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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

It is heartbreaking to seem what is happening to her....how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Not sure that this is the right type of question for this sight but have read some answers here..a lot of sweet people with good insight respond. My mom has alzheimers and I try to go and see her every second weekend. She is not in this city. I work ...

How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...

How do I act at a wake...will I even be welcome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - i have a (hopefully) simple question to ask. what are you supposed to do at a wake? my boyfriend's grandfather died this morning and he is devastated. i'm doing my best to support him, by comforting him, cheering him up, and lending him a sh...

My cousin doesn't like my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - hi, i need some advice about my cousin. her and i have been quite close expecially the last 10 years (shes 25 and im 22), problem is that i began dating one of her work colleagues whom she doesnt get on well with...even though she introduced us in ...

Convinced my Dad is cheating on my Mum, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I am a teenager living at home with my Mum and Dad who have been married for 20 years. I recently found some texts on my Dads mobile and I am now convinced he is having an affair. Please help me because I can't stand the thought of my family been ...

How can I stop my mum being so controlling and stopping me from living with my brother ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a serious and important question that i need advise. Im 20 and i been together with my bf for 3mo but been best friends since 8th grade. Recently back in june my mom and me got into a huge fight and she kicked me out but i was ...

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i have fantisies all the time about her and im trying to get help fo me to stop thinking about her or if u have advice on how to make my ...

No matter what I do, my mum is never proud of me, would it be a good idea to move out and be totally independent ?

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26 September 2006 (F) - is it possible for an 18 year old who is not planning to go to college for a year or so to just bartend and move out of their parent's house and be TOTALLY independent??? My house is hell for me and I really want to move out ASAP. I am planning to ...

How can I bring him out of his shell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have ...

I don't think I am in love with my fiance anymore. I feel like I am staying with him for the sake of our daughter. What should I do? Any advice welcome.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we got engaged a year ago. He has a 6 year old daughter from a previous relationship who does not see her mother and who I consider to be my child. We have had our ups and downs, but for the most part ...

My husband spends less and less time at home with me and my son. How can I get our life back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - Hi, I am married for last 9 years and has a kid(aged 8). I am a busy executive(works close to 12 hrs @ times) and heads home staright after work.For past 1 month, I am seeing my hubby spending very less time at home, with me and my son. He loves to...

I constantly look down on myself. Could it be because I think my father hates me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - help! i think my father hates me. my father wasnt around my whole life so when i was about thirteen i decided to meet him. over the next few years iv seen him maybe 3 times. he dosnt call on my birthday christmas or ever. he loves his other children ...

We fight all the time and when I leave home I may not bother at all!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - I sent a question in ages ago about me having problems with my sister (12th may) she's 18, im 20 and I've tried to respond and communicate to her with advice i was given on this site and things haven't improved. In fact, they've gotten worse. We ...

My dad spoils his kids from another relationship. How can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My dad does not act like he loves me.he broke up with my mom.so me and my brother visit him.he got a new girlfriend.he had 4 kids by his new girl.my dad takes family pictures with his new kids.buys his new kids shoes clothes hats.he does not care ...

I am really starting to fall for my boyfriend, but why are his parents being so nasty towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - hi im 16 years old and in desperate need of help. Ive finaly found a great boyfriend. Hes funny, lovely and really loves me back weve only been going out for a few weeks but im really starting to fall for him. But we had a littel misunderstanding in ...

Why is my daughter acting in this way? We dont approve of her boyfriend, but that is no excuse.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - My daughter is 25 years old, she is a medical doctor recently graduated. She has been involved with this man for some time now, and did not say anything to her 2 sisters or her father nor me until early July this year she told her father and I about ...

He is too dependant on his Mother and I am resentful.Am I asking to much for him to have less contact with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I apoligise in adavnce for this un-organised mess, I just can't get my thought out in the right order. I'm have a really tought question on my boyfriend's mother. His mother is 60 years old. He is the Youngest of 5 children, but is still a 2...

