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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm afraid I'm going to lose my friends at home because they think my priorities are not straight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I'm in quite a predicament. I'm a student and I don't have a lot of money to spend. I live away from home and I don't have many friends in the city besides from college friends. I go out with these college friends once and sometimes twice a week for ...

Is there a way to tactfully let him know that I neither fancy or hate him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Just a quick one my friend at work (male) believes that my other friend(female) filed a complaint against him. Today I was told that I should be wary about my male friend (he is very flirty) I want to keep my distance so he doesn't get the ...

What's the point in telling a guy you've fallen for him when you have no intention of taking things further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - Hi people, i'd just like to ask opinions on this matter. Basically I'm a 29 year old single male whose not going out of his way to look for a relationship, but open to one if the opportunity presents itself with a worthy candidate. A bit about my...

Was my friend just trying to be silly or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi, Recently I made friends with a guy at work when I first arrived there him was nice to me offered me to have lunch with him and his friends stuff like that. He then Started to hit on me once I told him I had a bf he backed off and we became fr...

I married at 20. Now I've fallen for a colleague. He has a Gf. Is my colleague playing mind games with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi all. I 30 years old and I am madly in love with my colleague and we are having an affair. When we met it was a moment where I took one look at him and felt electric heart-pounding it felt like I knew him already. We hit it off immediately but ...

I'm worried that my Bf is getting tired of me. He's even said he does not feel he "needs" to see me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been really worried about my relationship lately, and really need some advice. I'm worried my boyfriend is getting tired of me, or if this is just normal for a relationship as it goes along? I don't know what to do. help please! I'll try...

Should I apologize for saying that his friendship with this other woman makes me uncomfortable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, please advise: My guy has a married girl friend who is flying in to his city for a week, without her husband, just to hang out with my guy because she “misses him”. I don’t live with my guy yet, though we’ve been together fo...

How can I live more comfortably in this flat living with the kind of people I live with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Helloo, I'm having a problem that causes me a lot of stress and would appreciate advice on how to handle it. Please bear with me as I've just come out of a 'chat' which involves the problem. Thank you. At the moment, I'm living in a flat with my...

Why does my male friend who has a gf txt me every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - il try keep this short and sweet...... why would my male friend text me every day. We did have a drunken kiss at christmas and hes been texting me every day since, even tho he has a gf the last couple of yrs. I told him nothing will happen wit...

Is her behavior normal? I feel like I'm being insensitive but at the same time I think she needs to help herself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - I guess I want to get people’s views on my breakup. I met this girl two weeks after a painful breakup. We connected and it just felt right, maybe all a bit too good. We dated for a while, and she told me she loved me after two weeks. She seem...

My fiancé wants to become a surrogate through artificial insemination for her friend. What do I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - This is going to be weird but here it goes. My fiance brought up a weird question to me. Her long time friend because of a health condition her window to have a child is closing fast. My fiance came to me and asked me how I would feel if she would ...

Do you think she is avoiding me? It seems like a lot if effort and very silly in my opinion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - I ended things with a girl ages ago, it wasn't the best break up and I will be honest I didn't go about it the right way at all, I was kind of a coward and a careless asshole. But it has been well over a month since i have seen her, it's sad i ...

Do I need a friend like this? How do I drop her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Friendship dilema. Hi. I have been friends with a couple of girls for 20 years. They are mostly fun to be with - but one is a bit more cheeky, gobby and rowdy than the other. When we are out she always think she knows it all, tries to show yo...

How long should you wait in the ambiguous friends/dating zone, before you give up on the idea of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - So I meet a guy by chance at a coffee shop a few months ago, he gives me his number and we start dating. We date for a month, and then he just stops calling for no reason. I’m a bit bummed, because I really liked him… but it was still early in the ...

Friend goes MIA when there's a guy on the scene. Do I drop her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My good friend since highschool has always been the type to go Mia when a guy pays any attention to her. She will ignore me for months until the guy leaves then she wants to be my BFF again. It has come apperent that she values our friend ship less ...

