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26-29,
anonymous
writes:lm 14, and i kinda feel confused cause its been some time since i feel attracted to my best friend (hes a boy too), we are close friends, he tells me secrets and i do too. i feel attracted to girls too but not as strong as i feel attracted to him, ive hugged him several times, it makes me feel better but it confuses me more, one time i hugged him, and i didnt let him go, i wasnt pretending to do that i just was like unplugged from reality and it was weird cause everybody was staring at us, then he released himself and i came back to reality, i was ashamed but i have no regrets. in the classroom i sit behind him, sometimes i dont know what to tell him. If i ever tell him this, i dont want to scare him, should i tell him? what should i do?.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Ok well try not and put to much pressure on yourself in terms of sexuality. You are only young and it is a perfect age to explore your sexuality and enjoy life. So please do not put pressure on yourself to make you your mind weather you are straight or gay. Just enjoy your youth and explore your sexuality. You dont need to tell him anything that you dont want to,or feel uncomfortable with. If you feel comfortable telling him how you feel and you trust him well then go for it when you are both alone and see what happens. If he doesnt feel the same well then ask him if he will keep it to himself and carry on with your life and your friendship. However if you dont feel comfortable coming out and telling him you are attracted to him well just keep things going the way they are and see what happens. Try and spend as much time as you can with him and see how he behaves around you. goodluck.
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