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writes:So I am in a bit of a situation, a pretty big one if that. I got in contact with this guy I had a fling with when I was 17, our friends hooked us up, after we broke up from our relationships failed, and we ended up having sex a few times and it was amazing. But I broke it off, because I found love with someone else. But during the 3 and a bit years we have always flirted, but nothing more because we were in relationships. But just the other week I sent him a message asking if he would wanna meet up and he agreed, and we ended up in bed again, which I don't mind because the sex is just amazing! We have an agreement that we are just sex buddies, and not to do 'couple' things. But the other night, I hinted that I do actually like him, and he told me he has always had a soft spot for me. And yes it did make me a little happy. But he said not to do couple things, but last night, we both went out for dinner, like a date and then we went back and I was on his bed reading fifty shades ;) lol and he was playing fifa like a couple! The sex is amazing, and I have always liked it and him now I am so confused cos I don't know if he does want me or just sex!I think I have made a few hints that I do like him, and I would like to be with him, but not sure how to read him. Can someone please help me figure this out. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, heyyy.
Neither of us are in a relationship, so that's why we decided to meet up :).
It's not the sex I am just interesting in, it is amazing but he in general in an amazing person...
But now I think it isn't just FWB I think it might be a bit more.
And now I am happy :D
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reader, Diligence  +, writes (30 September 2012):
 If you both are NOT in other relationships, then yes you could explore whether you might want to be together and see how you feel about each other.
If either one of you is in another relationship, then no. Go your separate ways. Maybe later in life you can get together again.
If you do want to see each other then make sure you COMPLETELY END any other relationships FIRST! Both of you. Otherwise it won't work out. You won't be giving yourselves the best chance if others complicate your efforts to explore each other. Not fair to them and not fair to you.
Just reading what you've written makes me think you're putting a lot of your emotions towards this guy because the sex is "amazing." A long term relationship is made up of more than just sex and I'm sure you know that. Best to find out what you have in common beyond the bedroom. Good luck :-)
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