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writes:Hey guys, i really need help so basically this boy and i been on and off for the last couple of months. we NEVER went out but we have been hooking up. He is known as the biggest sweet talker/player. I already been hurt from him so many times but i decided to give it another chance. now heres the thing he likes me SO much more then i like him. ofcource i really like him but not as much as i think he likes me. Hes really sensitive and takes stuff the wrong way. he told me not to kiss any other guys or he will be really mad and never talk to me again. i told him how were not commited then he said now we are. i said i dont want to be comitted unless i have a boyfriend. now heres the big deal this whole thing with him is on the down low . because im freinds with two of the girls he had a past with and if they find out they will be reallyy mad. i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): You say that he likes you SO much more than you like him. You say that he's all sensitive and easily-hurt and you're treating him with care because he's crazy obsessed with you.
But you're the one who gets hooked up with and still never taken out on a legit "date" or anything.
You're the one who has gotten hurt in the past by him over and over again.
You're the one who has to be the secret from the others all the time.
And you're the one who can't kiss anyone else without him never speaking to you again. (While he still seems too concerned with what these other girls think right now. hmm . . . maybe he's doing a little more with them than you think . . . )
It sounds a lot more like you are the one getting played every step of the way in this, don't you think?
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reader, Janis  +, writes (27 April 2008):
If the two other girls are the only thing stoping you being with him then you're finding the bad excuse. If they really are your friends, they'll should be happy for you and even if he is a player they'll stick around because that's what friends do !
But dont go to fast though, you have been hurt before by this man and people dont change easily. Take it slowly, one step at a time... Make sure you both have the same idea of committement to protect yourself from bad surprises...
It might actually work out !
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