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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My LDR boyfriend is letting a girl interfere in our relationship and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - So, my LDR boyfriend just started attending a new college and immediately made acquaintances with this girl. She's in a few of his classes and is working at the campus radio station. She's pretty annoying and not so bright, which we've both ...

How can I make her really mine? I know she is attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I met her in high school, and we have been friends ever since. I have told her I love her and she has told me she loves me too. I have distanced myself but she has gone out of the way to make me come back to her. Our boyfriends have been suspicious ...

Do possessive relationships last? Should I mention my concerns to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi - a female friend of mine has just got into a relationship with a man who pays her a lot of attention, says he loves her and makes her feel good. Sounds great doesn't it?!!! However, I have found out from her that before they got together off...

I told him had nothing to do with the prank, but he now won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Dear all I have posted before asking for advice on a Fwb that got back in touch, I'm slightly heartbroken because although he wasn't getting in touch as much (not for Fwb) a mutual friend sent his friend a message (little bit childish) askin...

Am I totally crazy for "loving" someone I've never seen, and who lives in another country, and he has a Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Ok, this will be a long story so forgive me. So, I am a 20 year old gay male and I've played this online game for years now and like 2 months ago I met 2 really nice people, a male and a female. Over these 2 months I've grown pretty close to them,...

I feel some friends are distancing themselves from me. How do I respond or deal with this to minimise the hurt I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I've been having some friendship insecurities lately. Although I tell myself it's silly and to just let it go, it seems to be hard to do so... So a few years ago I had a wonderful group of friends, and we all spoke pretty much daily. Granted,...

Are there any good guys in the world? If so, where are they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am i going crazy? Ive recently deleted all my male list on my messenger app. I find it hard to make male friends. Every male i saw as a potential friend eventually ends up telling me that he is interested in me and wants a relationship. I just went ...

A psychiatrist told me I am not mad, (when I asked him) but is it possible to feel something for an historical person who lived in another era? What is this feeling called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Since I was a child, I was always afraid about become mad. Two years ago I learned about the existence of a russian man who lived between the second part of XIX century and the start of 10's. I was enchanted for his behaviour and pe...

Is she still attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Do you think she is attracted to me? I have known my friend for close to 15 years and our relationship grew from just being friends, to close friends in a strange way. I have always been attracted to her and she knows the fact .. She let's me...

Is there ever a right time to give someone a piece of your mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Help. My friend who I thought was a friend was making a play for my man all along. We split up and he blocked me and then chose her instead of me, but mainly because she was stirring things up between us with lies and my ex chose to believe her ...

I like being his friend but I'd like to be more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3372 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - My friend and I are very close. I feel like I'm able to tell him everything and really act like myself. I think he is the same. We are always touching each other whether it's a hug or a pat on the leg or even play fighting! I love being his friend, ...

What can I do about his reluctance to spend time with me, and have a social life together, during weekends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Recently, I've gotten into a long term relationship. We've been dating for two years and I had to move an hour and a half away to finish college. Something that has been bothering me is the fact that he never wants to spend time with me aroun...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...

Can men and women just be friends? Or does he want more even though he has a GF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So...I've been at a new job for a year now and my manager wasn't around for the first half, he was travelling but ever since he returned we're constantly teasing each other, going out of our way to wind the other up and I was just taking as f...

I don't think she'd ever admit to having feelings for me but I'm crazy about her and we live together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - So, I'm in love with a girl I live with. We are close friends, however we act in a way that is very "coupley". every evening she wants to lay on the sofa cuddling which usually leads to us messing around. I'll move away and she'll come to me usually ...

I always stop us from going any further sexually but I'm not sure why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - I am a bi male I've known this woman since last August, but we've only been dating since March. And this would be my first relationship with a woman. (I've dated women before but it never went anywhere nor did it get sexual.) Prior to dating this ...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he is uncomfortable with my male friend being around so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I have a question for Males out there. I have been dating this guy for 5 months, and I completely felt in love with him over the past few months. I recently bought a house and a Male friend is helping with the renovation. My current boyfriend has ...

Why do I get cold feet and let good guys get away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - Hi - I am in my late 30s, still good looking - but obviously don't meet as many men as I used to. I wasn't looking for love - but suddenly through Facebook, this gorgeous guy from years ago, started chatting me up. I played it down with him - ...

