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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

The "Runaway:" is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested? Would a person waste this much time with someone they didn't really want? I was in a confusing relationship for this amount of time a...

I feel like my girlfriend is slipping away from me. Am I losing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - Okay so my girlfriend of 4 months had recently gone on a long holiday with her family. its been a month since i've seen her so far and i wont see her again for another 3 weeks. I'm literally dying. I miss her so much, i see couples everywhere and im ...

With him 10 year but he's a controlling man... how do I get out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Hi, my bf and I had been together for quite some time. First, we were long distance, then I moved in with him about 2 years ago. When I first moved in I didn't have any friends or family. I still don't have any family here, but I manage to find ...

The more I try to talk to him, the more he pushes me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for six months i thought things were going well except that i thought he was not romantic enough and sometimes i didn't feel he treated me right. I raised the issue several times and he promised to change made ...

I feel like I'm the only one in love in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Ok I'm in a relationship that feels like I'm the only 1 that's in love he has cheated in the past and I have given him another chance I just don't love him the way I use to there are no kids involved between us I just feel like I'm here just to be ...

Why does she ignore me and distance herself if she loves me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for around 2 years. We are both in our mid to late 20´s. The relationship started after we met on our way to work for a long long time. She was seeing someone else at the time which i didnt know about but i thought sh...

Once a Cheater always a Cheater is this true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - I've been friends with my sons father since I was 4 yrs old. Best friends, we started dating when I was 14 and dated right up until 2 yrs ago (I was 19 at the time). Up until that point everything was perfect relationship wise. We both went through ...

Should I Dump her or is it just another ego boost for me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

20 July 2011 (M) - I wanna dump my girlfriend. We are together for 18 months. She is nice , beautiful and there’s hardly anything I can find wrong in her but wanna dump her to make it 1-1. My first girlfriend had dumped 6 months before she came into my life . S...

He left me with a baby and I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - okay this is hard for me to write but here it goes my boyfriend of 7 years left me a yr ago when i tld him i was pregnant. He said he didn love me anymore and that we never be together again i was so heart broken. I ask him to give us another go ...

I've got myself into a state over a guy once again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) - Hi, I have got myself into a bit of a state over a guy once again. My long story cut short goes like this... Christmas 2010 a guy from college started talking to me out of the blue, i went along with it, we got along well, we only ever spoke du...

She hasn't called me back in over a month but still claims she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (M) - I and my girlfriend have had a couple of good time before but she is no more to be in the frame again. she has refuse to call me for about a month and half now. all the response i got when i call her is "i am busy". i dont know what is going on with ...

After 3.5 years I find myself in a complacent relationship...or does he just not care anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids, just wondering, what do you do when you find yourself in a complacent relationship?? I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years to a great guy, loyal, caring but who has stopped making an effort. Or maybe he just doesn't care anymore,...

Why can't my man give me his all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - what do i do if i feel my man of nearly 2 years is not giving me his all, its LDR we see each other best we can and we commited and loyal to each other, text when we say we are going to text, talk on the net everynight, but i am getting like a cold ...

We barely talk anymore, but I can really see a future with her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 2.5 years and everything was fine until a couple of weeks ago. I moved home after graduating from college and she is still at school for another semester. The long distance was going well, I would visit her and ...

He led me to believe that he cared for me, then just went cold.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - I became friends with a guy for almost 2 years whom I really enjoyed. He was kind and caring,we used to have conversations about his girlfriend and my failing relationship with my husband long story short I am going through a seperation and one ...

I want to be with my girlfriend, but everything is pointing to a break up. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - I am 18 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. She is head over heels in love with me, and i thought i felt the same, and i think i still do, but sometimes i'm not quite sure. It's been a rocky relationship ...

Should I leave my boyfriend when he needs me the most?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? I've been with him now for a year and a couple months and I feel like most of the time he tries to joke with me and doesn't know how to be romantic or sexy. We barely have sex anymore. He's always too tired...

How will my Daughter react to meeting her father ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

11 July 2011 (?) - Okay so I have a two year old daughter with a man who (and yes I know this sounds trashy) I slept with for a few months and was friends with. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits situation. We were not in a relationship although I did ...

Do I really know my guy? Now that I know he looks at Gay'Tranny and SheMale porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - My baby's dad and I have been together off and on for 6 years. It hasn't been a good past 6 years. He has 2 children with another woman and yes, they were both during these last 6 years. We are currently not together but he has come over and...

Should I follow my heart and stay with him, or did I make a mistake by choosing him over my career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - Ok, so at the moment I'm really freaking out. I have just left my job in Germany to move home to Ireland. I didn't want to go to Ireland, given the job situation, but my boyfriend, who's French by the way, is going to do a masters here and I said ...

Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

9 July 2011 (M) - I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...

Why does he treat me like this, I'm carrying his baby !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - I have a big problem im 7 months pregnant from a guy who is now disrespecting me, hes very abusive emotionally and physically. He calls me names the after day he told me he made out in a park with a girl he met on blackberry messager group. he keeps ...

When will the hate go ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 July 2011 (M) - I *hate* my ex. I hate the year I wasted trying to work things out. I hate that I still worry every time the phone rings that it will be her. I hate that I let her pressure me back into a relationship twice. I hate that I let her steal my stu...

Does this mean that all the passion there was before is now gone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year, we have been together for over 3 years. I have noticed over the last 4 months that he doesn't kiss, touch, or look at me like he used to. I have asked him about it and he says that he just ...

Is he trying to break up with me or something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just started saying mean things to me like yea you could lose some weight, stop being so needy, etc. he stopped wanting to have sex with me and hardly touches me anymore. he keeps comparing me to his ex's and i don't like that. he ...

It's like I'm a toy and she's the child playing with the toy! Break up or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

6 July 2011 (M) - So my girlfriend and i have been going out out or about 4 months. When we first started going out, she would act like i was a god (talking about how perfect i was, etc.) We would text each other everyday and spend a lot of time together. after ...

After meeting my long-distance love, I found I wasn't sexually attracted to her at all. Now, how do I disengage from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Well in previous questions i addressed issues that i had with my long distance girlfriend and had ended it all. She later came around talking about compromising and resolving all of our issues and we started up again and it went great. So we decided ...

I simply cannot see him stepping up to the plate and being a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - About eight months ago, I met a guy on facebook. We chatted, started talking on the phone, and eventually decided to meet. So I drove to his house (Which is convienent because he lives about three miles away) to meet him and he asked me to be his ...

A dreamer and a realist, high sex drive and low sex drive. Can this relationship survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

My wife tells me she loves me but is not in love with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Hello everyone this is my first time on here and thank everyone for any advice you can give me? Almost 2 months ago my wife of 10 years wakes me in the middle of the night to tell me she loves me but not in love with me, we have been together...

At 18 I am bored with my fiance of four years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - We have been together for about 4 years. Were supposidly engaged,I love him to death, and and i wanted to marry him....but now im doubting this...hes immmature, lazy selffish and an asshole....he doesnt go anywhere with me maybe besides walmart, ...

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...

Can it be true that you make your own luck? Do some people attract bad luck due to their own attitudes?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - Hi agonys after 7 years of mental cruelty by my son`s father i finally had the guts to tell him exactly how i felt. And what he really meant to me. In the past i held back my true feelings as i still loved him and had hope that he would change to b...

When men start to like me, I start to dislike them, why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 July 2011 (?) - the moment i get close to a guy and realise they like me back, i start to dislike them and they begin to annoy me. i don't know why, it is starting to really aggrivate me, does anyone else get this? or know why? because i liked them before and it's ...