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writes:the girl i like said that she didnt like me.We were friends before until she found out that i liked her and it all started getting awkward between us. To end this awkwardness between us, i just said that i am over her and just wanna be good friends again....since then we have been talking more and got along well, she considers me to be a good friend of hers.....but then again, she is now really good friends with 2 of my closest friends, infact, she gets along even better with them than with me, she is closer to them, she gives more priority to them.......for example.....we were planning to go to the cinema so i called her up and told her abt it and she said she will see if she can come and will talk to my friend about it later. This shows she doesnt have any regard for me, i hang out with her with my friends and despite all of that i dont know why she is a bit partial.......its frustrating, i liked her for gods sake and i dont even know if i still do.....what do i do to get this right?? plz help me........... Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Well, good man for having the guts to try to get the girl you like. Sadly, she turned you down and now you're left picking up the pieces. As many people will tell you, once you try to take a friendship to the next level, it can go wrong. For you, like me (several times), it's gone a bit wrong.
I think you do still like her, and perhaps she knows this, hence why she's wary. Also, the friendship you had before can't be the same now, because you admitted that your feelings were different. When that happens, everything changes. You can't go back to what you had.
What I would say is this - you gave a shot, and it didn't work out. Good for you for trying. Now, you just have accept that feelings have changed, and that what you had won't be the same. You'd do better to accept that at this time this is as far as your friendship can go. In turn, use this time to try and forge new friendships with other people.
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