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writes: me and my husband split up 2 weeks ago but are still going on holiday in 2 weeks time for the sake of the children, do you think there is any chance for us to get back together while we are away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): hi babe my husband told me a month ago now that he did not love me anymore like he should and he was at the stage where he was ready to go, we also had a holiday booked we dicided to go for our children we had a good holiday and loads of time away from everything else to chat and sort through things he has now moved out for a short period to try and sort things out in his head and try and save our marriage but if we had not had that holiday he would have left as soon as we got back and that would have been the end of it so i would say go for it and the very best of luck babe
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reader, sarah y +, writes (16 September 2006):
That all depends on why you split up in the first place.You will probably re-connect whilst you are away but your problems as a married couple will return once your off this holiday.Perhaps one night when your children are in bed you could sit down together and discuss your marriage and feelings.Ask your husband what he wants and listen to how he feels,if there is a chance that you can re-concile then suggest marriage guidance to help you both address certain issues.Try and remember why you both got married and the fun times you had.Also there is the children and their feelings to consider.......Good luck.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (16 September 2006):
 I think it may be a good chance to have a serious chat, but make sure you do it when the kids have gone to bed. You have to remember that you are on holiday for your kids, so you cannot spoil it for them.
I think that it may be a good time to try and win him back though because it will be just you, him and your children and nobody else. You could use this time to make him laugh and reminise on all the good times that you shared together. Hopefully he will see how happy you all are as a family unit and decide that he doesnt want it any other way. If he decides he does want to get back with you think of all the things that made eachother unhappy before and try and improve them. This is your chance hunny. I say go for it and good luck. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): Depends - why'd you split?
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