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writes:I have a very good boy friend,and I am single.Our friendship is very confusing because we always flirt with each other.But these day,I begin to notice some change about him.For example,last Saturday we went shopping together.As we passed by the store selling suits,I said to him"I think man in suit look sexy as hell."And then he asked me would I buy one for him.I answered"why sould I buy for you?"And he started to ask me whether I would buy one for my future husband or not.I said that"if his job needs him to wear suits,them I will buy for him.If not,I wouldnt want him to spend money on it."And he looked into my eyes and said,"But he will wear it just for you."And there is also another example.We had talked about if we want to have kids in the future.I said I wanted to have two,and he said he didn't want any.But he added,"Maybe you will change your mind in the future."It really confuses me.Am I digging too much,or does he really have feeling for me?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 October 2017):
 I would keep it at a friendship.
For one simple reason. HE doesn't want kids and you do. He presumes YOU could change your mind but doesn't suggest HE could too...
So kids or no kids is a HUGE point of contentment. If a couple who wants to be together longterm, doesn't AGREE on kids/no kids (or marriage/ no marriage) what's the point in even getting started on something like a relationship? When you want different things?
I say stick to being friends.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (1 October 2017):
 Then just carry on as you are. You will probably get a better sense of your feelings if he makes a move on you.
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reader, no-one +, writes (1 October 2017):
no-one is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo be honest, I don't quite understand my feeling to him.Sometimes I seem to be attracted to him,but other time,I just happy to be his friend.I'm very confused because I have never been into a relationship.I don't know how it suppose to feel when you love someone.And I very cherish our friendship,so a part of me don't want it to change.What should I do ?
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reader, Denizen +, writes (1 October 2017):
Certainly he has feeling for you - or so it seems. I know some people get married very young but personally I feel it is a bit soon for you.
Why don't you ask him some time," What do you feel about getting engaged?"
See what his reaction is. At least it gets it out in the open. You will know whether you want to put more time and commitment into this relationship, or not.
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