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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him...

She broke it off - now she wants to move in together as friends! Is it a bad idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been in a brief relationship with a wonderful woman who was my friend beforehand. She has now ended it and wants to go back to being friends. She wants us to move in together as housemates as neither of us have our own house and rent ...

I want to be friends with this male, but my husband don't like the idea, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I am 34 and have been married for 9 years. Like all marriages, it's had its ups and downs but on the whole we're very happy. Or at least that's what i thought. When i married my husband, he discouraged my having male friends. While this didn't ...

I know we're not ready for the relationship, so what should I be doing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma with my ex (we broke up 2 months ago). I want to be with him, but not right now because the timing is all wrong. We broke up mainly because he was depressed and homeless/jobless, but he's back on his feet again and seems ...

She's known as a bit of a pyscho

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6136 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - my bf has been seeing his ex alot that i dont mind because i see mine every week so i cant complain but im worried coz his exs mate is in one of my classes and tell me that his ex is still madly in love with my bf and will do anything to get him ...

We are good friends and 'f*ck buddies' but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hi there. I really like this guy and we were just good freinds who went out on night outs together. Then one night we ended up going together we are now"fuck buddies" but i have fallen for him in a big way....how do i explain to him that i want mor...

My best friend is in love with a married man! I want to help her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My best friend is inlove with a married man who has 2 children with his wife and is the stepdad to her other 2 kids. He lives about 1,000 miles away too. He keeps telling my friend that he can't leave his wife because of the kids, and i know this is ...

My best friend just told me he loves me, but I love my boyfriend! How can I keep our friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship already and my best friend just told me that he is in love with me. Im in love with my boyfriend so the only thing that can happen is for my friend to stop loving me. My friend has been in a situation like this before and he ...

Cheating-harrasment-lies...I'm in the middle of a bad situation and I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Please help me. My friend A told me she was seeing a friends husband B a couple of months ago but now its all finished. She is married and has four children and my husband and i were good friends with her husband and her. Problem started when a ...

I want to confront my friend about her having an affair with one of our teachers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I'm really suspicious of one of my friends because i think she having an affair with one of the teachers at our school! Before you think its my over active imagination consider this: 1.she nearly called him by his first name (we aren't even in his c...

When I was drunk I threatened my friends with violence - how can I make it up to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - my best friend betrayed me over a girl he's known for 2 months and ive known him for 7 years.He is 22 she is 30 and she has 2 kids he is now living with her only after a month of knowing her.her best friend is my ex girlfriend,she finnished me ...

I've fallen for my straight friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I'm a young gay man and ive fallen in love with one of my straight friends. Were very close and get on well together and i realy want to tell him how i feel but i dont know if i should risk losing our friendship over this.He knows ive fallen for ...

My conservative friends jokingly call me a whore and it's really bothering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - my new guy friends at the uni often tease me, they call me a whore and slut. i dont know why, they dont know me much its only our first yr. the only reasons i can think of is because i voice my opinions and am vocal about sexual stuff, i dress in ...

I'm dating my best friend's ex. She says he's a cheat - should I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - what do i do? My best friend and her boyfried broke up about a month ago. And now im going out with him. she was totally into him before. now shes telling me that hes no good and he doesnt really care about me and he prolly has a gf somewher...

Two room mates..one is very nice..the other is very nasty! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I house share with two females, both are a year younger than me so they 22. They've known each other for about 13 years. I have been living with them for about 6 months. I get along with the girl whose house it is really really well. Everything is ...

My bf's friend accused him of being with me for sex! Now I'm worried I'm being used!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi, My new boyfriend (of 4 months now) told me at the weekend that he had fallen out with one of his best mates. Apparently when they were out last week his mate was saying that he is only going out with me cos im the only person who wants him and ...

They stop being my friend when I don't want to be their girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - many guys come around me for relationships but i don't give them a listening ear. but anytime a boyfriend of mine ask for a relationship,i fight with them and that would be the end of the friendship. what should i do?...

My friends all have relationships..but not me! I feel humiliated..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - all my friends are in a relationship except me and when i'm in their midst,i feel humiliated and i have always have that dream of having my own guy when i'm about finishing my course in school.what should i do...

