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female
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anonymous
writes: This guy wants friends with benefits but when it finally comes down to it, he says no and leaves. Well I told him that I wanted to be friends because this is awkward and now he won't talk to me. What's up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): He wants the "benefits"; you want to be platonic friends. He's made it very clear that he won't even negotiate about it.
He won't talk to you so - you are not interested in talking to him, either! Forget him; he's not worth it, and you deserve a guy who will respect you and value you for who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): Sounds like he just wants the benefits to me. He doesnt want to be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): The guy is trying to move on from you, and he is not looking for a friend with benefits reltionship, thought he could do it, but now he does not want to, I think he does not respect you because you were willing to be "that kind of friend"....give him some space and maybe he will talk to you as a friend at a later date.
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