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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I'm trying to make new friends, but one single rejection and I'm devastated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7023 days ago

29 September 2005 (M) - I want to try and improve on social skills by going to pubs and bars and making general small talk. Sometimes it goes well, but it really only takes one bad chat, and I'm right back there on square one again. Even when it does go well, it's not ...

I love and trust my boyfriend to enjoy the company of his friends, but I don't feel the need to go out with them...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7022 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been living together for just under a year and it’s been great so far, except now he is starting to complain that I don’t spend enough time hanging out with him and his friends. Lately, I prefer to stay home and ...

My relationship with my friends is starting to change, and I'm getting the blame...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7023 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I've got two best friends and we've known each other since we were about 4 years old (we're all 17 now). Recently, one of my friends (*Dee) has got a boyfriend and she spends all of her time with him, and as a result, me and my other friend ...

My friend doesn't want to risk our friendship, but he doesn't know how strongly I feel...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7022 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I have liked one of my best friends for ages, and we flirt heavily. We are very close, but he doesn't want to go out with me cos he thinks it will ruin our friendship. The problem is I think I love him and am desperate for us to have a go at it....

The kiss didn't change anything, she says, but I feel like being more than friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7025 days ago

26 September 2005 (M) - I need some help. Here is my situation. Two weeks ago, I met a girl, and she's amazing. We have a lot in common, and we became fast friends. She keeps making all these gestures that she likes me more than a friend, but I don't know. I'm going...

Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6769 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...

How could we go from lovers to friends to... this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7026 days ago

26 September 2005 (F) - My ex dumped me about 8 months ago due to an illness I had, which was at the time unbeknownst to me and him. I didn't discover for a couple of months after the break-up how incredibly sick I was. When we broke up, he was adamant about remaining ...

I don't want a relationship... I just want to feel sexy and special for a few minutes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7026 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Hi everybody, I don't know what to do. I am in a very difficult part of my life. Me and my boyfriend of 1 and a half years broke up just over a week ago over a silly argument. He got nasty and called me offensive names btu then he told me he was s...

The guy wasn't interested when he was single, but he is now, since he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7024 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, About 5 months ago I told a guy that I really liked him but he turned my down and exclaimed that we should just be friends. I told him that I had got the wrong impression and he was giving me false signals. Now he tells me that he...

My friend is depressed. What can I do to help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - Hi, My friend is really depressed at the moment and she has been to the doctors. They said it was something to do with her hormones, but I'm worried about her. Sometimes she just wants to burst into tears. What can I do to help her?...

Can I love my boyfriend and my friend at work simultaneously but in different ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7028 days ago

23 September 2005 (F) - I met my friend in the same company. He's a very outgoing person, very friendly to everyone. We are pretty good friends (at least that's what I feel). We can keep on chatting many things and have a lot in common. Maybe because he's a lot older ...

We're only friends, but our finances and obligations are tangled together. Is it time to sort them out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7031 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have friend and we have been become really close in the last 3 years. Like married, but not. He is gay and has always asked me for advice and we have even have accounts together and credit etc... He has moved now and we have not had the same ...

We're friends with benefits, but I'm ready for more than that. Should I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - Confused about my relationship with someone who is an friend and lover. I have been friends with this guy that started out as no strings attached. We are great friends now. I have grown to love him. I never told him that. I love him so much that...

My mate has moved away and I fancy his girl... Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

21 September 2005 (M) - I like my best friend's crush, and I think she likes me. My friend has moved away and but he still talks to her on a regular basis. I know he likes a girl up where he lives, but he still likes the one here. My friends say I should go for her, but ...

I never know what to say. How do I learn to make friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - Hi Im due to start university next year,..my problem is that I have never had any true close friends. Does anybody have any advice on how to make friends?? I am not particularly shy or annoying and therefore had trouble talking to people, it is...

My best girlfriend and her guilt-tripping has come between me and my man...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7016 days ago

20 September 2005 (F) - HI there, please can someone help - I'm going crazy here. I wrote a while ago explaining that I moved to the US to be with a man who dumped me because I basically ignored what he wanted and moved into his house with no leaving date (we had agr...

Why can't my friends see that they're dating losers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - Why is it that I can see the men my friends date are losers, and yet they still think that they are perfect? It's almost like they can see the bus coming but just stand on the road until they are squashed. I am normally the one to scrape them off ...

When they realised how many lies I was telling, my friends all ditched me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I have made a big mistake. I used to lie about anything and everything to impresss my friends, and other times lies would just come out without me being able to stop myself from lying. I lie about big things, small things and usually also abo...

How can I get over the image of my girl snogging someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7032 days ago

18 September 2005 (M) - Hello everyone, I've never done this before, but I am having some problems that in my head are really big. I have been with my girlfriend for over two years and we have lived together for about a year and are quite serious. A couple of days a...

I'd hate to lose him as my friend, but we're interested in dating each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7037 days ago

15 September 2005 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about 8 years now. During our friendship, I got married and divorced, remarried and about to go through another divorce. He has always been my shoulder to cry on. When things started to go wrong in my curr...

I didn't think I'd miss my (female) friend from work this much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7038 days ago

14 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I am a married man in late 20s, married my girlfriend last year everything was is well. We have been together for years and have 2 kids. Recently I got to know another girl in my workplace. We became really good friends, just friends that's a...