My ex and my friend are dating! Should I confront him with my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - My ex of like 9 months ended it with me!! she said she just didnt feel the same way anymore n how she loved me but not in love with me etc etc etc, the usual stuff. but now my like best mate n her r getting too friendly for my liking, surely they ...

I' m so confused by his behaviours! Are we friends or are we dating?? How does he feel towards me, now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend.he says he is not fit to be my boyfriend.he says that i m a good gf but he is not a gd bf.i try to convince him that he not a bad bf but then later on,i slowly accepted the fact.he say he does not want to call this ...

She's gay so am I awkward around her because of her sexuality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My partner left me back in august and i put an advert in my local classifieds for a female friend to go shopping with etc. Paulines reply came a week and a half later and we hit it off straight away. The thing is she told me in the first week that ...

He doesn't seem happy in the relationship and seems to work round avoiding her so why stay with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I have a good friend(male) who I have feelings for and him for me. But he has a girlfriend who is quite a bit older than him and who he lives with, so we have not allowed anything to happen, It wouldnt be right. I am keeping a bit of distance ...

Need advice on how to make friends...people think I'm an idiot because I hardly talk! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - I have a problem. I'm 19 an I don't know how to make friends I'm taking a year out and I thought to myself it would be good for me as a person, socially and personally. The problem is that people at one of my jobs think I'm an idiot because ...

Friendship problems...do I talk to him about it or just leave it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - A friend keeps puting down my ex and my decision to go out with him in the past many times, also about my degree tough I have a Ph and work for uni, he also talks badly about my best friend who suffers from cancer and who is a nice person without ...

He doesn't seem interested..so should I let go of this good opportunity and just date others or hang in there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - A group of friends insists that one of their friends is after me, he takes time to talk with me when we meet by chance and texts me sometime but he has made no effort go out with me for a coffee or anything, moreover he's always talking about sex ...

I'm 20, in college-I'm lonely and am trying to figure why guys won't date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i am a 20 year old going to college, for me its a lonely part of life. I work too much, i have hard classes and i am very shy. the only real serious boyfriend i had was 1 1/2 years and that was two years ago. i havent dated yet. i dont know what my ...

My co-worker is irresistable, but there's still one problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have a crush on this guy. I work with him. Hes the greatset the person i have ever met. We are always texting each other on our cell phones and when i'm not with him, i think about him constantly... There's one little problem.. I'm 17 going on ...

Can a 12-year age gap work out or should I let it go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Okay, so I've been reading some of the posts on age differences and they're all pretty reassuring. I'll be legal (18) soon and have had a pretty strong interest in someone 12 years older than I am. We've developed a really great friendship and ...

I think I was jumping to too many conclusions with my male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - My problem is that in the past I have been badly betrayed/hurt in a past relationship (ok haven't we all!) Basically I found out that not only was he sleeping with co-worker behind my back he also lied to me about his marriage when we first ...

How do I ask her out without seeming uncool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

24 November 2006 (?) - i really like this girl who is 14. i'm 16. we met once before. havent really after again. had a good chat for about 2hours. after there's just been smiles and hi's when we go past each other in school. i want to ask her out before xmas! i got her ...

Want this friend to be my sex buddy--is this wrong and what do women really think of the sex buddy concept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - ok so I met this girl with a bubbly personality. I find her really attractive too (even if she does carry a bit of weight - no offence) but I don't want a full blown relationship. Trouble is I can't stop dreaming about her as a sex buddy. Is this ...

I am sooo jealous of seeing my best friend with other girls! Why can't I just be happy for him..this is tearing me up inside!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old and I am sooooo jealous seeing my best friend with other girls because I really really really like him. I have liked him more then just a friend since I first met him and seeing him with other girls, even ones who are just friends ...

I give him head-I take him places-I lend him money..but he has no time for me. Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - ok here is my deal.... i am a very lonely college student that hasn't had a boyfriend in two years. i have been used by guys in some many ways and i know it. sometimes I did sexual things for them thinkin i could get them that way. Yeah, doesnt ...

He always has a problem with my friends, is he a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Things are a bit rocky with my boyfriend. Since March we've split up twice but always got back together after a few weeks. When we are together we get on really well and i love him to bits but we always argue about the same thing - he always puts ...

