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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me??So Ive worked with this guy now for the past 4 years. When I first started working with him I fancied him, he is a very attractive guy and I liked him but after a while and finding out he doesnt feel the same way it faded and he just became a good friend.I got into a relationship with someone else and he was in and out of ones with a few other girls.Well I got dumped a few months back and it was the worst break up ever, im still not over him, I loved him and yeah lets not get into details. Anyways over time Ive got better and not fully let him go obviously because who knows how long it can take right.Anyhoos Ive spent an awful lot of time with this guy and usually another friend and We've realised how much we actually have in common. From music/movie interests, to our family lives, to what we want in life etc. I know him much better than I ever used to and he knows me much much better than he ever did before.Usually he wont spend any alone time with someone but lately we have. Ive stayed at his house atleast once a week because we go for drinks and then I stay over but I sleep in his bed, no sex but he cuddles me. Tonight for the first time ever he asked what Im doing tomorrow to which I replied with nothing and he actually said ok well if your bored I'll give you a text when I get up and we can go do something....usually he would never ever say that to anyone. Also tonight is was just me and him and we went to a bar and played pool and did our usual flirts, lol.He is very attractive and I wouldnt say im ugly because I know Im not because I get compliments quite a bit but only thing is I dont have a fantastic body, I could be done with losing some weight.Ok sorry for the read but I guess I do kinda like him and Im rather shy so I dont want to do anything and find out the feelings isnt mutual. But from what Ive descrived anyway do you think theres a possibility he may like me as more than just a friend?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 May 2011):
Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. It seems like he likes you, but at the same time perhaps he just sees you as a friend. I would say this:
1 - Stop worrying about your weight. Insecurity in a woman can drive a man away in 5 seconds flat.
2 - Spend more time going out with him - maybe ask hi if he'd like to go out again.
There are a lot of signs there that he does like you, but I think you need to spend more time with him to watch how he acts with you and speaks to you.
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