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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he ...

If I really am the woman he is in love with and plans to be with for the rest of his life why has he made getting married so difficult?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years going on 3. We have two babies and are pretty serious about eachother. The only problem is that we seem to have completely different views about marriage. I want to get married desperately. Every inch of my ...

How do I cope with this breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years finished with me and is now in a relationship with another woman just 2 weeks later. I am in pieces. I cant eat I cant sleep I cant even go to work. We had a row and split but I thought we would work things out. But this time ...

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splittin...

She calls me her daughter but charges me $US 500 per month to live with her. Is that too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Im 19 year old, I live with my ex guardian. I have been living with Her since I was 16 year old when I dad passed. She increased my monthly payment to $500 a month for staying there. I used to pay $300 before. She calls me her daughter but why do I...

Moved away from girlfriend and the sister I have feelings for, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - I started dating my (now ex) girlfriend 4 years ago. She then moved in with her sister last year, which meant I spent alot of time with her and her sister. For 3.5 years I thought I was happy, well content maybe. Then slowly, my girlfriend, over a ...

I found out about his daughter a year into our relationship, and he didn't lend me money for my school fees because he puts her first!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24yrs and my guy is 29yrs too we have been friends since childhood but he asked me for a relationship as at last year so after one year he told me he had a 10yrs daughter out of wedlock and he said the reason why he refused to tell me such at ...

How can people get STD if both are 100% faithful? Can a STD be inherited from a mother? Not sure how STDs work after hearing things from fellow classmates.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Hello dear all and thank you in advance for taking your time for reading this. I am currently 21 years old and in a 4.5 year, heterosexual relationship with my first and only sexual partner, whom is 20 years himself. As on both accounts: we we...

What can I do about about my partner's willingness to be too kind for his own good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Situation is this.... My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. My partner has an ex wife with whom he is still going through separation issues and settlements. The separation was nasty so he has left it al...

Yes, there's depression (being medicated). And the desire to be more positive. So how do I get a more positive outlook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - How do I get a more positive outlook on life? I am twenty years old and I am struggling with severe depression. I currently work in administration with no hopes of furthering my career as my job contract ends here soon, and before that I have alw...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

I am 43 and I would like to have a baby.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 43 and would like to have a baby for the first time. I was married for 15 years but didn't try for a baby because my ex husband didn't want one. Since we divorced 5 years ago I hadn't met anyone with whom I could imagine having a child and ...

How to juggle the needs of my father and my desire to study and create a better future for me. Any ideas on how, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My situation is unique. When I was 17 my father who is my single parent became very sick and now is considered disabled and barely makes any money anymore so when I finished high school I got a job instead of heading off to college so I could help ...

Did I do the right thing by canceling this trip to see my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I just reunited with a friend of mine from years ago.He wanted me to come and visit him in a another state I felt ok about it but this morning I heard a voice telling me this trip I won't be taking my first thought was to run like hell ...

My husband has gotten verbally abusive again - how do I help him stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My husband has gotten verbally abusive again, even though things were getting better on that front for years. How do I help him to stop? (not so )Short intro: We've been together for almost 20 years. At the beginning things were OK. But as we finis...

My daughter is being so excluded in her class by her classmates. How can this ostracism be dealt with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, My daughter is being so excluded in her class. And the girls ignore her and don't really want to hangout with her. This of course has affected her and of course concerns me. She is almost 11, beautifull both inside and out., sweet but on the...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

Should just leave it or ask my mother why she felt the need to say such a thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I had my first child when I was 17 with my now ex boyfriend. Due to ill health my mother spent a lot of time looking after my child as I have epilepsy and found it hard to handle both at the time. As my mother couldn't take my epilepsy away bu...

Can a marriage last if only one side is in love with the other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've got in to a big mess and take full responsibility and need some advice. Please don't judge me as I hate myself enough right now..... 8 years ago I met a wonderful man whilst visiting some friends in another part of the UK. We hit it o...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3527 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Shall I move out now in a hurry because of my partner and her friends or shall I stick to my mortgage idea for next year?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend wants to move in after two years of relationship, I would absolutely love to but u don't want to do it just because her friends and cousins are. All her friends are moving out, living in private rent, wasting £600 per month in ...

Should I report my sister to Social Services?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi guys I just wanted some advice on a problem I am having. I I have a sister who is 29 years old and she has two small children. However she has started to drink alcohol around her children, to the point where she gets blind drunk, this has been...

I get no attention from him apart from when he wants sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now the problem is we have a 7 month old son my boyfriend has a dog he is constantly kissing and cuddling the dog it gets in between us on the settee to the point where I get that fed up I move onto the ...

Am I in the wrong? Or was it just insensitive of her? She hasn’t been there for me once over the situation, did I just expect too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Last year I found out my father wasn’t mine and my twin’s dad, but he was our elder sister’s father. Since this has come out we have had a strained relationship, mainly through her not understanding or being there for me. After months of struggle...

I feel so heartbroken, even though I broke up with him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So I've has a whirl wind 7 months. From the minute I met him he swept me off my feet and made me feel like the most special girl In the world! So what was the problem? His ex of 8 years who he has a daughter with, who left him and is now en...

