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writes:Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him, when he drop me off my apartment. He kissed me and it felt great, but after that he acted like he was busy all the time. He told me that he didn't want hurt my feelings because it hard for him to get feelings for anyone. I gave him his space and we where friends but we kiss in random occasions. Although I started to distant myself for a bit because I knew he want to just be friends. But over summer he kept calling me and texting me, acted like he really cared about me and want to be in my life. We went on dates and we had sex occasionally. He would act jealous over other guys but we never made official. Recently he want to end "whatever this is" and still be good friends. At first I didn't agree and said we couldn't be friends but later that day I said I am sorry and yes I can be friends. He started to block me on social media and now acts like a jerk. I just want know what went wrong but idk if I should text him and ask ?
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (16 December 2017):
As you stated your boyfriend is acting like a Jerk.He is a user and has no real feeling for you...and would only use you for sex.So Block him at all levels and have nothing to do with him again.Remember you will be treated...the way you allow people to treat you.It is much wiser to have a clean break......NO CONTACT AT ALL.Best wishes .NORA B.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 September 2017):
 Just block him and move on.
He isn't a friend, he is a dick you used to sleep with.
The whole "let's just be friends" was his way of ending it with minimum drama except you actually thought he WANTED to stay friends. He didn't.
So LEAVE him alone. Cut that jerk out of your life. Don't waste time on people who will use you and toss you like an old tissue.
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