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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...

Is it normal to not be affectionate with my family but I am with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - I don't cuddle my family and rarly kiss them or tell them I love them, but I cuddle and kiss my girlfriend ands tell her I love her alot, is this normal?... Or am I crazy?...

He distanced himself from me after my father passed away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for about three weeks when my father died suddenly. When this happened he told me that he wasn't the one who should be there for me and that I needed to be with my family and friends. This was about a week ago and sin...

Parents don't like my b/f and are always trying to come between us

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31 October 2010 (F) - Hello all! So my parents dont like my boyfriend, were almost ingaged, hes just getting the ring....anyways, my parents know were dating, they know were serious, but theyre always trying to come between us. Theyre always trying to catch some reason ...

My brother is married to my ex's sister, so trying to avoid him his very difficult. Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Okay. How can I get over my ex when we have to be around each other and be friends. See, My brother Is married to his Sister. Its crazy I know. But since this is the way it is. We have to be friends, which I don't mind I love being his friend. But ...

Still feeling horny for my cousin, even although I now have my own girlfriend... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My cousin is my first love. She didn love me. But, we did make out twice. We were close. I moved on. That was three years back. I met this girl in college. I am 21, she s 20. She s not hot or have a body that everyone will crave but she is cute ...

Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...

My boyfriend was naked with his cousin in our bed!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been with each other for 8 months. we asked his cousins to come play cards and they did. we all got totally wasted on vodka and beer and they were takinh pills. well i passed out in the next room and i woke up wondering were my bf ...

Daughter in law rules the roost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Suffering mother in law My daughter in law just wants my son and not me at all. Latest is to day both grandparents present and the 2 grandmothers did the cradle fun ceremony and were ready to leave town. She gave the baby to all 3 grandparents to ...

How do I talk with my mom after her stomping out of my house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - there has always been tension between my mom and my husband because he is 2 yrs older than her. she hates him 4 that which in turn makes him dislike her too. last night after dark as soon as our dinner was done my parents made an unannouced visit. ...

What should be my next move in order to restore some sort of sanity in my life because I feel myself breaking apart in anger and distrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - Alright I am not really sure where to begin because I feel that it is truly lost forever due to the fact that I have put forth a valiant effort in rekindling a four year relationship and my two year old daughter's future of mommy and daddy being ...

The thought of being with other guys literally makes me nauseous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Though my best friends are guys, any other guy in my life has been . I mention these early things because though I take ownership of my bad decisions, things that happened had a profound effect on who I am now. I am sorry it’s so long but it was ...

Wife had emotional affair with coworker... how to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for seven years. Through a lot of those years i was an alchoholic and addicted to pain pills and she was a "good girl" so to speak. She has always been there for me through all my screw ups... (trust me... i have had some ...

Should I confide in my b/f about my disabled sister or will he run?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice about whether I should talk to my new bf about a worry I have about my family. We've been together 2 months, and I feel so happy with him. He says he feels the same around me, and we've just been spending plenty of time ...

My mom needs prayers

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been busy taking care of the house and my brother; my mom is having a hard time because she is sick and needs some prayer.People at the hospital are giving her a hard time and it's making me a little worried and upset.I will ever be grateful ...

I am desperate for some privacy and trust from my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - okay, so i am seventeen years old and my parents do not trust me at all. not with money, my friends or boys. over the past year though i have been trying to rebuild that trust with them but they are so reluctant. sleepovers for example- they let me ...

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

Devastated after my mother's death. Help me..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - My muother has just passed away and i feel i cant cope any more i just dont know what to do my life has been ripped apart i was so so close to her i dont know what to do any advise please!...

My mother is still killing herself with food

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, I asked a similar question a few months ago and although most of the responses were very helpful, things haven't improved. I'm still very concerned about my mother's health and eating habits, she's very overweight and binges on things...

Mom asked if she made me "vocal"? What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - I tried asking this question before but i guess i needed more info. I was in a drive thru with my mom and i was yelling through the window that the resturant across the street was faster.lol. I loudly said the our nieghbor needed to quit putting ...

Is my step dad on drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Okay, I need to know this I suspect it but I gotta know Now here are signs I've seen in my step-dad if you work up for 16hrs then get home around 10p then stay up until 1am and wakes up at 6am every day, so 4-5 hours of sleep a day. doesn't ...

My girlfriend's mom doesn't like me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - I have another question I want to ask its about my parents and my girlfriend's mom. Her mom doesn't like me at all and my parents think her mom will do anything to get rid of me now her mom already lighten up about me and my girlfriend only just a ...

How can I repay my mom for her kindness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...

How can I make my parents understand that I am in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - (I'm 17 and my girlfriendf is now 18, we're each other's 1st love) I'm EXTREMELY annoyed with my parents! Why? Simple they keep on saying that S is my "friend" and that I don't love her I only like her -.-, if I liked her why would I give her a HE...

I feel like I have lost another family member, I don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hello. Im hoping somebody can help me get some answers to whats wrong with me at the moment. I am 37 years old and feel like im going mad. I shall start at the begining. When I was 6 months old, my biological mother left me out in the rain over ...

After we broke up I was so angry I went to his mum and told her everything! I know this was a terrible thing to do but I still want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of a year and a half just called it quits 2 days ago. I feel a sense of anger but I still can't get the sadness out. I told him I still wanted to be friends and I know he agreed just to be nice. So last night I did something ...

