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writes: My ex of like 9 months ended it with me!! she said she just didnt feel the same way anymore n how she loved me but not in love with me etc etc etc, the usual stuff. but now my like best mate n her r getting too friendly for my liking, surely they wudnt do anything. and they speak on the phone like every other day and things, i want to accuse him tht there sleeping togeva becus i really believe they are, but he just keeps saying there just mates, and sarah says she wud never go out with him becus it wud ruin there friendship n shes not attracted to him. i cnt believe there friends with eachother thou its not right, shud i confront him how im feeling or leave it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (26 November 2006):
 Take her and your friend's word that they're just friends until you find out otherwise.
You don't want to be known as the neurotic ex bf and if you see a future with her then give her space.
She being friends with your best friend might just bring her round to realise what she's lost - but then again maybe not, either way there are no guarantees. But fighting them will cause you to probably end up loosing them both.
Good luck and let us know how things.
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reader, Kwiringira  +, writes (26 November 2006):
 It's better that she was honest with you to tell you that she doesn't feel the same way anymore, If you believe that she once loved you, then respect her feelings by not Confroting her where she finds her happiness. It will not add you any respect to you and your friend. You never know she might revise her minds and come back to you.
Live happily!!!
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