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writes:I had a huge fight and fallout with this girl. Granted I don't feel the same way I used to about her but I still care for her. When it first happened I apologized but she seemed really upset and angry. I decided to give her some time and space. Idk why I care or want to do this. However I was thinking of trying to talk and apologize to her one last time even though it's been almost a year later! I just figure if she hasn't forgiven me and is still upset she probably never will and I can know I did everything and tried. Or would it be too weird? Maybe I could not mention what happened and kind of see if she wants to talk or hang out again.....? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 I think that you should start off casual asking how she has been and so on. Don't jump right to an apology, just see how she is talking to you first. If things go well here you can bring up that you are sorry and would like to leave it in the past and be friends.
It's happened to me in the past where I haven't talk to people for a year or two for various reasons and when we do finally talk again you can tell pretty quickly if they are interested in getting back in touch.
Best of luck to you. I hope things go well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011): Hi,I think you want to apologize to her only because you haven't been able to forgive yourself. You should go ahead and do that first, even if you feel you don't deserve it or you forgiving yourself doesn't make any sense at all. You should really do that first.Only then, go ahead and talk to your friend. You will be able to be truthful and sincere then, and that will shine through your eyes and reach her. She will also take it well then. She will let go too.All the best.
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