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writes:Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now the problem is we have a 7 month old son my boyfriend has a dog he is constantly kissing and cuddling the dog it gets in between us on the settee to the point where I get that fed up I move onto the other settee while my boyfriend and his dog stay together the dog can do no wrong he is always telling the dog how much he loves him where has me he has only told me once when I was in labour if I dare to mention the dog he says I'm nagging at him I get no attention from him apart from when he wants sex the worst thing is he knows how I feel as I have told him what do I do our son hardly gets any attention from him either thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2015): I just want to add that BrownWolf's answer was bang on!
At first I thought it was a woman responding but he is a man! To be honest, I was surprised a man wrote that.
I am blown away.
Awesome insight and advice from this guy.
Very wise!
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (24 April 2015):
 First of all...you are giving him a reward for doing the wrong things and then complain about it. Never give a man sex to get attention...Sex is to be a reward for him being a man, not a jerk. You should only be having sex when you are given all the things your cannot buy...Love, affection, attention, kindness, respect, and so on.Just like his dog. The dog gets attention because it shows love and affection to your boyfriend. He would not be so loving to the dog if it got mad every time he got close to it. Give love, get love. Same goes for you.Sex is never to be used as a weapon. Most women believe if they don't have sex with their man who is behaving badly, he will leave them...GREAT IDEA!!! Better to have man in your life who wants you first, than what you have between your legs first.Just because you have a son with him does make him "A FATHER." Any man who does not look after his child is a sperm donor, not a father. Second...he is not your husband. Boyfriends are what you test to see if they will make good life long partners. If they prove not to be...find one that will.I may sound cold...But life is very simple to live. We are the ones that make it difficult by the choices we make. Do the right things and life is AWESOME. Doing the wrong things, having the wrong people in your life, rewarding wrong behaviour, holding on to the wrong feelings and memories, and you will have a very complicated, unhappy, and depressing life.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (24 April 2015):
 Great "boyfriend" and "father" you've got there......
Why not simply cut your (and your son's) losses and get away from him. From your description of him.... he might not even realize that you were gone, until the next time he gets horny!
No woman should have to put up with what you describe.
Good luck...
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