I'm a 15 year old male and I'm attracted to my 25 year old aunt! How do I go about flirting with her..to let her know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

23 September 2006 (M) - hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i want to start a relationship with her she is single and not married but i cant find a way to flirt without making it to obvious at first cuz ...

I caught my 12 year old son masturbating. How should I handle this?

This question has 87 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

23 September 2006 (M) - i am a father of a twelve year old boy, and i saw him masturbating,and i blew up, what should i do?...

Their tickling really gets me down, how do I get them to stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My sister started dating in march and im really on edge about the way they behave when im alone with them,i live at her place at the moment.he was very touchy feely from the beginning,when she popped out anywhere hed use any excuse to tickle my ...

I love my hardworking guy but how do I get my rich parents to accept him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - my problem is strange.a guy loves me madly and he's ready to do anything to be with me.he is middle class but very hardworking and had worked too hard till now to make a good career but couldnt succeed till today.i know that no one will work for a ...

Kind of feeling that I want to end the relationship, but I do love her and cant see life without her, but she does act selfish.. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (M) - Me and my fiancee have been together for 13 months now,we are both in our early 30's,when we met we fell in love very quickly.We are supposed to be moving in together at the end of this year.We are also best friends and have a solid relationship, ...

I used to get on with his family, but now they never invite me over, I feel I have been rejected!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very close. I used to get on with his family, but now they no longer invite me around. I was even excluded from his birthday celebration, even though the year before they had invited me. I have confronted him about it, told h...

My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom. How do I get closure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is having sex with my mom.I am having a hard time dealing with this since I have to see them both. I don't want him back, but I don't want my mom to have him either.I am jealous that mom is in a relationship. Recently, I've begun ...

I play games on a website, but my family don't like it. Should I stop playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Im Playing on this website.they start to say bad words.my famliy watch's me play the game on the coumpter and walk past me and look.if they saw them say a bad word.ill be in big trouble.should i still play it.or stop playing it so i dont get in ...

Forced to move to Australia, people are nice, but I really really miss home and Im really depressed!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - hiya! i wrote asking for help about six months ago. i wrote because i was being made to move to australia! everyones advice made me more confident about moving. but now ive moved iv reilised how much i miss home, and how much i hate it here! the ...

I put restrictions on our computers, so my son doesn't see porn sites and my partner is royally pissed off with me! What's up with that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

21 September 2006 (?) - I'm a female, late 40's. I have a young teen son, who is a sensible, good kid. However, he loves surfing on the net a lot, so I recently set up a new system in my home, where sexually explicit websites can't get into my home. It was a free service ...

Is sex with and in-law incest?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...

Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My bf and I don't get on very well with our families, or eachothers' families. We want to get married but we don't want all the hassle as we know that inviting them will cause tension. Would a secret wedding be a bad idea?...

He's helped me with the baby...now he wants to move and live his life! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hello all, i really need some advice, my other half and i have been together for 2 years i was 2 months pregnant when we met and he took both me and the baby on, we had loads of problems with him accepting the baby but now they are 2 peas in a pod, ...

8 yr relationship, a kid, and now he is drinking doing drugs and not coming home

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter together, and we live together. The problem is, that this man often goes off on drinking binges and ends up sleeping at other people's houses. He smokes cannabis ...

Was this mysterious romantic card sent to me by my ex's sister..a woman I have feelings for? Do I ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 September 2006 (M) - Yesterday I received a birthday card from someone called "you-know-who". The hand writing looked rather similar to that of my ex-wifes' sister. Two years ago I mentioned to her that I had feelings for her, but nothing came of it. I have not ...

I think my mum is having an affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I think my mum is having an affair. About 5 or 6 years ago, whilst taking my younger brother to school, my mum met this man whose son was in the class as my brother. They got talking, and my mum was having problems with her computers, this man ...