I'm so nervous about my children growing up and having sex too young, then ending up pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - my children are not old enough yet but one day they will be and this subject really makes me nervous. teen pregnancy. iv read a few just in the past few weeks on this site and that was enough for me to want to go get a couple of chastity belts and ...

I need help getting rid of Mr Gutter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I'm facing a real dilemna and really need advice asap. This past August I started dating a guy I met at a conference. We instantly clicked and things between us only keeps getting better and better. He's divorced with 2 kids who live with their ...

I don't want to spoil his new-found fun with his long lost daughter but how do I get him to see our daughter needs quality time too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi my husband of three years, has a daughter by a previous relationship and hasnt seen her for 5 years. The Ex now says its ok for him to see her. I am ok with that, but in the 3 years we've been married he has worked almost every week 6 or 7 days a ...

What to do in this lose/lose situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our ...

Could my dad be cheating on my mom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 October 2010 (?) - I was browsing through my dad's phone and saw a msg from a woman in our church giving him her banking details and said " i luv u c u on d....." What does that mean? Is he cheating on mom....

Why cant he even show our children some fatherly love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Hi,i once was married to a guy whom i got two kids with. My in laws recognized me as his wife but he delayed too much in officiating the matter. I later moved out of the relationship with my kids. He never bothered about our whereabouts until six ...

How do I get their father to take an interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I got married and had two kids with my husband. After five years i quit due to some misunderstandings with my husband. I left with my two kids whom i am still taking care of all by myself.My peers and relatives advices me to fall in love again an...

My boyfriend cheated and lied like he was going for an emmy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend charles and I have been together for a year and 5 months. We have a three month old baby boy. During the last few weeks of my pregnancy we took a break. during this break he proposed that we would only have sex with each other we would ...

I was a spoilt brat used to getting my own way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old and i havnt had the best figures to follow i love my family but they arent educated and i appreciate them for getting me to where i am, i am the first o go to colege in my family besides my father who i didnt live with growing up, ...

How do I handle my boyfriend's mother? She's driving me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 1.5 years and we've been living together for 4 months. He's the only child and lives with his parents. At first I didn't have a problem with his mom, but as time went by i realized that there are some annoyance cause...

He doesn't help with our daughter much...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ok, So I (26) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25) for 2.5yrs. We live together and we have a 15 month old daughter. It seems every 3 months he gets very irritated and will pick a fight with me over something small, but it wi...

My trust in him has died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up because he says I don't trust him..the reason I don't trust him is because he lies to me about the smallest things..we have a child together and my family lives cross country so I can't just move out quick..but then ...

My parents are going to kick out my pregnant baby sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - im 17 and my sisters 15 and pregnant and she wants too keep it and does not want to put her baby up for adoption but my parents and her have a rocky relationship so they dont want anything too do with her , i really want to help her because i love ...

I treated her bad so her famly came and took her away from me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - my problem is as follows, me and my gf have been dating for almost 10 months, she just turned 20 and im 22, i was a jerk in our relationship, did some terrible things which iam truly sorry for. Her family was concerned about her and just over a ...

LDR boyfriend coming to see me and wants me to sleep with him but I don't want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in India. Now he is coming to visit me in Australia and wants me to stay with him in a hotel. I don't want this coz i dn't want to hurt my parents since we are not married. How do i tell him this? I tried ...

Should I go for him or leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Ok. So I have a crush on this guy, it may not be that. I want to tell him I think he looks good :D why? I don't know. But if he were to ask me out I would go. But the problem is my cousin said he flirts with her and her coworkers @ work. She said ...

Angry at parents even though they do everything they can for me, want to stop feeling this way, help please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I want to stop feeling angry and my parents and sister, please help advise me how to... My parents are good people. They worked very hard, saved every penny and had a hard life. They've given me a good life as well, roof over my head, an educati...

Will our relationship last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - hi! am 23 years old, dating a 45 year old. he is married having three kids, his relationship with his wife is complicated. the wife left him with kids and went back to her home. the man is struggling so hard to raise the kids. will our ...

My fiancee wants to leave with my baby girl, how can I make her see all three of us should stay as a family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Hi All, Just need some advice as to what to do! A month ago me and my fiance started to have some issues with our relationship. Basically i've gone further and further down on her list to a point where i was getting absolutely no attention. We had a...

Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I have been living with Mr. Lebanese(nickname) for 2 years now. However, he is engaged as requested by his parents to someone she barely know (they just see each other if he's going for vacation which is 10 days a year). He's been engagged before we ...

Is my relationship with my father influencing my dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - Do I have daddy issues? About 3 years ago my dad stopped talking to me and yes, we live in the same house. I don't know why but I was a bit of a rebel. Nothing dramatic but I use to skip school and come home late. He used to lock me out of the ho...

Save my relationship with my mother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5171 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - My mother and I have a very stressful relationship. I reside in another city but due to a job change I will be moving back in w/ her, my brother, and her fiance. My mother and I, when apart, can often talk w/ out issue. However, when we are together ...

His family is keeping me from my love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - i am incredibly in love with my boyfriend, no matter how young i am, i still love him, he's asian, so his parents are a little stricter when it comes to his education. They have recently been making sure we dont see eachother as much, taking away ...

How do we tell our parents we want to be adult porn stars?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

25 October 2010 (M) - I am 18 years old and I sexually active athletic , and a model , I have been dating my girlfriend Alex for 3 years she is a model too , as well we plan to be together forever as well we have a desire to be adult film stars how do we go about telling ...