A
female
age
30-35,
*UV12
writes:Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him, when he drop me off my apartment. He kissed me and it felt great, but after that he acted like he was busy all the time. He told me that he didn't want hurt my feelings because it hard for him to get feelings for anyone. I gave him his space and we were friends but we kiss in random occasions. Although I started to distant myself for a bit because I knew he want to just be friends. But over summer he kept calling me and texting me, acted like he really cared about me and want to be in my life. We went on dates and we had sex occasionally. He would act jealous over other guys but we never made official. Recently he want to end "whatever this is" and still be good friends. At first I didn't agree and said we couldn't be friends but later that day I said I am sorry and yes I can be friends. He started to block me on social media and now acts like a jerk. I just want know what went wrong but idk if I should text him and ask ?
View related questions:
best friend, jealous, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, femmenoir  +, writes (7 November 2017):
 Cease all contact with him.
This guy's been playing you like a yo yo and now it's time to put a STOP to this.
He's not committed to you and never will be and this is so apparent in the way in which he's been treating you.
You and he were never "exclusive", were never "committed", so he took advantage of you and because you allowed him to, he abused your trust and your precious time.
You know you can and will find better.
This guy is not deserving of you and all that you have to offer, so don't make contact with him ever again.
You don't need to ask him what went wrong, because you already have your answer.
Your re-contacting with him, is just going to open up a whole new can of worms and i can almost guarantee that things will be worse off than before.
Don't waste your time and spare yourself any more wasted energy and heartache.
A
male
reader, Denizen  +, writes (4 September 2017):
 No don't text him. Block him. You made a mistake about him. You made yourself available but to be frank you weren't the one he wanted to spend the rest f his life with.
Let it go. You gave it a try and it might have worked but in the end no harm done. No kids, no marriage, no broken promises. Just an achey breaky heart and that will mend.
...............................
|
