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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Does my close friend have a crush on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - I have a very good boy friend,and I am single. Our friendship is very confusing because we always flirt with each other.But these day,I begin to notice some change about him. For example,last Saturday we went shopping together.As we passed by the...

Is this too much for a first and second date or is he just trying to control her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2600 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - So, a friend of mine is seeing this guy.. They started talking through Bumble. He's slightly older tha her, she's 22. They've only know each other a couple of weeks or so. He's a volunteer police officcer. So, they met at the weekend. Saturda...

What are the best ways to make new friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Recently people have been complaining to me that it is difficult to make friends in the city I currently live in and that most people are either superficial or out for themselves. I agree that busy people with busy lives just dont have time for new ...

I deserve better than to be ghosted by someone that I thought cared about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2597 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - We were close friends (according to him) but our feelings for each other complicated things. He shied away from having a relationship. He told me he was scared to be a rebound, because his last relationship was a rebound and ended miserably. I was ...

Is she seeking attenton from me or just comfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

28 September 2017 (M) - We chat a lot. She seems to remember conversations like from two weeks ago, like we had a conversation about buses and she was per your conversation two weeks ago, she'll remember stuff about me things that I do etc We've known each other for q...

We want different things in life ... should I just let it go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years now. I’m 20 and he’s 22 so we’re still pretty young and we don’t plan on getting married or having kids any time soon. Especially since we’ve only been together for 2 years. But we have com...

How do I get out of this planned weekend getaway? I've decided I don't trust him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - Hi i was seeing soneone 2 yrs ago and he started seeing someone else. He denied it and lied left right and centre then he got her pregnant. During all this time he hasnt let go of me. I told him i was not prepared to be a bit on rhe side. Now they ...

Fiances mother is refusing to come to our wedding unless we change our plans

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - firstly, thank you for taking the time to read my post. I'm having problems with my fiancées mother. Backstory: me and him met in school, at15, we've been together ever since. We got engaged may 2016 in Fiji we had originally planned a two wee...

I am so madly jealous! How can I overcome this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 4 months now, we work together. Me and this girl (both 23 years old) started working at this job at the same time. Obviously every male co worker wanted to hang out with us, since we were new and they all flirted ...

My partner never makes time for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

26 September 2017 (F) - Hi just wondering if this is normal I've been with my partner now for 4 years we have 2 children aged 1 and 2 we live together but he never makes any effort to spend any time with us if he needs to go anywhere he asks his mate first rather than me ...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

I'm very confused about our relationship and what we are to each other, if anything

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

24 September 2017 (F) - We are friends for 4-5 years. He is younger then me and he likes girls always have lot of different girls mostly one night stand and also few relationships for maximum 4month. He always goes out with me Im like his homeboy and also bro however I ...

I found some unsettling texts between my boyfriend and our mutual friend. should I be worried?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

23 September 2017 (F) - We have been hanging round with another couple for about a year now. My boyfriend is a very outgoing, flirtatious person naturally but something has been bothering me. Our two friends, Michelle and Danny, well Danny does not have a mobile so ...

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language ...

Need help/ideas/advice I have a controlling guy friend... He is a friend forreal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - I have a contolling guy friend...i mean controlling in ways that i dont believe are healthy at all... Prob the worst hardest controlling techniques ever... And yes to me very odd and differant because he is my friend... in that sense i feel its ...

We were such good friends, now she wont even talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Slightly off topic of love and relationships but wondering if someone can shine some light over a situation with a close friend. I'm broken, torn, lost and really struggling to come to terms with the loss of my best friend, for the simple reaso...

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and ...

She's going into an arranged marriage, unhappy with the man. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am an Indian. In our culture arrange marriage system is prevalent. Recently my best friend got engaged to someone. Her parents found that guy for her. Its been an year but not a day passed when she didn't complain about him. She always tells me ...

How do I get this woman out of my life without hurting feelings or jeopardising the other relationship with the mutual friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

20 September 2017 (F) - I was on here a year or two back about a friend I have had for a while who was always putting me down, trying to be smart and reminding me in her jokey way of any 'blunders' I may have made in years gone by. She is friends with another mutual f...

Do gay men get asked about oral sex by straight men often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I ...

