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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

I've developed feelings for my girlfriend's amazing new best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i ...

We meet as friends but I still have feelings. Will I ever be able to heal my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Hi, First sorry for my poor english language. In the last 2 years I,ve read questions and answers in this site hoping to find an explanation for my relationship but I,m still in ,, middle of nowhere,, and I can,t get out the pain from my c...

She has been abusive but threatens that she can't live without me if I leave. please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - 2 years 3 months ago i was single and i was just out of an open relationship when i made friend with one girl on facebook.we started to chat everyday and she kept on telling me how her boyfriend was treating her badly....i felt very sorry for ...

Would you let him go if he were your Bf? And been together two years.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. First off, I'm sorry if this post turns into a novel…I'll try my best to keep it short and simple. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years Its my boyfriends birthday soon and he wants to go clubbin for h...

After some tough times and relationships, when is it going to be my turn to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - In my life so far I have tackled being bullied when I was young and growing up for being overweight suffered with really bad acne and I got teased for being ginger.my dad left at a young age and hes not been bothered since. Ive got a daughter whos 6 ...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

Is he just trying to be kind but really wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - So I have been seeing the love of my life for about a year and a half, we get along great, we have differences of course but never really fight and I thought things were good aside from the fact that he plays competitive baseball and we don't see ...

Six years and I'm no longer sexually attracted to my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

28 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Okay. I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of all of high school, we are 3rd years in college and 700 miles away. I have come to the recent revelation that I am no longer sexually attracted to him. I have told him this and he still wants to try to ...

I definitely like this new girl more, and would rather date her, but she's my girlfriend's friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - So i've been dating a girl for almost 3 years. but within the last 2 months i've really started falling for her best friend, whom she recently met. i seriously think i'm in love with this friend. she is more attractive than my girlfriend (i never ...

What's his aim? He wanted to be on friendly terms after the breakup, now that I'm ready for it, he's being aloof

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - We had a brief romance, but it was pretty intense while it lasted. At first, he wanted to be friends after, esp since we have to still see each other everyday at work..but I got nasty..that was my fault. Anyway, it was like 6 months ago and he a...

We just don't match sexually anymore. I still love him and feel that I'll marry him, but recently it's gotten worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

21 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with my bf for over a year and we've talked about marriage and kids quite a lot. Problem is, when we first got together, he was not over his ex and we had some issues of him lying to me about contacting her and hiding emails/te...

I'm contemplating leaving her and moving out to live on the streets!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - I absolutely love my fiancee and I want only good things for her. Our dilemma is that we live in an RHCF (we both have depression) and needed services and treatment. We no longer need to be here and I have been working as a freelance writer. She is ...

Could the average guy handle this? Eight months on and my Gf is trying to treat me like her servant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - 8 months back , I dumped my girlfriend with whom I had spent 3 years . I had no reason to dump her except I was feeling bored in that relationship . She tried for next one month to bring me back into her life but I didn’t move an inch and then she ...

Can't find the perfect woman (or near perfect woman).....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

20 October 2011 (M) - I'm quite a perfectionist, granted. I've had several girlfriends throughout my twenties so far but I can't seem to find the 'complete package'. My ex girlfriend was perfect in respect to the fact that we had an amazing physical connection from ...

Do you ever get over a first love?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Do women get over their first love that they had sex with for their first time, or even if it wasn't a first love that they had sex with the first time?nEven if it has been several years since it took place? I would like to hear views from the lady...

Is he loosing interest or just not enough communication?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - question: i'm starting 2 feel my boyfriend doesn't care about me well first off we are long distant relationship so i feel we should communicate more to feel closer to each other well he got me mad cause he was lagging it and than when i called ...

I don't feel loved anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) - Are these signs he doesn't love me... maybe hates me, actually... or is abusive perhaps? He lets his friends make sexually explicit jokes about me in front of other people, not defending me. When I say it hurts my feelings he says that's beca...

Just a dream? my ex-girlfriend appeared in my dreams. What does this mean? Is there still a chance for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped last year saying I had no future by doing odd job . After long time, last night, I had her in my dream in which she was saying that she would talk to me every Saturday on cellphone. What does it mean ? Does it mean she's ...

He says he loves me, does not want to break up, but has no feelings for me, what do I do?/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just about eight years now, and until recently have been very happy. After a few months of feeling like he didnt want me around him, I asked if he was mad and had i done anything to upset him. He told me ...