Is it right or wrong to find a sex partner for my mother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

23 April 2015 (M) - ..my mom is 55 nw . My dad died 26 years back..I know that its been long that she had sex..i even know how it feels with out sex for humans ..so m planing to find someone for her sex life...is it right r wrong..?...

I feel like a single parent, how do I make him see I need him to help a bit more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Hello people I have a problem and don't know what to do me and my partner have been together for 2 years and 8 months we have twin boys together he has always gone to work as did I till I had my twins the problem is I feel like a single parent I get ...

Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My daughter in law is leaving my son and has made it clear that she is taking the children with her. Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?...

When I graduate I will most likely have to live with my troubled parents. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My parents have been drug addicts for the majority of my life. They were also both verbally and emotionally abusive towards me, and have tried to manipulate me beyond belief. Over the years I've accepted that my parents are the way they are, and...

Am I selfish for not being supporting him more? These should be my good years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I am in a situation where I love a man but he's taken on such a huge project and completely dismantled his house. We are talking a derelict shell. He may make 30k on a 3 year full blown project as its an old small terraced house in a bad area and...

My sister doesn't like my husband. I wonder if the best for me would be to have only my husband as family from now on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Hello Aunts. Very nice to be here.I'm new here. Thank you for accepting me as a friend. I'd like to ask you a question about my sister's behavior towards me . She is the oldest,I'm the youngest one. Mum passed away 2 years ago with a brain dis...

Whose surname should our baby take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Hi I was wondering what peoples oppinions were on surname for children. My first child has my surname as he's dad doesn't bother with him anyway, am pregnant with my second only been with the dad about 8 months we are not married who's surname ...

He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...

My mom has always been mean to me ever since I was just a child, but she's gotten worse and worse and I'm really heart broken.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I have not spoken or seen my mom in almost a year. To put it nicely, she was never a good mom. She was emotionally and physically abusive through out my entire life, and has never changed. I've always tried to talk with her about our problems and...

I am a stay at home mum, whilst studying a degree - my husband doesn't understand how hard this is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have an 18 month old little boy who at the moment has really start to test what he can and can't do. I am a stay at home mother and have been since the day our son was born. I have been studying a degree part time...

I just want to live with him but he keeps making excuses. Do you think it will happen any time soon?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over four years and yet we still haven’t moved forward in our relationship. We both live at home, me with my mum and him with his dad. I work full time and he is in university. We’ve been together since we were 16...

What motivates people to cheat? Especially why do married people cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all, ive been asking myself this question and i dont seem to get an answer. Why do married people cheat most. Why cant a person get out of a relationship than to stay when they are unhappy, than to sleep around with whoever thet meet?...

I want my mum to let my boyfriend come over, even though he owes her rent!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - I'm 21 years and I have been with my bf for 3 years now my boyfriend stayed at mine temporarily and during that time he got made redundant, he still owed her over 250 pound in rent so he had to pay it back, he got a new job in London but still had ...

Should I be too scared to say anything, just in case I'm reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Im in love with a guy and every time I see him im heart stops but im not sure how to read if he likes me. I have known him for 8 years now his ex step daughter and my daughter are friends we both stay in the same street when I see him he always g...

Doing things we shouldn't do, and I feel bad about that. He's been prosecuted and I suffered domestic violence. Will people ever learn to trust us again?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: DearCupid does not condone the use of illicit drugs. But you clearly feel bad about using illicit drugs and have promised to stop. Seems that you really do need some advice, despite your past use of illicit substances, when feeling under ...

I want my sex life back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We've always had a good sex life and if I'm honest I've never been able to keep up with my boyfriends sex drive. It used to really irritate me that I couldn't take a shower, g...

I think my partner's mother is out of order on this issue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - How do I explain it in a short way... I'm 25. I am in a same sex relationship with my partner who is 4 years my senior. We've been together just over a year. She has a 4 year old child with her ex, who they have been split for 3 years because he'd ...

I am happy for my sister, but still jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - I am 20 and my sister is 18. To put it blunt, our uncle is rich. 2 weeks ago, my uncle bought my sister a brand spanking new car, worth about $25,000 for her birthday, and to be honest it made me feel awful. My uncle has never bought anyt...

Family Interference every step of the way. What we can do to get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

19 April 2015 (M) - Basically I've been with my now fiance for seven months. Since the beginning of our relationship somebody has always had a problem with us being together, whether it be her family or one or more of her ex boyfriends interfering (one of whom she...

I do want to go back to work after baby is born. My Bf wants me to stay home. How do I resolve this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - I'm currently expecting my first child with my boyfriend of three years. Although our child wasn't planned, they weren't unwanted and the pregnancy was a lovely surprise and we are both excited. However in the past few months as my due dat...

Are arranged marriages successful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3535 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Heyy! So, my parents are setting up an arranged marrige for me. I know this guy and yes he is a great person but, the thing is i cant imagine my self married and leaving my loved ones(he has to travel alot due to his job). I need help!...

I can't imagine my life living in his crowded house!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles.. im having a dilemma about my relationship with my fiance And i need some wise advices and opinion from other perspective. Perhaps it will shed some light for what should i do. Well ive been with my fiance for over 5 years...