I just want to get over the crush I have on my friend! Does my dream mean the crush is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I have a crush on a friend. He is not a best friend, more of an acquaintance. He is straight and has a girlfriend, so I try to suppress these feelings. I am writing this because I used to have vivid dreams where we fool around. There are some dreams ...

An old family friend coming to our house makes me uncomfortable but my mom doesn't listen to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - Hi. I am 21 yr old girl from north india. My mother has a old friend who often comes to my home just for chatting. He is like family to us. But now a days its being annoying that he comes frequently and interfering in all matters. I tried talking ...

No one talks to me at the swimming pool club. What can I do to stop being treated like I'm invisible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I have a lot of friends at school and I am in a choir and have a lot of friends there too! But in my swimming club nobody speaks to me, and I can't seem to figure out why? I always arrive late on purpose so I won't have to stand on poolside like a ...

I want to confront my ex friend about her lack of respect in our relationship but wonder if I should just let things go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

24 August 2015 (F) - I was friends with a girl for many years, even when we went apart to go to different colleges across the country. During this time, she got a boyfriend who lived in our home-town, she returned from college and they became very close. During t...

Did I blow things with my crush when I was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Okay, I have a crush with one of the guys at my job. We get on really well at work and people often joke about us getting together. He is quite shy however when it comes to girls and would never admit he likes someone (even to his friends). We used ...

Should I delete my male friends because my boyfriend asked me to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - === should I delete my male friends because my boyfriend asked me to do it???? Hello everyone My boyfriend asked me to delete all my male friends on facebook! p.s: They aren't lot just 6-7 friends because only accept good friends. And when I ...

I have growing frustration over the ladies my best friend has chosen to be her bridesmaids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - I'll aim to condense this down (hopefully i'll manage) my best friend is getting married in December and i'm her maid of honour - couldn't be more excited! but... she has made some random choices for remaining 3 bridesmaids - I think. I know ...

Having doubts about my long term Bf. Are my concerns deal breakers for a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - Im in longterm relationship with my boyfriend of 6 years. He proposed for marriage but theres doubts despite i love him so much. Im confused with his character. Im unsure about my future with him. We had go through had times with breakups and get...

I'm dating a woman who's bigger and I'm totally into her. Why do some people question my choice, my preferences and my motives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - There seems to be an issue that's come up a lot in my life and I'm wondering if others have perhaps have experienced the same thing. Ever since I was a teenager I have been more attracted to females that are more full-figured. Its not that I don...

Am I not a priority with her? Or does she want a Bf, but maybe not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

22 August 2015 (M) - Been with my gf 6 months. I really like her, wonderful character and shes hot too boot too. But some small things maybe seem the urk me. Shes never taken any photos of me or us. She isn't as 'romantic' as me, never says so much nice things in t...

Dominating mother in law. How can I help my husband see that he needs to nurture our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - My mother in law keeps my husband so occupied that he has no social life. It's been two years of our marriage he has not been able to nurture our relationship because of lack of time. She's made it mandatory to spend hours with her everyday. H...

How do I tell the guy I've been dating that I found someone else and to please stop contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost a year. About 5-6 months into this I knew this wasn't what I wanted. He was very clingy and I just did not like the behavior he showed towards me at times. I have tried several times to explain to him that alth...

Why would this woman I thought was my friend turn on me and befriend my daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I have had a friend for nearly 20 years. At least, I always thought of her as a friend. We first met when I was a struggling single parent who was attending college classes and working. We bonded immediately at a church function and would spend ...

Why is my Bf awkward about my gay best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little while and I've noticed hes a bit off, about my male gay best friend. My best friend I've known for 6 years and we click on an emotional and intellectual way, obviously not sexually and he's 100% gay. But my ...

Should I speak up for myself or stay silent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

21 August 2015 (F) - Hi - I was on earlier about a friend in the next town who had deceived and lied to me over a man we both liked and was seeing. She is dating him now and has done some pretty mean things to me, on the sly, which I have only recently discovered ...

