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writes: hi im a 15 year old boy from canada over the years ive been attracted to my aunt who is 35 she is so sexyy i want to start a relationship with her she is single and not married but i cant find a way to flirt without making it to obvious at first cuz i dont want flirt with her but find out shes not interested and tells everyone so the main idea is how can i flirt with my aunt or if you have any other suggestions msg me thkz.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): I went through a phase when I was in my teens where I started to deveop a crush on my aunt, who is 23 years older than me. My grandmother shunned her a lot while she was growing up because she was a result of an unwanted pregnancy and encouraged everyone else to ignore her, and I was far apart from my family because I'd got in with the wrong crowd and got in trouble with the law a couple of times. We were both viewed as black sheep by the family, and as a result we became very close to one another. She often used to hold me close to her, stroke my hair and cuddle me when I was feeling down. As a result, I started developing a crush on her, and fantasising about her, because she was someone I was close to and I never thought I'd ever be able to enjoy a close relationship with another woman. When I was 22 I finally found a girlfriend and this crush soon disappeared.My point is that there are a number of reasons why this sort of situation can develop. Your hormones are raging and begging for an outlet at that age, and if you're close to your aunt you may be feeling confused. Alternatively you have fet neglected in the past and she has shown you attention when you craved for it. Many people have had odd fantasiies about aunts and other relatives, and won't admit it, it's more common than you might think.When you start dating as you get older, this crush will probably disappear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): Dont flirt with her!she is family thats so..wrongit's your hormones kicking in,Find someone else your attracted tothats your age and aren't keen to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006): Take some time away from seeing her, maybe go on some dates with other girls your age to distract yourself, you problably only fancy her because of you age, things will settle down sooner or later. But i definatly think that you shouldnt try and flirt or anything in the meantime, your still young, there will be someone your age that you can be with :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006): Hey, man, your like what 15 and she 35 PLUS she's ur moms/dads sister! Thas gross, dnt evn tlk to her for a few weeks.
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reader, Toria +, writes (23 September 2006):
 You are 15 therefore thinking of getting into a serious relationship shouldn't really be top of your list as things to do especially not with someone 20 years older than you secondly she is your aunt and unless your not aware that makes her a relation of yours.
For get letting her know you fancy her and start worrying about this attraction towards a family member.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): Start to see less of her cos believe me... she will NOT want to be in a relationship wiv her nephew!!!
number 1 because its kinda sick
number 2 because u are a kid
number 3 because it will ruin her relationship with the whole family cos they obviously will NOT want her dating you!
What the heck would your parents think! They would never forgive her!
Trust me, she wont be intested!
By the way it is quite normal to have feelings for people you are close to or women that are older than you, you are just getting used to being a man and seeing women in a different light, so just dont see her so often and soon you will find someone at school your own age :D get to know girls and make friends with them at school, your'll soon forget you auntie :)
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reader, harley_quinn +, writes (23 September 2006):
 First of all you are 15 and second she is your aunt. You need therapy or something kid.
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