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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we g...

I made a mistake by writing him a love letter - I feel awkward as our conversations are tense now! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ok where i work at is a family business which is ran by two brothers who are my bosses one of the brothers has children which 2 of them work in the store as well so they also have authority I've liked one of they're sons for a long time and would ...

I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer ...

How should I tell my teacher that he made my life worth living?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My chorus teacher (who I'm in love with, but forget about that right now) is the reason why I'm still here today. I was suicidal in eighth grade and was going to follow through with it if ninth grade didn't go well. Obviously since I'm in twelfth ...

In love with my married teacher, and I'm going to tell him, will it work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm completely in love with my super-awesome chorus teacher who's 32 and married. I was planning on telling him the very last day I'd see him (I'm graduating soon), but I'm not anticipating any kind of reply or ...

Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...

Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my ...

I'm scared for me and my girlfriend, can you help, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Last December, I met this lady in a bar. We became friends and eventually started a relationship. A month ago, she disappeared without a trace. I figured she'd run off with someone else. Then two weeks ago, I got a letter from her saying that she ...

I'm pregnant with his baby and didn't know he was married! I really need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love and had a 1 yr affair with a married 53 yr. old man that has been married for 18 years and has 2 kids (17 and 13yrs). I didn't know he was married until 6mo into the relationship. He claims that he is madly in love with me ...

Confused by the way a teacher acts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is ...

This is the BEST and WORST situation EVER!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Ok, last year my dad met a woman...She is a really nice woman and I have no problem whatsoever with her. And they moved in with is. She has a daughter 1 year younger than me, and she is pretty much drop dead gorgeous. My dad and her mom are not ...

I like him even though he's a different race but my friends/family tell me not to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 and like a guy who works in my office! We don't actually work togther, but it's not a big office so I see him all the time. He likes me, too, we've been talking all week while he's been out of town (on business, of all things). What's ...

I'm nursing a burning, secret passion for a teacher. Should I write him a little note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I am 16 years old and practically on the brink of taking my GCSEs (in fact, I've got my first oral on Monday). Problem is, for eight months I haven't been able to stop thinking about a teacher at school. I would estimate him to be in his late ...

Help me understand him! How do I know if this teacher has feelings for me, or is just being shy? I'm over 18, by the way....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Help me! Help me! how can undersand if a man is just shy and that's why he don't make the huge step to be his gf..or he just don't want me! I'm sure that he has feelings for me..but as i read many girls has the same problem with me..he is my teach...

I'm not sure if he is flirting me or he just sees me as his student.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hello,everyone i'm new here and as you can understand is my first message.I want some aswers from you!Please!Well,I'm 21 and i'm in love with my actor-dance teacher..he is 33!I do with him only 1 in a week but i see him the other days (when he has ...

I have a massive crush on my college tutor! I'm not looking for a way out of my marriage though.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - I'm a mature student and have a massive crush on my tutor at college. He's about 10 years older than me if that, as far as I know he's still single, I'm married though, I've been unhappy with my husband for at least 18 months. I'm not just l...

Do you believe a married man when he tells you what a witch his wife is?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - To women who are having an affair with a married man. Do you believe your married man when he is telling you what an evil B*tch his wife is and how you are so much nicer and how much he loves you?...

I met this man who has a live in girlfriend. I really like him, but should I run?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - ok ppl here it goes, im getting divorced, i met a man, i really like him, he lives with a girl, not married no kids for 5 years says he is unhappy, i have not had sex with him. He wants to be with me and says it will take a while to leave her that ...

I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...

I caught my husband with the nanny!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - I caught my husband making out with the nanny. what should I do?...

We can no longer be together since it's ILLEGAL!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 April 2008 (M) - I love this guy but we can't be together because he is 18 and i am 15 going on 16.. we hvae been together 3 years and now we cant be together any longer because it is illegal. he said that maybe we should just wait till im 18 but im scared he will ...

I have a crush on my mom's cousin! I think he likes me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do.I have a crush on my mum's cousin.He isnt much older than me.Should i tell him how i feel or not ?. He has smiled alot at me, asked if i have a boyfriend afew times, danced with me at a party and bought me a drink, and he ha...

I was his mistress and now we are together. Why am I still competing with the wife?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i am a 21 yr old who is dating a 33 yr old man. He left his wife for me and i believe he loves me very much as do i him. He has 3 kids who absolutely dispise me as well as alot of financial stuff from his past with his wife.I know his wife is still ...