She said she wants to hangout with her friends which is fine except for my concern about this one male friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

19 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years is amazing for the most part. We have talked about getting married and moving in together and everything. We plan on moving in in the next 6months. Recently she told me that she feels that she will miss out on being young cause ...

How do I get him to understand my loneliness?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice. I am married to my partner who I've known since we were kids. I've been feeling so lonely recently as I feel like I've lost connection with my friends. I work and sit at home waiting for my husba...

What are basic expectations people in relationships have in regards to social media?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together six months. Everything seems good between us and he's always expressing how much he loves me, wants to stay together for ever and how I'm beautiful in his eyes etc. One of the few issues we have, though I...

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

14 September 2017 (M) - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has ...

We just don't DO anything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, ...

Is my friend's sister not interested? Or is she just forgetful and not very organised like her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - Hey all, I'm in a situation that I'm unsure how to judge. Basically randomly one night, I ended up sleeping with one of my very good friends sisters. We have never really spoke previous to that time and it was a bit of a whirlwind how it all ha...

Is it weird that my female friend always wants a payment for favours?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - Is it weird if your female friend always wants/expects payment for favours? We've been friends since high school, and she's never been the "I'll pay for you" type, unless you ask directly and you'd probably have to pay her back afterwards. I'm ...

I still like him but I think I will end up hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

11 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm a year 10 girl and I've liked a guy (K) for 4 years. He moved to study abroad last year for a year and he came back about a month ago. When I found out that he was leaving, I really didn’t want to go as I was afraid we would lose our ...

I like girl A but am dating girl B

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I became really good friends with these two girls who are best friends. I liked them both but had a crush on girl lets say girl A. I never told girl A this. We had different styles and the few convos we did have she always talked about dating this ...

I'm in a relationship yet I find myself attracted to a friend. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him to death and I can't imagine life without him. When I was living overseas for some time, my elder brother had some room mates and every time we came back to see the house, I obviousl...

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

He's the perfect boyfriend .... when his mate isn't around1

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - Ive met this guy. he is amazing and sweet and just perfect in every way. HOWEVER.. he has this best friend who has very loose morals. when they are together they drink far too much and take drugs. when my boyfriend is not with him he never does dr...

I feel always destined to be different, to be alone, and on the periphery.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

8 September 2017 (F) - Please can ask your thoughts on something aunts? I'm a lady in my mid 30s, professionally accomplished and financially independent. At work I'm well respected and I get on well with most people. In fact I get on well with lots of people outside...

Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

7 September 2017 (F) - Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him? I'm talking about my guy friend. I don't know if friend is the right word, we've known eachother forward nearly two years and always...

Advice please on handling these locals glaring at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

6 September 2017 (?) - Hello, this might seem like a silly problem. I am 44 years old and while i can be fiery i have calmed down a lot as i have got older. When i was younger i was very different as a person, fiery and i thought nothing of having casual partners. I ha...

Should I be honest about kissing my friend, or leave it in the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

6 September 2017 (M) - I can't tell if I'm over reacting about this situation and I'd really appreciate some insight. Here's a bit of a back story... Late '16, early '17 I met this guy and we really liked one another to the point where we started developing a sem...

How do I explain my decision to skip the reunion without bad mouthing the Dean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

4 September 2017 (M) - When I was in high school (a Catholic school), the Dean of Men was one of the worst people I ever known. He played favorites (if you were one of his favorites, you would never be in trouble no matter what you did but if you were not his favorite, ...

Why does every girl that I like want to be "just friends"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

3 September 2017 (M) - So I m now 29, for the last several years I haven t been able to start or get a relationship. Every girl I ve shown interest in has turned out to be asexual, gay, not interested and only wants to be "friends". In the last 7+ years I ve asked...

"More than best friends"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

2 September 2017 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him,...

He wanted to end "whatever this is" and be just friends but he's acting like a jerk now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

My married male co-worker alternates between friendly and cold

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

1 September 2017 (F) - I want to ask for help and I hope I can write this to get advice and not judgement as in my heart I don't plan to sin. I work as a nurse and I just started at a new hospital. On my team is another male nurse that work with that is married. Since I ...

At what point am I allowed to ask to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

1 September 2017 (F) - I broke up with a long distance boyfriend I had for 1 1/2 years about one month ago. The distance wasn't going to change and I was going through a difficult emotional time where I needed him to if not physically be there for me, emotionally be there ...