, I got in an awesome friend group and everything was good. One of the guys from the group was a bit of a slag and hooked up with tonnes of girls, but he was still a great guy. After ...

Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story ...

G/f's ex FWB still contacts her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Me my gf have been going out for more than a year now we are living together. I don't think of my self as being a jealous or a controlling Bf. Her ex fuck buddy would text her every now and then for a chat. I have never like him contacting her b...

In a FWB relationship should I be angry that he stood me up?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for quite a short time. It started out as a one night stand but we have been seeing each others again after that. It is clear it is nothing else than for sex, which is fine with me since I am recently single and not really ...

It really started out like FWB, but now I'm not so sure ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So I am in a bit of a situation, a pretty big one if that. I got in contact with this guy I had a fling with when I was 17, our friends hooked us up, after we broke up from our relationships failed, and we ended up having sex a few times and it w...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it o...

Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) - My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean ...

Am I wasting my time hoping he will change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met this man almost five years ago. At the time I was 20 and in between relationships. We went on a couple dates and agreed to keep it "low key and simple". Then I met someone that I wanted a relationship with and cut it off with him. That r...

After 3 years of a FWB relationship, I broke it off. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I guess what I'm really looking for is affirmation that I did the right thing. I think I did, but it takes one varying opinon to make me reconsider what I did. Anyhow, I've been seeing this guy (not seriously for 3-years). I have dated and "...

I've fallen for my friend who was my friends with benefits !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I need your help. I met this guy a couple of months ago, we went on a first date, got to know each other really well. Then we carried on talking everyday for a couple more weeks. Because we had both come out of serious relationships , we decided to ...

I want a relationship with this guy, but should I settle for a FWB for now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Well, I have asked for advice about a guy I have been absolutely in love with for 2 years a few times now. How I didn't think I even existed to him and then he messages me on facebook on a drunk night and wants me to head over, then says he doesnt ...

Would his having had a FWB mean he'd cheat after marriage? I'm so troubled by learning about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi I am in a relationship for the past 3 years..everything was going smooth until I found out something about my boyfriends past that has left me disturbed.. My boyfriend was friends with benefit with a girl for a year this was before he met me,a...

Troubled relationship with my FWB

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I know there is a lot of questions asked about this but I really need some advice my friends with benefits if you could call it that have been sleeping together for nearly 3 years now last week I asked him if he had been sleeping with ...

We have been hooking up for months, do you think he is starting to develop feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - I've been hooking up with a guy friend for about 3 months. We've become so close and I like it a lot. I've started to develope feelings if you couldn't tell and I'm not sure if he has also. He seems to care more; we work together and he's always ...

After some rough patches and fighting he says he's done with us. How do I save this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - I feel like my world was just ripped out of my fingers!! My boyfriend told me 4 days ago that he is over us. Im lost and need to know what to do to prove to him its not theus he is over itsthe fighting! We met five years ago in december and by ...

I want him to be my first, but I don't want to be too pushy about it. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - Ok, so I've been spending the night with this guy for almost a month now, but we've never had sex. Everything was a very slow process (other than starting to spend the night, which was done just for innocent cuddling). I hadn't even given him head ...

What would you think of an otherwise decent woman having a one night stand in the distant past?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - If you were dating a woman of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet? Would who she is today be ...

Is it possible for a man to respect the woman with whom he has a sex only arrangement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Is it possible for a man to REALLY have respect for a woman with whom he only wants to have a sexual relationship with? And....why would a man who is 47 years old NOW in his life be looking to get married and have children? I'm not judging anyone, ...

I told him I love him but he said he would never love me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - i met a guy 2 months ago on a dating site. we agreed we were only going to be friends with benefits. but now i am in love with him but he says he will never love me. we have seen each other 16 times now and thats alot. i give him blow jobs and we h...

He says I'm a great woman, but he only wants a sexual relationship...what am I to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - He says that he doesn't see a serious relationship with me because, I'm not part of his culture and that when it comes to building a family, the way he children will look, they language they speak and the culture is very important to him, THUS he ...

I've become attached to my fiance's nephew

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old. My fiance, boyfriend, whatever you want to call him is 50. We are swingers, which means we're in an open relationship. now that the info is over, here's my story. I was driving home from my uncle's house one night and saw my...

She invites her secretly WB friend to all our dos, even the girly ones! It's getting very annoying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - Hey, I am really confused as what to do. My best friend has a FWB, which I don't have a problem with, despite the fact that he doesn't acknowledge the fact that they sleep together to anyone other than those who know about it through the hors...

Now that we are not together anymore he wants my picture!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I had going through a really tough situation my fwb and I decided to try make a go of having a proper relationship but a few weeks later I founf out he had been sleeping with another woman and he always accused me of seeing someone else ...

I don't want a relationship so why is my FWB acting this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I have been friends with benefits with this guy for like 2 and half years now!!well here's the thing we met at a bar,hooked up and I thought I would be a one night stand BUT no we ended up doing it over and over again! Its been 2 yea...

What do I do about my FWB and how do I tell if he has feelings for me? Alternatively do I consider an LDR with the other guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Hi hope you can help me with this it would be greatly appreciated I met a man who is in the army on a online dating site who is really keen and wanting a relationship with me but I am not sure how I feel about him. This is because I have h...

What's going on with my FWB?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I am in a really confusing situation at the moment I have been fwb with a man for over 2 year now I liked him in the beginning but the way he treated me my feelings for him went now I have been away abroad for two weeks and I came back ...

This guy who wanted me to be his FWB is going around telling my friends that he had a crush on me and we were good friends! What is wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - A guy I know we used to be in the same university but then I took a transfer..he used to have a massive crush on me,but I didnt respond back.. A few weeks ago he indirectly asked if we could have a physical relationship without really being in a rel...

I think my best friend slept with my FWB

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

4 September 2012 (F) - I think my best friend slept with my friends with benifits. She brings him up alot. How do I find out ? I slept with him two daya ago thimgs were good...

I'm at a crossroads with these two men and need some perspective

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm in a bit of a bind. I've written before to you aunties and uncles in regards to someone in my life who was giving me mixed signals and wasn't really into me. I was sort of in denial because he was saying one thing and his actions ...

He offered me sex instead of a relationship!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - Should I be insulted that a guy Ive liked for a while has asked me to be his FWB or 'fuck buddy'? He says he doesnt want a relationship but wants to be more than friends. Im shocked and dont know what to say! Im 29 and hes 28, Im looking for a ...

How do I now cope with fact he's slept with 10 girls since we had our partial break-up 7 months ago?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up 7 months ago, but we remained close and still had a physical relationship. (not the wisest decision I know). However recently, he told me that he has slept with 10 different girls during the 7 months, one of which wa...

Wife talking to a FWB from 15 years ago. Should I worry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

2 September 2012 (M) - Should I be worried about my wife talking with here friend with benifit from about 15 years ago? My wife and I have been married 13 years and have two girls. About four month ago i notice my wife was becoming very secretive with her iPhone. ...

I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

1 September 2012 (M) - My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have ...