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writes: my problem is strange.a guy loves me madly and he's ready to do anything to be with me.he is middle class but very hardworking and had worked too hard till now to make a good career but couldnt succeed till today.i know that no one will work for a girl like he does.he has undergone the most painful things just for me.he is very brilliant and very talented but luck has till now not favoured him.he is very great.i have seen it.bottomline is that iv never promised him that il marry him,still he says he'l keep working till he succeeds even and that he loves me so much so he wont force me to marry him.as my parents are rich,they will never let me marry him.you know?i like him from the depth of my heart that i think i cant live happy with anyone else.i also like my parents the same way.i cant leave them also sad.how can we get married?he is a graduate in hotelmanagement with FIRSTCLASS,still no good job also.he has no property or inherit anything so my dad will definitly say a big nooooooo.How can we suceed in life and get married? how can convince my dad that he is this good and talented that if he was lucky enough,he could have done wonders? Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 September 2006):
 Money isn't everything or is it?
Surely your parents would rather see you happy with someone you want to be with than unhappy with someone thats just got money but not your heart.
Why the money is such a problem I really don't know I mean you've got money so why the need to double up and both ave money?
You need to talk to your boyfriend and your parents, this is your life and you are the one that is with him not your parents, maybe getting them all together so they can see how much he loves and worships you might help as any parent deep down want a good man for their daughter money or not as long as their daughter will be supported her which in your case having a rich family therefore means you will never be without money anyway.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Tiagre +, writes (23 September 2006):
I think you need to need to let him know about the problem by bringing it up casually. Also, you should tell your parents about how great he is, and hopefully they'll realise how much you like him before they ask if he's rich. When they do, say, 'Oh, he's so hardworking and his job means everything to him,' which kind of sidesteps the question but still puts him in a good light. Let them meet him. Make sure they know how much you love him, so they know that if they say no it'll break your heart. Remember, if being with this guy makes you happy, your parents should see that and realise that you are onto a good thing.
Take care, hope everything works out ok xxx
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