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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I just wanted to be one of the them sitting there with all their attention on her! I strangely felt out of my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Last saturday night i went out with my two best friends and when we were out we saw a group of guys that we knew and are quite good friends with. And again like every time when they see me, they called me over, we all had banter and caught up. They ...

Where do you draw the line between getting to know someone and playing with their emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Ok so my friend is tring to fix me up with her boyfrien's friend, I have agreed to meet with him so I did a week ago. Hes verry nice and has a good sense of humor wich i like but however I don't know much about him and I also don't find him ...

Are there any subtle ways that I could get a guy to talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - hello :) so there is a guy in the year above at school and i see him around every now and then. I like him aswell. I see him in the hallways and stuff and he smiles at me and i smile back etc. But i have never spoke to him and i am WAY to nervous to ...

How can I make friends with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi I am 17 and I am shy. I don't have confident because i cant speak English fluently. How can i make friends with girls? I really want to start a relationship but i just don't have any female friends. My class has no girls, I am in male canoeing...

Could my crush be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...

The guy I like is flirting with my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi I usually don't do things like this but I truly just want someone's help. You see I REALLY like this guy in my school. He's one of my bestfriends and I am positive I don't want to let this go, I want to somehow be with him. The problem is for a ...

Photos show my b/f dancing with a girl but he says he was drunk and doesn't remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is 22 and im 18. he barley goes out with his friends out to the bars. so this past weekend i went to a club with my friends (oh btw we live 3 hrs away. so we see each other every other weekend.) anyways ...

It hurts when my friend pretends he doesn't know me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who is married and we get to talk together once a week usually. Sometimes, though, when i see him during the week at school, (he's a teacher), he will completely ignore me. I'm not sure why he does this, but when we do chat, ...

I'm bi-curious and my friend thinks I like her but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Im bi-curious and im kind of confused. My friend at school found out im bi and now she thinks i have a crush on her. I tend to talk to her nervously because shes one of those people you shouldnt say or do anything weird near, as she is in on and ...

Would a girl not like me if I was friends with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - So their is this girl i have liked for a long time. She has had a boyfriend though up to a little of a month ago. During that time period I got to know her real well and found out we have a lot in common. During that time I am pretty sure she had a ...

I hate myself and can't forgive myself for what I'm doing to him, the relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - This is my first serious break up. we were long distance for years, he in the military, me in college and a little post-college. He got out of the military, we both started law school in the same town. After having been a couple and having trial ...

I'm married. Would it be appropriate for a male friend to stay at our house?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I got married 7 years ago and moved to the US. I have some friends back home, male and female, form my university days. I am still in contact with some of them. With my male friends I talke by phone just Couple of times per year. One of my friends ...

Should I be happy that she thought my messages were nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - ive liked this girl for a few weeks now and we live about 30 mins away so we speak mostly over facebook. since we have been talking we have been flirting and that and all of the signs have pointed to her liking me and people have told me that it ...

He's my best friend, but I think I love him. Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. I know he likes me back because we always hug and everything. I don't wanna tell him cause I think it will ruin our friendship and I don't wanna lose that but I can't stop thinking about him. Should I tell him I love ...

Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of ...

What's a backhanded compliment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - What does backhanded compliment mean??? Someone wrote on a mates wall on FB after someone said "you cant handle her twin, she would ruin you," Then someone wrote a backhanded compliment. Ive never heard of it before, what does it mean?...

I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) - I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). ...

He said goodbye to me, but then told me I hadn't seen the last of him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So, I've had a crush on my best friend for about 5 years. When I first started liking him he went out with my best friend at the time and she told him that I liked him. But I never knew he knew. Anyway he forgot all about it and recently we've been...

Should I meet him or shouldn’t I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I used to like to someone in the school and we used to look at each other very often, anyway the school was over we didn’t see each other since then. Anyway, I found him on facebook and I added him and he didnt recognize who I really was ! then I ...

He's slowly pulling away from me and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. My best friend (who I happen to have a crush on) isn't talking to me much these past few days. He used to talk to me everyday for hours non stop and he would call and text me.. then he stopped calling and now he won't even ...

I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?? So Ive worked with this guy now for the past 4 years. When I first started working with him I fancied him, he is a very attractive guy and I liked him but after a while and findin...

I've fallen hard for someone who doesn't want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - i feel so stupid, i need a good kick up the bum! ive fallen hard for someone that doesnt want me. he is 10yrs younger than me and sees me as a mate only. we used to be neighbours and i moved, i thought that would cure the problem. unfortunatly he ...

So how can I get over these feelings of frustration without cutting her out as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - alright, long question here: ok so about 6 months ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else ...

On-line friend suddenly cut contact, but I'm still talking to her brother and want to visit their family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So i'm in a little bit of a pickle. I am nearly 17 years old in July and i need support on an idea/decision i have made. I have been friends with my "online friends" for about 2 years. I live in Scotland, "tamara" lives in London and "Suzi" lives...

How I got out of an abusive relationship!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I have noticed so many woman suffer abuse at the hands of there partners and as somone who has suffered a really abbusive realtionship and come out the oher side i want to say how i did it! Firstly if you have a freind that is in a abusive relation...

