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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Could my friend be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend who i love sooo much kind of makes some stupid decisions sometimes. She's on birth control and that usually is enough to keep someone from getting pregnant, but if you have a condom why not use it to make sure you are protecting yourself ...

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do...

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another a...

Would you feel a bit rejected, even though it was first night sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Ok guys, if you had amazing sex after a first date after loads of talking. You sent her lots of messages saying how fantastic it was and you wanted to continue with it. But, the girl suddenly backed down a bit and said she was unsure and confu...

My friend flirts with a married man,but only to take his job, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading ...

Lets just say I need some serious help here...should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - well ill try my best to explain this very complicated matter here: well, i first liked this guy, a red-head, all-american, totally original and classy. and we would talk all the time! ppl would ask if we were best friends or something. and his frie...

I miss her friendship! She stopped talking to me when she found out I liked her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I liked this girl for 2 yrs we were great friend. She found out n said no n we stopped talkin to me. Been 2 months! Tried talkin but its hard. I wana talk to her but how? Will it ever be the same? I reli miss her friendship but I can't say that ...

My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...

Does he like me too, since he blushes when I am near and laughes at my jokes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear Who ever answers this, I like this boy. I'm not going to say any names but I love him!! He's smart, intellegent, funny, athletic, and handsome!! He is in 3 of my classes but if you count gym, he is in there to. I to...

My crushes are based on personality, not looks, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Is it normal for me (17) to not have ANY feelings at all about guys who all my friends say are really fit? I really am not attracted to pysical appearence, If I get a crush on sombody it is because of his personality and unless he is dead ugly the...

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend b...

Could there be something about me girls realize after awhile doesn't make for boyfriend material? How do I get out of the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I seem to be stuck in "friend zone" with all of the girls I know. Most of the girls I've gotten to know in the last few months, though not all, I met through us being initially interested in one another, and then, after a few weeks things dry...

I stupidly told my friends I was goin out with this guy when I wasnt-How do I get out this mess?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - dear cupid, ive done somethin really stupid, i told my friends i was goin out with this guy when i really wasnt because i was so sick of them bragging about there own love lives, now my friend added the guy i sed i was goin out with on msn and shes ...

Should I tell my friend about the way her bf spoke to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - today in a lesson i asked the boys behing me(they were talking about this boy in my year)"why do you always take the p**s out of him" my freinds boyfreind sits next to them and he said "shut up you rat" (at first i thought he was saying to someone ...

Please tell me aunties does he fancy me or something or am I just dreaming it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi i'm 13, well there is a porblem but just need to get some advise. I used to like this boy who is 13 and he lately has been acting differently towards me by doing these things: 1) Touched me on the shoulder a few times 2) follows me in sch...

She wants a break but I only want her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to ...

My BF has a bad tempter but loves me. I am also dating his buddy who is nice to talk to and definitely my type. Please help me decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Dear all, I hope to receive some advice on this matter. I've been dating a guy, C, for 3 yrs now. He is nice, sweet and loving to me. However, he tends to say insentitive remarks and is fierce with me due to his bad temper. However, despite...

How long should I wait before I give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ive been working with a guy since last october, im really into him and i was unsure whether he felt the same, the people we work with tell me he talks about me, saying how nice i am and that he'd love to take me out. But yesterday was my last day ...

Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm fee...

I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...

Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (?) - I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...

Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "s...

I feel as though I have no real loyal friends, and I feel so alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I feel like, i don't have any real loyal friends. I've had one bestfriend all my life, literally, and she recently back stabbed me and really didn't care, she was the one person i could always count on. I have another i've been friends with sin...

Now he tells me that he used to like me, after all this time, so what's the deal now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I was once close to this guy I loved him even, but we were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We hooked up a couple of times, (I was younger). I just assumed it wasn't going anyhwere, so I never told him how I felt. I've always regretted making that...

I like my GF's best friend. How will I get over her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey im 14 have a girlfriend that is great im doing well in school and just have a good life in general. One problem i like my gfs bestfriend. I know i would never stand a chance with her because im ugly. Basically im asking for any advice on how t...

He said that he really likes me a lot as a friend -what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a huge crush on this one guy. We are both really busy with school. I told him that I really liked him and he said that he really likes me a lot as a friend though as we are both very busy with school. What does this mean. I never ha...

Why is it so hard to go back to being just friends when you have had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I can not work out this one night stand I had. Well I met this guy on a social networking site. But, it is just a site if you want to go out for the night you post your plans up and see if anyone wants to join you. Lots of ppl use it for dating. A...

I'm so confused, I've been surpressing my feelings for my co-worker, but since we kissed, my feelings are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I work with the most gorgeous man I have ever known, and I don't just meant physically. He is is just a wonderful person. I get butterflies when he talks to me and when we sit down to lunch together we always just click with eachother. We're good ...