I am in love with the school janitor! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - okay. this story has a LOTTTT of background but i'm not even gonna go there (however some of it is unavoidable)its gonna get confusing, but lets start here: i'm head over heals in love with one of the school janitors. He is 13 years older than i am ...

It's a sticky situation but I think I'm really in love! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - My married ex-boyfriend introduced me to his single brother by setting us up on a casual date that wasn't supposed to go anywhere, since he was gonna meet my bestfriend from out of town...Long story short, no matter how it happended it's been 2 ...

I know I need to walk away but I'm In love with a married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this man.. who if truth be told is married. I have been seeing him for almost two months now. When I first started seeing him it was just for sex. I told him prior to us being together that there were rules so that I didn't become ...

How can I get over my teacher and overcome my depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Please, i need help, i have such strong feelings for my teacher :'( it feels so much like love, i want to be with him forever, but he clearly views me as a child, being his student and all, and i know that nothing will ever happen - i'm past the...

How do I tell my cousin I want the sex to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Well i'm going to start off at my cousin's house. One night me and him began doing sexual things to each other, i know it's gross but i was scared to tell him "no". When he comes around like at family get together's - i feel nervous when he even ...

We both like each other but he's older and married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - i like this guy who is 10 years older than me he is married and has 3 kids,he likes me too.what should i do?...

I'm still in love with him but now he's married! The pain is unbearable...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I have been in love with my ex boyfriend for 7 years, we broke up 7 years ago. I cant explain how he made me feel, this is true love, I have thought about him almost every day since we broke up, I have been in another relationship that lasted 5 ...

Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...

Is it wrong for him to tell me how long he's been married? What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Please give me your opinion! I have a friend who's married and to my knowledge he's happily married. He was telling me the other day he's being married for 3 years now, and he was kinda complaining that he travels a lot and this time he'll lose the...

Best friends with a married man so will he ever leave his wife? Is it because of money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I am a 37 yo woman with 3 children who has been married for 18 years and my marriage was over for months before I met this married man who said his marrieage ended a year before that too. We became best friends and helped each other through our ...

Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...

I'm 12yrs old and I like my 38yr old band teacher! I want to kiss him, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I really like my band teacher. he ALWAYS hugs me and kisses me on the head. he's like 38 and is my neighbor! he's not married. he always really open to me, like he'll tell me if something is bothering him. at the dance a song came on that we love ...

I'm in love with my brother's girlfriend, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

18 April 2008 (?) - For just over 4 years now I have been in love with my brother's girlfriend and have no idea of what to do. I know that she feels the same way about me because two years and half ago she confessed her feelings to me and for six months we were seeing ...

What is the term used for cousins in real love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - What is the term used for cousins in real love?...

Should he stay a virgin?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...

Dating step uncle right or wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1783 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - I have a freind who is dating her step uncle, they are not related by blood at all, but is it right? because i feel i should advise my freind on this!...

I see my teacher as a regular man with feelings so I don't idealize him. Should I wait to tell him my feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - hey i know this is the usual because many girls post this but im 17 and in 11th grade in love with my History teacher (30).... this all started 31/2 years ago....in 9th i would just see him teach lessons in his room....and i thought about nothing ...

I have fallen for my best friend! She's now engaged so I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

17 April 2008 (M) - Hi. As the title states, i've really fallen in love with my best friend but she is engaged and i have no idea what i should do next! A little information.... I have known this girl for just under 2 years now. She's only a year older then me....

Am I a lesbian for having a crush on my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - Hi i really need help! i no a lot of people have problems about a "crush" on their teacher. but i can PROMISE you this is more but the thing is i have never considered myself to be a lesbian but this teacher is the same sex. i cant stop thinking a...

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...

We love each other but...he is married and with 2 kids I'm married too but don't have kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - well i m a 19 year old girl who met a guy around 5 months bck he is married and with 2 kids i m married too but dont have kids. we love each other like crazy cant live without talking to each other even for a day. he is the manager of a different ...

Teacher student relationship goes terribly wrong Warning!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - What do I do?I'm going through a serious case about my teacher and I.First off we were dating.I'm 16 and he is 37.I knew it was wrong from the begining but because of having to see him daily and having him being flirty i gave in to him.There were ...

I need help getting over my teacher - but I don't know whether or not I'm in love with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number, ...

After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...

I should focus on somebody who is single, but feelings are feelings aren't they?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - Hi there, i've had a pretty eventful year, a 12 month relationship which included the birth of my first son has recently ended, but that's not what i wanna talk about. There's a girl that i work with and we've been acquaintances for well over 18 ...