I loved him. He hates me now. what can I do? Did he really cheat? I feel so much pain over this breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I was in a long-distance relationship for one year and a half. In a moment of intense weakness, I entered my ex-boyfriend's facebook account. There I found some chat history between him and a girl 15 years younger than him. She seemed to be flir...

Instead of looking for a job he's looking for escourts and transgenders. How do I leave him when I am penniless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I am so confused. I live the "perfect family lie," as I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids, one in school and one infant. Lately things have gone down hill majorly. My husband, who before the baby came, and still LOVES my first child, but I some...

Should I be worried? Her reasons are my snoring? my sadness is no intimacy. My wife and I haven't shared a bed in six years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms. We have been married for 19 years and this started about 6 years ago. Before that time, we always spent the night together. In fact, I can remember once when my wife was away at her mom's in another ...

Married a man I did not love. Wish I could have loved him. Since then why do all my relationships end, leaving me depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I'm feeling really defeated and down so I'm hoping maybe someone can give me some advice since there have been some awesome agony aunts and uncles on this site. I was married to this guy for a few years. The only reason we stayed together for as l...

Our relationship was amazing and now.... I need help knowing what to do next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid I’ve been in a relationship for just over seven months and it’s been amazing up until recently. Before I ask my question, here’s a bit of background that I hope will help… My ‘girlfriend’? and I met and it was very much love at fir...

I slept with him after the first date, he hasn't contact me yet, and now I'm obsessed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

9 October 2011 (?) - I feel I am obsessed with a guy I slept with on a first date. I have never felt such incredible connection before, it wasn't just physical, it was emotional and spiritual too, really cannot explain it - it was crazy! I keep looking him up online ...

I've been there for her. Yet she doesn't want others to know about me. Is there anything worth waiting for in all this, for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - what does my ex want from me? my ex and I broke up years ago, we decided to stay friends, but it seem to me at cost. it seem ok at first but i began to wonder, over the years, she dated other people, and so have i. but i think i put myself in toubl...

Our six-year love has faded. Should we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Problem is all we seem to do lately is argue. I feel he doesn't appreciate me. Uve told him this n hes promised hell change but he stil hasnt. Im not as happy as I was before and just wonderimg w...

Is he making excuses for me to not go out with him and friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have gone through some issues, mostly with me and my trust issues. Then when we were going through those, he became less and less sweet. He hasn't become mean; he's just become nonchalant and blah about everything, like he just ...

I've put so much effort into our relationship and he won't even try to understand the sh-t he's put me through!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Please people, please help me on this one! I've been very depressed and i don't know who to talk to. I hope that I will get some good advice here. That would be appreciated a lot. Basically, I'm Vietnamese and my boyfriend is English. He came...

Why did my last guy refuse to give me another chance? I know I cheated. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

6 October 2011 (F) - Since as long as I can think back I have cheated on every guy I dated. I had been with my soul mate now for 9 years. For 2 years I did resist cheating except for the first 6 months. We was about to set a date to marry when he found out I was sex ...

Should I give my husband another chance and risk losing the life I really want, or should I finally file for divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - This is sort of complicated...but not at the same time. Just a decision I have to make and would like some input. My husband and I separated almost two years ago. We had a very bad emotionally abusive relationship. He never worked, expected me to do ...

Have I moved in too soon? Blended family problems. My son is suffering. Should I try living alone with my son instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I left my husband whom I was in a relationship with for 10 years last December. We were very close, but I never really loved him. I am now living with my new partner who is going through a horrible divorce. We have been together for 8 mont...

I love her and refuse to break up but we are on shaky ground!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 3 months. I'm madly in love with her. She's...well she's in love with me right now. She has times when she'll be interested in somebody else, but she always gets over it and stays with me. Well ...

I gave him $9000 dollars. Could that be the only reason he stays? He still hasn't paid it back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - My and my bf of 1.5 years had a fight a week back which was not my fault. But anyway i apologiazed and we made up. But the thing is he used to call me/msg me at least once a day. For the past few days he is not calling, even if he does just talk...

I'm very attached to him, but I find him boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Help. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. Well first off, I love him, i'm very attached to him, I think about him all the time. And when he's gone I miss him so much. At the same time though, i'm bored with him, the sex is good, but t...