Her promiscuity is bothering me since we split up...am I being territorial or should I talk with her about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey guys Ive been split with my girlfriend for a few weeks now, we seem able to get along well as friends on th odd occasion we bump into each other. We agree that we dont want to be with each other (13months was more than enough at my age (18)) sh...

Perhaps he just thinks of me as a "pal," but to call me "doll face" and "beautiful" and hug me like that messes with my emotions!! Your view on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Could someone give me an opinion on my "relationship-situation". At the end of Jan, I intimated to my flatmate that I liked him and it was essentially unreciprocal. Nevertheless, he has continued to confuse me by wrestling with me, teasing me, ...

He has a habit of planning our date than change his mind to go out with his friends. What should I say/do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I recently started dating this guy. We have been together 4 2months and he has already started thinking long term. However, he has recently moved into a flat with three other girls, one of which he had feelings for at the beginning of the year. I'm ...

Why does she keep talking and flirting with me if she's in this great relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Ok so I've been friends with girl that I like for 7 months. We've gotten real close but she has a bf. Sopposedly he is the lobe of her life but what does that mean in high school? So the other day her bf found a letter in her car from sombody who ...

When is it okay to tell her I love her? I don't want to freak her out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey my gf and I (I'm 18 she's 15)just started going back out about 10 days ago. Before then in January we went out for a month then broke up because we wanted to get to know each other better. and from then till now we have developed into best ...

Is it ok to date your friends ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (?) - I have a friend she went out with this guy somtime this year but it's been over for a while ok. Now I think I'm starting to like him a bit .... I want to know if it's ok to like your friends ex and if I do tell her about it how do I tell her .I do...

Where can my friend get support to help her move away from her abuse problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I nees to find some where for my friend to move to. She is being abused and is need of going out of state because she has six children and has to find some place to call their own....

I love my fiancee, but also think about her friend a lot. Is this just because of our talk of a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - I've been engaged to my long term girlfriend for a few months now. Recently we discussed having a threesome with another girl. We both agreed to ask one of her long term friends (they have known each other since around the age of 3). We havn't had ...

I have cheated on my husband...and let down my best friend...by sleeping with guy she likes...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will try to make this short, however it is not easy story is quite difficult to descibe in short sentences:) All started when I have first time cheated on my with my colleague. It almost came out, but somewhow I managed to glaze it out and...

Came on too strong with her and regret it, but wish to be friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - Hi, I came on wayyyy too strong with this girl and really regret it now as she did like me but I scared her off we got on really well too......Anyway I recently asked her to go out to lunch to catch up but no reply. Admittidly I still really lik...

He's a player and has hurt me before, do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Hey guys, i really need help so basically this boy and i been on and off for the last couple of months. we NEVER went out but we have been hooking up. He is known as the biggest sweet talker/player. I already been hurt from him so many times but i ...

My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...

He's my best friend and I think I love him but he sees me as a sister, do I state my feelings to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Hiiyah! I've Been best friends with this guy for about 3 years now and i can honestly say that i love him to pieces but we've started to drift apart recently and i hate that! :( A while back before i was going with my last boyfriend i started to f...

I think I could trust him but it seems like he brought up the sex topic too soon, especially that he still lives with his ex! Your advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hey everybody! Thank you for taking to time to read my question. I met this guy about a month ago and he really likes me. I enjoy being around him and we have a lot in common. He enjoys being around me too. However yesterday he brought up the s...

This morning he told me it's over...but why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - ok.. so the story goes... im really good friends with this lad.. have been for quite a wile..he has tried kissin me a few times..each time ive sed no. however he tried last night wen i was really drunk, n i kissed him bak but then stopped. also ...

I think he's asexual! How can I try and suss whether he might think of me in that way...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Hey, I've fallen for my best friend. But he's the most A-sexual person in the world, he's never had a girlfriend and never even hints at anything along those lines. Not to anyone. The only time he's ever mentioned anything of the sort is once ...

Do I let him go or keep trying to capture his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - there is this guy i liked for 8 years we are friends..... and he knows i like him. and i feel he does too.. sometimes he says i love u.... he sometime flirts with me... and gets red when he sees me..... and everytime we see each other he gets red ...

My best friend and I have kissed, but we have not yet discussed about us? What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - My problem is about my best friend who is a boy. Ever since we met, we always had a connection and there's always been something there. Recently, we have spent a lot of time together and one day, we kissed. It felt so right and from then I bega...

How can I make him interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I need you to help understand something and maybe give me some tips on what I should do. There's a friend I've know since I was 9. We were at school together for 4 years. We were kids back then but we always got along very well. I ha...

I don't have a boyfriend, it's not because I don't want one, it's because I hate men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I am a high school student of 17 years, but still do not have a boyfriend, not because i don't want to - but that i hate men, and partly because my friends are the same as i am. So i feel strong in that decision, but sometimes i fear i might just ...