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writes:I absolutely love my fiancee and I want only good things for her. Our dilemma is that we live in an RHCF (we both have depression) and needed services and treatment. We no longer need to be here and I have been working as a freelance writer. She is permanently disabled because she has Type 1 Brittle Diabetes and it is a condition that prevents her from working. Since we live in an environment where they take out 92% of our income from Social Security we are left with very little for ourselves. My money hasn't come in properly in 3 months, and neither of us has been in the mood for sex ever and the other night she played twister with me...right hand eye, left knee crotch in her sleep, let alone each others company. I am miserable and unhappy about all of this and she sleeps whenever we are together or she plays mahjong on her computer. I know I am ugly and repulsive... so why not just end it? I do all of the house work and asking her for help with it is like pulling teeth.Then I work all day. I have no appetite and my sleep is disturbed. I am seriously contemplating leaving here and leaving her permanently to go live out on the street!I look forward to any responses I can get about this.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (21 October 2011):
 Hi,
Why live in the streets? I am glad that you no longer need the help, and that you are strong enough to be on your own. Very proud.. Happy for you
So..very...confused... Gave you great advice:
IF you are unhappy OP and you no longer need the services of the group home then you might want to talk to your case worker about being transitioned out to a halfway house or finding a place on your own.
I am 38, never been married, life has just began... You are good now, still young, can do so much in life, be happy, and have a successful, healthy, happy life. You can start your life again, with some assistance in the beginning, but I am sure you will be able to control your life. You still have a chance to get a place on your own, start working, eventually will meet a woman that will make you happy, support you in life.... I know you feel overwhelmed, but take one step at a time...
Think positive, be strong, I know you can rebuild your life, you already have shown you are strong enough to overcome depression, yo can do whatever you want, as king as you keep positive mind, organize, have a plan, set a goal, and eventually things will start to make sense, and fall it's place ...
Best wishes/ good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 October 2011):
 I have to disagree about it being a rip off Bernard. Their money goes for rent and services. My son lives in a group home and his SSI is not even enough to cover his rent...
IF you are unhappy OP and you no longer need the services of the group home then you might want to talk to your case worker about being transitioned out to a halfway house or finding a place on your own.
NO one should be miserable and unhappy.
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