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writes:Hi. I am 21 yr old girl from north india. My mother has a old friend who often comes to my home just for chatting. He is like family to us. But now a days its being annoying that he comes frequently and interfering in all matters. I tried talking about this to mum but she could not understand how I feel and shouted at me. I am feeling uncomfortable with his presence. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2015): your mum would deeply regret it if she found out that this friend was not the calibre of friend she thought he was. Mum probably shouted at you because she just didnt know what to say.Try again and tell her that he really gives you the creeps .......and his breathe is vile and you think he is....let mum shout..you can clear off to the shops for an hour to give her time to think over what you said.You are 21 yrs old and not a child so if mum is secretly planning on marrying you off for money then put your foot down now and then contact an asian womans group.Or is he playing you off,one against the other,mr.manipulator,hoping to bed you both? Dont forget you can always phone the police if things get out of hand and no one can be forced to do anything these days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2015): Why do you feel uncomfortable with his presence? If you don't tell her why, you make no sense. If he makes inappropriate advances, tell her. You're old enough to correct him; if you don't like a remark or his actions. Until you give a solid reason, your mother has no reason to do anything about it.
The simplest thing to do is never be alone with him. If you sense a general evil about his presence, stay far out of his reach. He can't stay forever.
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