When he's had a few drinks he divulges far too much about our relationship to others. How do I respond to this disrespect?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - Hi so I've been kinda "seeing" this man for a few months now, his a lot older than me, we are both single may I add, and at first it was just a friendship thing, we enjoyed each others company I'm not looking for a relationship. Then one night to...

How do I keep my hopes up? I'm not allowed to date yet.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

20 August 2015 (F) - Hi there, I've had my first bf about a year ago, stuff happened, I got hurt etc. I'm angry with him but I still "miss" him. I don't know if he cheated or not, but I still have this feeling that he did. We met online and he's about 5 years older th...

Could it be anxiety? Is there a solution to this? I seem to flake out on plans and have excuses I use to not attend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 August 2015 (M) - I think I have a problem which could start to affect a lot of relationships that I have with people. I seem to flake out of plans quite regularly, I get offered to so quite a lot of things and opportunities and ill take then up at the time but ...

What should I do?? What can I say to my parents that would result in them allowing me to walk to the cinema on my own?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I have been dating secretly. My parents are not as accepting as my friends' parents are. So whenever I go out for movies with my boyfriend, I have to tell half the truth and ...

How can I let down the girl who has a crush? And how to tell my good friend of 20 years to politely to back off and not involve herself in my business and my family as much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3382 days ago

18 August 2015 (F) - My closest friend of almost 20 years in driving me crazy and I don't know how to tell her. She has always been "part of" my family in a way that she just kind of inserted herself there and I allowed it to an extent. But now I've been travelin...

Please help me see something positive in this high school and help me get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3381 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So Recently I've felt very different from how I normally feel. Typically I'm a very generally happy person and even when I'm sad or upset certain people can easily cheer me up and make me happy, as well as I don't normally keep my negative ...

I finally told her how I felt and it's like I'm the bad guy. Did I do wrong? Should I have just walked away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - I have a situation that I'm not sure about. I have a girl best friend of eight years. This past year I started to develop feelings for her. I waited until she was single to tell her how I felt. Before I told her she would give me mixed signals, ...

I am having hateful feelings towards a 'friend' and want to let it go, but we work together and it's more complicated, but not just because of that.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Dear all, This is not a relationship question, but a 'freindship' question. Please help. I have been working with a woman ( I too am female) for seven years now. We developed a rather co- dependant freindship. Basically, I was going through a very ...

Why did I fall for her lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - I was strung along by this girl who pretended to be my 'friend' but all the time she was carrying on with my ex behind my back. I had a good idea she was - but she would always deny it - so I just carried on as normal doing what friends usually do. ...

Am I appearing to be too eager, via my texting actions, considering he never initiates a text conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - I hooked up with someone via tinder. Met twice; sex once. Both agreed to continue no strings. Both like each other. Think I like him more. I don't want this to be a short term sex thing more long term friends where he continues to see me as a frie...

Am I betraying my best friend by getting with a guy she slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - I really need some advice. I met this guy on a night out 7 months ago, we swapped numbers and started talking. Things got quite flirty, there were pictures exchanged and things like that. I told my best friend about this (who was also out that night ...

Should I find some new friends who are like us and don't have children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - I want to start by saying that I hope what I'm about to write doesn't appear selfish as its really not my intention. I have 3 really close friends and we have all know each other since school (give or take 12 years). We are all married and 2 ...

Is it selfish to now tell him my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - Ok so for a while now I've liked one of my guy friends, I've been sort of hoping it would go away but it hasn't. The thing is now he has a girlfriend and I'm scared I've missed my chance to tell him how I feel because next year we won't see each...

Am I doing something that unsettles him? Why won't he make eye contact when we talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3386 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I've been thrown for a loop, and am in need of opinions and advice... I fear I may be reading too far into this (as I have a tendency to do). The backstory: This guy and I share a few mutual friends, and have known each other (only to say hi,...

Should I unfriend and cancel all contact with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last April and moved on. But we are still friends on Social Networking Sites. Now I am in relationship with a person who understands me better and is very honest too. I love him very much and is 100% honest to hi...

His preference for 50:50 on everything is making me feel more like a mate, than really special to him. Is my concern justified?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I have been dating my bf 2 months officially. The first month he was paying for almost everything and I felt like a real lady. Now things have started to be split 50:50. He recently invited me on function with his mates and the cost was $150 pe...