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female
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anonymous
writes: I met a boy and I started to like him a lot. He makes me feel like he likes me too, but at the moment when we go out in groups he likes to pretend he is flirting with my friend to see my reaction, and of course it bothers me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): He is acting very immature, so tell him so. Tell him also that you don't like this behavour and can he please stop it. It doesn't sound to me as if you are both very old. If he persists and you don't like it then decide if this relationship makes you feel good, if not then get out now before it gets too heavy.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (21 November 2006):
Tell him you don't like it when he flirts with other girls. If he really likes you and cares about how you feel then he will stop. If he still continues then it would be wise to find someone who cares about your feelings. Dump him if he continues to do it. Don't settle for someone who isn't making you happy.
Or maybe you could give him a taste of his own medicine and flirt with other guys in front of him and see how he likes it. If he doesn't and tells you he doesn't then that's the perfect opportunity to tell him how you feel when he does it to you.
Hang on a minute... is this guy even your boyfriend? Are you two even going out? Because if not then he has the freedom to flirt with other girls. Of course it's gonna bother you even if you're not going out because you like him, but if you're not even dating stop getting so worked up about it.
If you like him ask him out and then when you start dating he ought to stop filrting with other girls.
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