What to do with flakey friends? When she has a guy she ignores me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - One of my good friends from highschool tends to ignore me when ever a guy pays attention to her. When things end I am the first person she calls when she is sad. I am sick and tired or being put on the back Burner the minute a guy shows her inte...

Did I over-react? I thought we had a connection. Maybe not? I feel he's messing with my mind!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hello I just wanted some views on my situation. I met a guy on holiday and we kept in touch. I went back to visit him and we spent lots of time together. I met his family and his friends again. When we were apart we always have arguments ov...

He's 24. I told him I was 18. How can I tell him the truth that I'm 17 and not lose him when I do tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and iv met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about a month and we really like each other. However, I told him I was 18 as we met in a bar that I got into. He's 24. I want to tell him that I'm actually 17,...

My 2 friends are in a FWB relationship but she's sending him mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Two friends of mine are currently having "fun" with each other. The guy is one of my best friends, and the girl is his coworker. She's not looking for a relationship right now, and he's simply living in the moment. What's confusing my fri...

How do I let a friend know I don't want to date him without disclosing my relationship status which is changing soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my lovely boyfriend for a year and a half. We have had a great relationship but recently have seen him more like a best friend than boyfriend... I just don't fancy him any more, much as I care about him, and it's getting really ...

Bestfriend is depressed and I am tired of being the rock.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Me and my best friend Lucy have been best friends for almost 3 years, we do lots of things together, have classes together and hang out all the time. She's always been quite high maintenance, she's very insecure and makes up for this by acting ...

Is my friend really okay with that she's not dating the guy she was with anymore, her actions speak far louder than the words she's telling all of us!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Is my friend really okay with that she's not dating the guy she was with anymore, her actions speak far louder than the words she's telling all of us!! She was seeing this guy for a few months, but he ended things with them so suddenly and in ...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone? BACKGROUND: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for three years in university then broke up. Before we split up we never fought. We are both down-to-earth and had only dated one...

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Any tips to help me get over this and move on? I am about to break up with him. He's happy I'm leaving. His teenage children rule the house. He refuses to back me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I won't make this too long but would really appreciate some of your views. My partner has asked me to move out of his house. We have been together 5 years and i moved in 3 1/2 years ago away from all my family and friends. He has 2 kids tha...

Am I over-reacting? Should he have left me alone? Was I right to refuse to go to a place where I'd be the only woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - So here's my story. I'm visiting my fiance where he stays due to work. Yesterday he wanted us to go watch soccer at his friend's place (actually home boy), I refused to go because I don't know his friend's friends and I was going to be the ...

Do I tell this girl my real feelings for her? But then there's my friend, and I know he likes her too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - well this girl that I like lets call her girl A I met through being friends with this other girl lets call her girl B and by the way girl A and girl B are really good friends. The problem I have is that I really enjoy being friends with girl B a...

What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything. When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends. He has been abusive to me an...

Do I follow my dreams or swallow my pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I have a problem concerning my education and ex-girlfriend. A few months ago we broke up - knowing that we would see each other at our new school for a half-year semester. 3 weeks have passed at the school and it has been very problematic for...

My best friend who is like a brother to me admitted that he's gay and attracted to me. I am now avoiding him because I don't know how to handle this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I’m a man in my early thirties and right now I have a complicated situation in my life. My best friend confessed to me that he’s gay. We know each other for almost 25 years and he’s like a brother to me. We grew up together, we went in the same ...

I don't understand why my friend suddenly went quiet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - This will sound a little silly coming from an adult but... one of my friends is being a little strange and I just don't know why. We have been friends for three years now and have become pretty close in that time. We are both married, so the usual ...

I'm worried that my gay friend is coming onto me! How do I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I am twenty-one and straight female and I think as confusing as it is that my gay male friend likes me more than a friend. We have been friends for 5 yrs and lately he has been kissing me on my cheek and telling me he loves me more and more and ...

