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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes: I've known this guy for about 2-3 yrs. Hes my best friend's friend. Ive only hung with him at my friends house. Recently my best friend got married and his friend "Matt" was there. We sat at the same table and even though we've hung out before i never got to hang alone w/ him/see how he is. He made me laugh the whole night and flirted heavily (talking about how beautiful i am, put his hand on my knee), held my hand (he was also drinking). We've hung out at his place, playing video games..hes never tried anything (when sober)..but we're flirty over txt but dont act on it. Seems now,every time we talk to each other..its semi flirty or theres some sexual inuendo in there. If we're hanging at my friends...he'll be talking to my friend but he'll look at me when talking. He's very respectful, and last night we had dinner at his place and when we went to go get dinner, he opened the door for me.. and got everything ready for me at the house. Maybe hes just a great host and a gentleman..but i cant tell if hes interested. Just cause he flirts with me.,opened the door for me.and heavily flirted with me at the wedding doesnt mean he likes me, right?last night he was picking on me and i hit him..but we were laughing and as hes laughing hes all why are u hittin me? i said i dunno, im sorry i cant help it. I later told him via txt that i do it when im embarassed and i think hes cute (i had to think about why i do that, and i guess i only do that when someone i like picks on me). I feel so silly, like a kid..wondering if this guy likes me..Im definitely interested in him. i guess i see him in a new light and the whole time ive known him hes had a gf..and he broke up with her awhile ago. So thats prob why i was never into him, cos i couldnt have him. i have so much fun hanging with him..and he makes me laugh so much to the point where he makes me cry..and i make him laugh aswell.. hes a pretty happy go lucky guy. Either way hes great to be around..im just wondering how can i tell if hes interested.
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reader, Anastasia +, writes (3 June 2011):
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