My family and friends might not accept my girl's child. Do I risk it by dating her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7037 days ago

14 September 2005 (M) - I have been friends with a girl on and off for years. We would both like to take the relationship further. The problem is that she has a child from a previous relationship, who just happens to be of a different race/skin color. This doesn't ...

We're both straight and we don't have gay feelings for each other... but I feel almost "lovestruck" about him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

13 September 2005 (M) - I am a 20 year old single straight guy and am confused about my friendship with my (male) best-friend. We always have a good laugh together, enjoy each others' company, share problems etc. etc, and I feel like I can speak openly with him about ...

What can I do to start making friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7040 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - How to make more friends? I am a first year student. Now I have few friends. I sometimes feel lonely. What should I do to make more friends? ...

All those gestures and kindnesses... don't they mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7041 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - I was new in this country when I had this colleague who at first seemed to show interest in me. Being a foreigner who does not know anything on the people's attitude on this country, I am not sure if he's just being nice or he likes me. With doubt ...

It's so lonely at school since my former friends started spreading rumours about me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

10 September 2005 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts I am a sixteen year old girl in my last year at school. About 6 months ago, my friendship with 4 other girls finished over an argument, which was my fault, I do admit. However, it was not a big deal yet it still caused these gir...

Is it weird that my girlfriend would spend her weekend at an intervention with her male friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7042 days ago

10 September 2005 (M) - I need advice. I've been dating this girl for about 3 months. Everything is awesome. She has this annoying friend in Maryland who is an alcoholic and is in AA. He invited my girlfriend and his parents down for an intervention this weekend. Well she ...

Dating a friend just doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

9 September 2005 (F) - The guy I am with right now used to be one of my closest guy friends and then I decided to give a relationship a try. But now I am having second thoughts. He's always around me and hanging on me all the time. Also, when he holds on to me I get the ...

I'm perfectly happy with my own company and no relationships. Am I strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

8 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am an adult guy and quite enjoy being in company of my own. Actually, the times in solitude are some of the most relaxing times for me. I have been like this for ages. But now that I am becoming free and can earn my own bread, I don...

Why would he rather spend time with his female friends than with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - How can you really tell if someone is in to you? How can you tell if they are holding back or keeping distance because of them and not you? For example....The guy that I have been seeing now for a couple of months is great. We talk every day, ...

My female friend has gone snappy, and I don't know why...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I am having a problem with one of my female friends. We used to be quite close and would hang out every day and do heaps of things together. Ages ago we slept together, but she didn't want anything more so we just continued to be friends....

I want to be friends with my friends, but they seem to want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7045 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - hi, I am an 18 year old girl and mainly have male friends. I do prefer male company as I tend to argue with girls. I have been friends with a group of males for a few years now! However I dated one of them for 1 year, it did end well but he still ...

A jealous friend is spreading terrible rumours and now everyone hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

7 September 2005 (M) - I have had a girlfriend for about 3 months now and everything is perfect! Communication, affection, whatever you can name is perfect. There is just one problem that isn't either of our faults, and that is her friend. Her friend got very jealous and ...

My husband wants a child of his own. Could he donate sperm to our friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

7 September 2005 (F) - Dear Abby, I moved in with my 4th husband just 3 days after meeting him. We were married 2 years later and married 8 yrs this May. We have lived together 10 years, and I have never regretted a day of it. He is the love of my life and I would...

I want to know if my male friend is just being chatty, or if he might be interested in me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a male friend who I meet up with once every month/2 months for a drink amongst friends. However over the last 6 months I have noticed when he feels no-one is looking he winks at me and when we went out last week, after he had winked at me ...

What did he mean? "Too attached"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - Hi, I really like this guy, we spent 3 months together hanging out. We decided that we were going to be friends with benefits. Things were going really well, he was getting really affectionate, and it looked like we had a lot in common. ...

My friend's girlfriend is so jealous, she wants us to break off any contact!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I have a problem with a friend in my classroom. I am an 18 year-old girl and I have a close friend. He is very poppular in my classroom but I never feel about him more than a friend. He has girlfriend that very lovely, cool and talent but she is ...

Should I tell my friend about the way my feelings for her are developing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7042 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I'm falling in love with my good friend. She is very nice, sweet and generous. We've been friends for several years. I first met her at an orientation camp before we went to the USA on an exchange programme. I like talking ...

He's not the sort of boy that I'm really interested in going out with, but I want to keep him as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

3 September 2005 (F) - I am seventeen years old. I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I am friends with a nice boy. He's a really genuine boy and he is a really good friend to me. We get on really well and always have got on really well since we be...

The girl I want is attracted to someone who doesn't love her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6948 days ago

3 September 2005 (F) - I have a friend that I love very much. A few weeks ago she had some guy contact her but everybody and I knew that he was a bad guy and he has many girlfriends. He doesn't love her for real. But she loves him very much. What should I do? ...

Inside the office, my colleague acts differently from the way he acts outside it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6994 days ago

1 September 2005 (F) - I have a hard time figuring out why my colleague acts sooo strangely. We talked and joked to each other a lot every day in the office though almost all our conversations were work related. And lately I noticed that he started to flirt a bit in ...