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writes:My ex-girlfriend dumped last year saying I had no future by doing odd job . After long time, last night, I had her in my dream in which she was saying that she would talk to me every Saturday on cellphone. What does it mean ? Does it mean she's missing me now or what? I am really missing her right now and would appreciate if you guys could help me on this. Thank you all in advance!
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reader, Abella  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Your dreams tell you what is on Your mind and what is consuming your thoughts. But do not signify nor indicate what is on the mind of anyone else.
Clearly you are missing her very much and that must be extra difficult for you. She dumped you because she did not have confidence in you.
But an important rule in life is":
"What someone else thinks of you is none of your business. That is their problem. Let them worry about their problems. You do not have time worrying about"
I can see that this girl touched your heart. But is marrying a man who is already earning an income sufficient to meet what she thinks is her due important to her? Or is image important to her? To me breaking up with you, for the excuse given was unkind, namely that you : "had no future by doing odd jobs". I would be disapointed to hear a girl give that as an excuse.
At the moment you work at doing odd jobs for people. A business like that can become very successful over time. Do not allow others to denigrate you for your chosen career.
As populations in the world age they will want all manner of skills and jobs done.
Show them that it is a honorable and lucrative good way to make an income.
If you need to learn some new skills to increase your customer base then do.
I am sure you are already skilled in painting, laying pavers, putting up shelves, fixing broken fences, tiling a wall, cutting back vegetation, hanging pictures on the wall, shifting furniture, hanging curtains, plastering cracks in a wall, packing up possessions when people are moving house, the list is endless and every task attracts a fee.
Do not take any notice of people who denigrate your chosen profession.
And if work becomes too busy you can even put on another employee to help you make more income.
You may never get your former girl friend back.
She may not be thinking about you even if you are thinking about her.
But you can concentrate on doing the best you can in your chosen work and show the petty and the unforsighted just what a great success you can make of your chosen career. '
And in good time you will meet a nice girl who appreciates you for who you are as a person.
Not as how much money you bank each week.
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