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writes:I have a good friend who i hadn't seen in a few months but we talk everyday and have hung out a lot during the summer. Well we were hanging out today and the other day and she embarrassed me twice in public and It killed my mood so badly and i felt paranoid the whole time. This is what happened: We were walking side by side and my arm was swinging and it ACCIDENTLY hit her hand and our hands touched. She screamed out "Hey (my name) Stop trying to hold my hand". I laughed because i thought she was joking but she wasn't she goes in a serious voice. "Stop it". So i ended up holding my cell phone in that hand so it wouldn't hit her hand. Then today she got so angry because it happened again and goes "Look, i told you before i'm not cool with that stop trying to hold my hand. Everyone around us looked at me. So i tell her "Dude it was an accident." She goes No it wasn't and the other day you tried to hold my hand too. Don't do that". I was so embarrassed and dumbfounded i didn't know what to say. It upset me so much. I didn't even want to walk near her. I was in no way trying to hold her hand or touch her. She acted as if i was trying to feel her up. I am not sure how to approach this situation. Advice needed. I am not a lesbian or bisexual at all. I never had feelings for women. So I am not sure what would make her feel this way.
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reader, scottishgirl786  +, writes (31 May 2011):
It sort of sounds like she may be defensive about her sexuality, which she may still not know what is. It could be that she herself is struggling with her sexuality and so that a casual brush of your hand may have caused her to think that you were maybe into girls and then proceed to be defensive about it? just a thought. it is not fair of her to take this confusion out on you though, so let her know that her embarrassing you in public is out of order. it could also be a simple case of having a huge attention-seeker of a friend.
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