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writes: Dear Cupid I just reunited with a friend of mine from years ago.He wanted me to come and visit him in a another state I felt ok about it but this morning I heard a voice telling me this trip I won't be taking my first thought was to run like hell but I figured it is a reason why this trip won't work out.He's single and so am I we both have children but mine are grown he has teenagers to the babies. He is raising his son alone he told me we can be friends but he wants sex my thing is I am not about to play myself like a cheap thrill and there is nothing in it such a relationship. I am a family woman I want to be a wife not somebody's piece of tail Amy time he calls so for the safety of my heart and feelings I canceled the trip.Should I go just to have fun or leave him in the wind and watch him blow away.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (27 April 2015):
 No second thoughts, you did the right thing. Good for you OP!! Yes you would be reduced just to an FWB and thank God you didnt allow that to happen. You deserve much better. You listened to your instincts. That was the best thing you could go.
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (27 April 2015):
 I think you did the right thing by listening to that little voice. Many times people say they felt they shouldn't do something, but ignored that little voice in their head and then later really regret that they didn't listen!
If you know he wants sex (FWB) and you don't..then yes, you did the right thing and are protecting your heart.
Smart lady..look out for YOU!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 April 2015):
 If you don't want SEX without COMMITMENT... HE is not for you. He has already told you... all he wants is fun and sex.
You have some feelings for him, even though you DO NOT KNOW him that well. You know how he WAS YEARS ago, but he is not the same, neither are you.
Honestly? I think you did the right thing. He will WANT you do to do all the travelling and leg work/cost? so HE can get sex without having to really work for it?
I think you NEED to listen to your instincts.
YOU are not looking for a cheap thrill, and that is ALL he is willing to offer.
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