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anonymous
writes:If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is normal and not flirty or anything. Does it mean anything when your teacher does that. In class it feels like you are the only there because it seems like he is talking to you and nobody else because he constantly looks at you. What does his body langusge and beahviour suggest?? My behaviour however is not flirty or seductive or anything its just normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): I agree that you're most likely imagining it. Teachers are just like that sometimes and most of the time they don't even realize that they're doing it. I've had teachers stare at me all through class and a lot of times they're just zoned out or uncomfortable so pick the calmest person in the class to talk to rather than looking at everyone.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (26 April 2008):
 It most likely means that you are imagining something that's not there. If it were as you describe and imply, then half the class would have noticed it and rumours would be circulating like a fire in a tank of petrol.
Also, teachers are really good at ignoring the attractiveness of the hundreds of good-looking young students they see at work. Although, obviously, there are occasions when a highly embarrassing and inappropriate incident occurs, it would be extremely rare indeed for it to happen without considerable encouragement from the student involved - which doesn't excuse the teacher, but you say that your behaviour is "not flirty or seductive or anything".
If you want to tell us more or send me a personal message on here, then I'll be delighted to make some further suggestions - and if you really believe that you have a problem, then you must let someone else know. But I think you may know all the answers, and more.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (26 April 2008):
 Ahhhh I have a teacher like this! It's quite an annoying situation for me really because A teacher who i'm head-over-heals for, shows little sign of liking me back yet this other teacher (His best mate) is quite freaky and always stares at me, lets me get away with not doin coursework, whenever I talk to him his eyes appear dilated and look ever so deeply into mine. And like you said about yours, he tends to focus all of his attention on me during class! Mine isn't flirty with me much either... I think its pretty obvious that our teachers like us, in perhaps a pervy way! However they're either shy or too protective of their job to flirt. They're probably trying to act discrete about it, but they aren't doing a very good job are they?
Don't worry about it! There's little you can do, besides it's nice to know that someone appreciates you - don't ya think? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Mm, I'm getting the impression here he probably likes you a bit more than he should. But well done for not flirting or encouraging it - as this behaviour on his part has got to be stopped. I'm positive that he is well aware that a relationship between the 2 of you is strictly illegal and NOT allowed. Whether he likes you or not honey, don't react to it at all. It's quite sick really, how he'd be like this with a young girl, whether it is on purpose or not. Make sure he knows that you don't like him back, or things could get sticky, to say the least.
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