Will my lack of education mean my BFs mother won't approve of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I have a problem....I am in love with this guy......who is REALLY clever and studying A levels AND a degree at a top sixth form. I on the other hand failed all my GCSEs and am on one of the lowest level courses you can possibly get. This guy'...

My brother is a very troubled person and I need advice on how to help him. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - I know this is not a relationship problem but I really didnt know where to find advice and I think all of you agony aunts give good advice so please help me. My older brother who is twenty one has led a very bad life, he got bullied all through ...

My wife spends alot of money on her parents, at the cost of our family, I dont feel this is right, Any advice ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6669 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - I'm married and blessed with a son, my problem is that me and my wife cannot seems to agree on the fiancial support to give to her parents. I feel that she spends a lot of money on her parents at the cost of our family but her position is that her ...

My Mum died and I miss her so badly. Any advice in helping me get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hey guys! I know this isnt relevent to this site but i lost my mum in march the 14th this year and im finding it very hard to move on. Ive resorted to booze to ease the pain. I dont want to do this but i cant see any other other way and my life ...

He says he wants nothing to do with our baby, but his mum does

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - im pregnant by my ex and were now not talking but his mum is causing me loads of hassle he said he wants nothing to do with baby but his mum does and wants a dna test. i also dont want any child support from him can i be forced to have a dna test ...

I love this guy to pieces and I want to see him more..but he spends so much time with his family! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - SOS! I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 weeks and I love him to pieces..He's everything I want and need and he makes me soooooo happy! We both live in the same city but different sides so it can be a pain gettin to and from to see each other. ...

I'm torn...I'm moving to England to be with my guy but not sure if I can my friends and family behind.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - Hello guys, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, been friends for six. A lot of it was long distance because I was going to college in the U.S. and he lives in the UK. I spent a year studying abroad in the UK and lo...

We split but we are taking the kids on a holiday. Is there a chance we can reconnect while we are away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - me and my husband split up 2 weeks ago but are still going on holiday in 2 weeks time for the sake of the children, do you think there is any chance for us to get back together while we are away....

My parents have turned my kids against me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - hi there. anybody can give me any advice,i have 2 children living in my parents and my parents using my kids to hold my neck and follow what they wanna say, i did try to get my kids before but their scare me that i wont see them if i took my kids ...

How can I earn my mums trust, im 14 and not allowed out past 8pm!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I'm 14 and my parents won't let me stay out past 8 o'clock, all my friends are allowed out until 10 and i feel really stupid having to go home so early like a baby and they are all meeting new people and i feel like i have no friends out of school ...

Worried to date him because our mums are best friends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - well, i kinda like this guy but his mum and my mum have been best friends for 30 years. I'm worried that if i ask him out our parents wont approve and if we were ever to split up our parents would fall out.. i really like him and we have been...

Since going to college, I feel like I've abandoned my mother with my abusive father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - my mother and i have suffered abuse at the hands of my father. and it's not just something that's happened once or twice (not saying that once or twice is justified). it's happened numerous times. i am away at college now, have been for the past ...

I stayed for the kids now I must leave for the kids...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - i have been in a rocky relationship for 6 years.im 36 with 3 boys. my partner is the father of the younger 2. recently i have totally gone off sex and realise i dont fancy my partner. he is very over weight and a couch potatoe where as i love ...

Can I "re-teach" someone how to treat others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Is it possible to reteach people how to treat you? I come from a nice enough family but it seems that my brother and sister treat me the way they did when we were kids....not the way I am now. Both my brother and sister had affairs and lost their ...

I want to call my friend but his sister was nasty to me...

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14 September 2006 (F) - I have this really good guy friend that I like to hang around and communicate with. Three days ago, I tried to call his house, but I got stuck talking to his mean sister. She cussed at me and threatened to beat me up, in fact I really wanted to call ...

He won't commit to us because I'm an American....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi. I am absolutely crushed right now and needing advice. The guy I am in love with says we cannot be together, even though he apparently "loves" me. Why? Because I'm an American. He's living in the UK, specifically England, and he has told...