How do I make sure my friends don't judge me for having sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Okay before I begin please dont judge me. I know a lot of you are going to and I dont come here to be judged I come here for advice. Okay so my boy friend and I are both the same age and we were both virgins. We both decided that we were ready an...

Help! Priorities? My health? What the NHS demands? Attend the 8 year paediatrics programme and lose contact with friends? Find time to do things I enjoy? Which should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - This is about my life. I gave up teaching English as a foreign language to go to medical school aged 30. I knew it would be tough. No money, starting at the bottom, my peer group all being 10-12 years younger. I went from having classes of mainly ...

My boyfriend has been nothing but a model b/f but I want to breakup with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I have been in a sort of long distance relationship with a someone for over 2 years now. (It's sort of long distance because we're near each other in the holidays but we go to different unis). Anyway he's this great guy, and my best friend, and ...

I have feelings for my gay male friend. How do I control them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (?) - I have a gay friend who over the years we have got to know each other really well. I love his outlook and approach to life, his confidence; he is an interesting and intelligent person to be with and not to mention he has a great body. From the ...

Where are some interesting places I can go to meet people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

27 January 2013 (M) - Where are some interesting places I can go alone to meet new people? Most of my current friends are just like the typical people around my age. They are all happy to go to a pub/club and get wasted every weekend. This isn't really my kind of t...

My friends say he's not good enough for me. Am I just blinded by my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - i recently found out that the guy I've been seeing for about 3 months now was flirting/chatting up a bunch of girls (including 2 of my friends) up until about a month ago. i confronted him about it and he seemed really remorseful; i believed him ...

I feel my best friend is being controlled by her boyfriend and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

27 January 2013 (M) - The other day I got into a little spat with my best friend who is my ex. we went out for about 7 months and ever since have been really close and we call each other super best friends or best friends plus 1. Anyways I haven't been able to see her ...

I have trust issues with my BF after he sexted his ex on Facebook

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Hello all! i have a question about my partner. It's been a rocky road for us but he moved in in november 2012. A week after i discovered messages to his ex lovers, not one but a few, which angered and hurt me immensely. He reminisced about their se...

Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...

Should I Risk telling my friend my true feelings for her, or play it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - So i have this friend I've known all my life. But we've only become really close this last year or so. I'm afraid I'm developing deeper feelings for her. and she isnt making it easy! She says lots of little compliments,like say I'm cute and stu...

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer inte...

I assume he is a swinger!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Given that I am not too familiar with Twitter, is it possible to accidentally "follow" someone? I ask because I noticed that a guy I like is following a swingers club. It's only the one, and all the other stuff is famous people, rock bands, etc. ...

First he hates me, now he's friendly - how should I understand it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - I’m a young gay guy and a student. One of my coursemates is a really sexy guy, unfortunately straight. Although even if he would be gay, I would have no chance, because he’s really hot, like a film star. The bad thing is that he’s apparently a ...

I'm bisexual and in love with my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I have known her for 8 years from way back in high school ...I am a bisexual. I have always felt strangly drawn to her ....and her to me....while I have been open to my feelings, she has been shy about it. I try, have pecked her ...tried to cuddle w...

Now I'm in a better place with my life back on track, Should I try to explain to my former friends that I was ill when I did the things that broke up the friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Sorry this is so long but I really need you to see all the facts. I am 27 and I was raped when I was 19. I was living at university at the time, and the man who did it to me was someone I trusted. In fact, at one point I even thought we might have ...

I want my ex back, he wants to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me last night and it was only the day before he was lookin at houses with me and saying he thought we were heading for a full relationship . A little bit of history behind us is that we met last year and I was ready with my ex of ...

Now my girlfriend wants to breakup, all because I looked at a girl's cleavage. Is she being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I glanced at a girl's cleavage. There was nothing sexual about it and I wasn't looking for anything. I don't know how to convince her that this isn't a big deal. Advice?...