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writes: I like my best friend's crush, and I think she likes me. My friend has moved away and but he still talks to her on a regular basis. I know he likes a girl up where he lives, but he still likes the one here. My friends say I should go for her, but I don't want to hurt my friend. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): Well i would ask the girl first. Ask her if she still loves her man the moved. If she doesn't take time on it and don't push the relationship. I think you should go for her because your friend has a girl up there he likes and if he finds out you like his old girlfriend then he will give up on the old one and he'll go for the new one. If she likes you back too..DEFINTLY go for it. I think it would be best to take that girl out and she wut she thinks and be with her.
I hope i helped! :-)
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reader, missdee +, writes (21 September 2005):
If you give it some time your friend will most likely forget about the girl there. Long distance relationships are almost impossible to make work. If you go for it now then you could destroy your friendship.
Stay friends with her. Spend some time with her, getting to know her better. If you are still interested in her and she in you, then talk to your friend and tell him that you two want to date each other. He will come alot closer to understanding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2005): Obviously, your friend considers his relationship with his girl over, or he would have never told you to ask her out. You seem to be presuming that she likes you, and would like to date you. I hope you are right. But, to be on the safe side, be prepared for her to say " No," when you ask her out.
Now go ahead and ask her out. When you really get to know her, and she gets to know you, either one of you may decide that you are not suited for each other. Hope it works out for you.
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reader, wishes +, writes (21 September 2005):
 I would recommend to speak with your friend before you do anything. you say you dont want to hurt your friend so tell him that you want to talk to him about something. Say youve started to have feelings for this girl but wont act on it if he feels uncomfortable with it. He needs to know that your friendship means more to him and you wont pressure him into saying its ok if he doesnt feel it is. Of course if you are in love with the girl it could be a different story as she may be the "one" for you. But seriously, talk to your friend before you do anything. Good Luck!
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