Disastrous visit to best friend and a hurtful remark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 May 2011 (?) - My best friend and I live about 1300 miles apart. I went to visit her in Florida for a weeks vacation. Things didn't go as well as I would have hoped. The problem was her husband hung on us every minute. I could tell she was uncomfortable and I was ...

Falling for my best friend but my heart loves another too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - hey there im stuck in a mess with my best friend and my heart ive been in love with someone for 3years but dosent know, my best friends dose me and him have got very close and the more im with him the more i like him, the problem is should i...

Is her telling me something like this her way of trying to make me think of her in a sexual context?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - A girl at work told me she had an embarrassing accident recently- her dress came apart and her breasts were exposed at a party. She told me this whilst we were alone. As the story finished, someone else walked in and she got embarrassed. Is the ...

What's the problem here: Her or Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I'm a guy, and there is a girl I met semi-recently and developed strong romantic feelings for. We've know each other about 4 mos, we've hung out, partied, we talk on Facebook, we text and we talk. She knows i like her as more than just a friend. She ...

How to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! I just have one question. How can I move on? I'm in love with an amazing man - smart, funny, charming, sexy, everything I've ever dreampt of. We'll call him J. We're great friends, and he's told me how much that means to him as well ...

Asking for forgiveness and trying to talk to a girl a year later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I had a huge fight and fallout with this girl. Granted I don't feel the same way I used to about her but I still care for her. When it first happened I apologized but she seemed really upset and angry. I decided to give her some time and space. Idk ...

Where are my friends when I need them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i met a guy 12 years older than me, said he loved me (very early on, mentioned marriage etc) he really charmed me, promised me and my son all sorts (without any prompting from me) even though he had not met my son. the things he was saying didn't ...

I'm an awkward duck, and not comfortable with myself. Therefore, love isn't in the cards for me. Right??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends whom I have known for years. Other than that, I find it so hard to interact with people. I always get the impression ...

The girl I like doesn't have any regard for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - the girl i like said that she didnt like me. We were friends before until she found out that i liked her and it all started getting awkward between us. To end this awkwardness between us, i just said that i am over her and just wanna be good fri...

She accused me of touching her inappropriately! What do I do about this friend of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I have a good friend who i hadn't seen in a few months but we talk everyday and have hung out a lot during the summer. Well we were hanging out today and the other day and she embarrassed me twice in public and It killed my mood so badly and i felt ...

Does my friend like me? I can't tell what he's thinking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4912 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about 2-3 yrs. Hes my best friend's friend. Ive only hung with him at my friends house. Recently my best friend got married and his friend "Matt" was there. We sat at the same table and even though we've hung out before i ...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

Does it mean anything when he says he wished we slept together when we had the chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I have liked a male friend of mine for a long time. Does it actually mean anything that he said he wished we'd slept together when we had the chance? Does it mean anything when he says he likes me better that he think I do? Does it mean anything ...

Why do other people feel the need to comment on me liking this boy? How do I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - ok, so , i'm ''dating'' lol this guy in my school who i talk on fb everyday and he's really cute, really really sweet, who i've got like EVERYTHING in common with. And which i can now admit i really really like , but he's 15...and i'm almost 17 , ...

My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...

After 1 year of being the perfect FWB, I ended things. I will miss him but did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Everything started one year ago. This guy and I got extremely close and I honestly thought he felt the same as I did. We slept together during all this time but he started to be more and more distant. It was clear for every one that he didn...

She constantly brags about her daughter. It wears me down. What can I say to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have a friend that constantly brags about how "advanced" his daughter is. It's incredibly annoying, and not even true. I find her very unfriendly and she doesn't even say a word to me at all. Why do people do this? What can I say, so I don't have...

How do I find other people that like going clubbing, but aren't in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I'm 24 and don't feel like I've grown out of going out all the time. I like going out clubbing but I can't find otehrs to go with. Everyone else I know is in a relationship and spends all their spare time with their boy/girlfriend. And I don't ...

What is this beautiful girl doing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - After a night of her crying on my shoulder over the last douche bag to cheat on her, my best friend of over a decade and I slept together. Believe me, I've been totally in love with her since we pretty much met and believe me, it was totally not how ...

Lm confused about my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - lm 14, and i kinda feel confused cause its been some time since i feel attracted to my best friend (hes a boy too), we are close friends, he tells me secrets and i do too. i feel attracted to girls too but not as strong as i feel attracted to him, ...

How do I put all of these feelings behind me without cutting her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - alright, long question here: ok so about 6 months ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else ...

My friends set me up! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - My best "friends" set me up one day because I was grouchy. What they did was have one of them text me and ask if I was mad at another friend, then reported back to the other friend. I didn't expect it to go the way it did. I said, "It was really g*y ...

How do I get out of the friend zone with someone that I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - How do i get out of the friend zone with someone that i really like?...

I feel as though only one of my friends cares about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I recently realized that I think I only have one friend that cares about me. Nobody else seems to be bothered about me. I had about 4 people I could class as friends but I think, truly think only one of those is actually bothered about me. I w...

Should I accept the little communication I get from my friend? She doesn't call me, doesn't follow through. I need friends though!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I have this long time friend, when I call her she either doesn't answer the phone, or she answers the phone like she is annoyed, like I am bothering her. So I stopped calling her because it makes me feel bad. She asked me why I don't call her and I ...