Everytime I talk to her she takes it the wrong way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - I just want to try this out before I register. I am having a problem and I am not really sure what to put it under. I will try to explain it as best I can. I have a "friend", well I am trying all I can to be friends with her. Without saying ...

I Iike this guy who is my best friend's ex...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - dear cupid x i have a problem i've fancied this boy who is 15 years old but i don't know what to do. he doesn't notice me and i've only known him for a while. he's my best friends ex and i want to know how to resolve the problem please help x...

I love my best friend... Can I get my best friend to fall in love with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a major problem, first it started out as a small inside joke then i started to feel different about it but now i'm in love with my best friend. I've told them how i feel about them and they keep saying that they don't want to ...

He wanted to be sex buddies-I agreed-and then he backed out. And now he's ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - Here is an update on what i was trying to say: So I meet this guy.We both like each other. I wanted a relationship and he didn't but he did want friends with benifts. Thats ok with me. He tells me I will be the only girl that he will have and th...

I am distraught because my soulmate and best friend has walked out of my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I am distraught because my soulmate and best friend has walked out of my life. Twelve years ago I met and became friends with a man at university. Soon we were spending every day together, sharing everything in our lives. We dated briefly fo...

I just want to be friends with this interesting new lady. So how do I not ruin it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I've just recently made friends with a lady who happens to be the same age as myself and she's really great to get along with! So much so that I now have something to look forward to when going to work in the a.m. (as we met on public transport a ...

I'm 15 and my best friend is 23 year old lesbian. My Mom doesn't like it..so what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I am lboys friend and using his account to get my question answered Well it starts like this.... i am a girl who is 15 and my best mate is a 23 year old lesbian. it is a normal friendship like it would be between sum 1 of my own age. i stay over...

Afraid I'll make a fool of myself when I meet his friends...any tips to help me relax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy i met online now for 6 months and he always comes over to my place (we live in different towns). He has recently asked me to go over to his place to meet his friends and im absolutely petrified! I like this guy a lot and ...

He flirts with my friends, just to see my reaction!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I met a boy and I started to like him a lot. He makes me feel like he likes me too, but at the moment when we go out in groups he likes to pretend he is flirting with my friend to see my reaction, and of course it bothers me. What should I do?...

I knocked back friends-with-benefits and offered Just Friends, but now he won't even talk about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - This guy wants friends with benefits but when it finally comes down to it, he says no and leaves. Well I told him that I wanted to be friends because this is awkward and now he won't talk to me. What's up?...

My friends ex really want to be with me and won't stop trying even though I told him I don't want to hurt my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - One of my friends ex boyfriends has asked if I would like to start seeing him. She is very upset about the split still and seeing him would be very hurtful to her. I would also be likely to lose her as a friend and in likelihood another two friends ...

We broke up so what does he mean when he says..he wants to be friends with "somebody that he's cool with?" Does that include me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - im so confused.....ok my bf and i broke up a month ago becuz he said that he dont love me and that he dont want a relationship right now and just wants to be friends for right now........( well i know that he does love me and that he didnt want to ...

I have deep feelings for my friend. I want to ask her out, so which is the best way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 November 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. she trusts me and tells me everything whenever she is upset i'm there for her. so we are very close. recently i realized i have feelings for her. i want to ask her out. what is the best way? i really care for her. she ...

He's said "I'm fit and buff" on msn..but I know he has a gf! Is he just joking or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Ok So Theres This Guy At School Which I Think Is REALLY Cute But He Has A GF But The Thing Is Sometimes On MSN He Say "Your Fit" or "Buff Thing" Etc.. And Then Goes Offline. Is He doing This As A Joke Coz Hes Really Popular And Im More Of A Quiet ...

I've fallen for my friend and only have three months to tell him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Help me please! I have fallen big time for a friend how do i tell him? im 24 he is 29 both single him newly single, he moves away soon (in 3 months)and very far away. i have really fallen for him but not sure what to do!dont tell him and enjoy th...

I told my friend how I felt about her, now she never wants to mention it again! I can't just forget how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

19 November 2006 (M) - I am 29 years old. I have a very close female friend that i have sat back and watch go through one terrible relationship after another. I have always wanted to ask her out but was afraid of what might happen. Well one day i told here how i felt ...