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writes: Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I fan is size about being with a man, I can get off quicker,I never have been with a man, I love getting head, I just wonder if I would like giving head as mush, a friend has a friend who is gay, I feel like asking him if I could suck him off, but just keep it between us, do gays, get asked a lot to keep it just between them a lot, when I do myself I always think about sucking off my friends, friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2017): I'm gay. If a guy asks to give me a blow-job, he's not straight. Even if he's bisexual. He's not straight.
He's in the closet and hasn't come to terms with who he is yet. I started-out having sex with females. In-fact, I lost my virginity to a female. I continued having sex with females. It was good too; but I couldn't connect my feelings in a romantic way. I always thought about men during the act, and I always had an orgasm. How quickly I ejaculated always depended on how horny I was. Sometimes more than once. Always used condoms! My older brothers gave them to me.
Like you, I never touched a guy either. One vacation with my family, I met a really handsome boy. We were both 17. We became pen-pals for years. We finished college; then we finally had sex. We remained lovers and partners from then on. Our relationship spanned 28 years, from 17 until he died. Yes, we pretended to be straight; and we had girlfriends, until we stopped kidding ourselves and each other.
Please do not experiment with men while you have a girlfriend. Be committed to your relationship. If you are more attracted towards men, end it. Do not lie to any woman who gives you her heart. That's cruel and deceptive.
If someday you do decide to come-out; please use condoms, and always practice safe-sex no matter what gender you're with.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 September 2017):
 Honestly? I find it a bit offensive.
To the gay friend and to your GF. Do you presume that gay men are guinea pigs for "straight/bi" men to test out things on? Not only that but to keep it a "dirty" secret" because UH what would people say if they knew?!
If this is something you want to do, break up with your GF and go "try" out sexual stuff with men. My advice? If that is the route you take, don't ASK people you know. Find a bi-gay dating/hook up site, and find someone who is OK with a one-night thing. USE a condom (yes no matter who gets blown don't do it without him wearing a condom or if he does you, YOU wear a condom.)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 September 2017):
 I assume that if you are wanting this to be a reality then you must be leaning towards being bisexual. While that is perfectly fine it is still considered cheating wanting to perform a sex act on someone. Plus that person might not be interested in no strings attached. Would you tell your girlfriend first?
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (20 September 2017):
 If you fantasise about men and want to have sex (oral included) with men, you are gay or bisexual. You are not a straight man, just a gay or bisexual one in denial.
Do not approach a man just for sex unless he is an escort. If you want to fulfill this fantasy, speak to your girlfriend. If she's okay with it, you can hire a male escort to do this with you. If she isn't okay with it, you need to break up and find a man (not someone you know) who is happy to let you hook up to experiment without commitment.
Whatever you do, use condoms every single time - including when you receive or give oral sex!
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