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writes: hi, i need some advice about my cousin. her and i have been quite close expecially the last 10 years (shes 25 and im 22), problem is that i began dating one of her work colleagues whom she doesnt get on well with...even though she introduced us in the first place...anyway this caused alot of problems and fights amoungst us all and she got her bf to beat my bf up after a night out. i felt really hurt that she cud do this to someone who she knows i love to bits. however i still wish to have some sort of relationship with her as she seems to have been trying to turn the rest of our family against me, by telling them lies about me and my bf. i know this doesnt seem like the behaviour of how a family member should be but i just want things how they were before she did this. i really cant understand why shes ignoring me...i tried to text her and i got a nasty reply from her. i think this may be because shes angry my bf pressed charges against her bf for the assault. however i have stuck by my bf as i think it was the right thing for him to do, i just dont know how to rebuild my relationship with my cousin and how i can get my family to like me, i have my mum and my sister who understand and have stuck up for me but the others seemed to take no notice. i feel really depressed and i feel like they all hate me....what can i do? thanks and sorry i was long x
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 This problem wasn't brought on by you it was something your cousin instigated and carried on involving everyone else around her.
You've tried texting her to resolve this and she doesn't want to know so I would just get on with your life and enjoy your boyfriend, she will soon miss you and come with her tail between her legs if your friendship mattered to her like it does you.
Good luck :o)
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