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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Is it time I moved on? I don't feel the same for him and it makes no sense to continue our relationship. Can anyone else relate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Should I move on? I've been with my partner for over 4 years. We don't live together and have no children together. I've been very confused over my feelings for him over the last 8 months. I don't find him attractive anymore, we don't share the ...

Should I tell her I've slept with someone else since we've been apart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - My ex-girl friend wants to get back together with me after spending nearly a year apart. We had had a long term relationship (over ten years) but ran into problems sexually - I have a very high sex drive where she, for a number of reasons, didn't ...

Is this just my trust issues coming into play or might he be playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Now everyone has heard of myspace im sure of well there is this new guy im talking to and yes i meet him off of there. We went out on two dates and i saw him at his job and he came to mine. we have so much in common and i really like him. I never ...

Shes asked for a divorce, But also needs money, I want her back, dont know what to do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Separated,no children,12 yr friendship,10 yr relationship,4 yr in marriage. We were best friends, we studied together for sometime. My W confides in friends, Mother and diary but never me. I was insecure,jealous,overpro...

Should I continue to see my girlfriend who's bi polar? We get on great but there's problems too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - im 15 years old and going out with a bipolar girlfriend.I used to go out with another girl and she left me and went out with my bestfriend which i was devastated over and kinda got depressed over and my current girlfriend was with me all the way. ...

How has she persuaded him to abandon his son??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - What kind of woman can make a man turn his back on his children and all his responsibilities? I am talking about my ex here. He has been with his new woman now for about 3 years and ever since it's as though he has no responsibilites or care for...

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two ...

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a ...

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking ...

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kid...

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help...

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...

We're seeing each other less and less, is this boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - i have been dating someone from work for about 5 months. when we first started dating it seemed as though he couldn't get enough and now I feel like i'm seeing him less and less and he doesn't seem as affectionate as when we started dating. Is it ...

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably ...

I have a girlfriend but I've met someone else. What's the best way to tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - ok i have a girlfriend that goes to school in flordia and i think she's in love with me but i found someone else that i really really like and i dont know wat to do how should i break up with my current gf i want to do it over the phone cause i ...

Do you think a woman would be happy in a relationship that would never lead to marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Do you think a woman will be happy in a relationship that will never lead to marriage? What's the pros and cons if a couple lives as a common-law vs. as a marriage couple? (kids are out of the question)...

She's broken up with me but says she still wants to keep in touch but I don't think that's wise. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - can anybody help me pls! my ex broke up with me coming up to a month now cos we were arguing a lot! we got together just 3mths after my dad passed away so I had alot to deal with! I wanted to break up with her first cos I knew it was coming to an ...

We have 4 months left together before she goes to Canada to study for a few years. She has suggested seeing less of one another but I really don't know, I don't want this relationship to end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Hi everyone... My gf is going to Canada to study for a few years. We love each other very much but we arent' sure of how to keep a long-distance relationship going... She's going to Canada in Augest... We have about 4 more months left with each ...

She broke up with me, I told her I loved her and she called me "Pathetic." What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - My girl friend broke up with me and I have been trying to get her back. I tell her i cant live without her and i always remind her of how much i love her, she then calls me pathetic, what should i do now?...

I love my girlfriend but she hasn't given me any reason to trust her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I love my girlfriend and she loves me, so she says, but I cant tell if I should trust her or no. She hasn't done anything for me not to trust her but she hasn'1 given me a reason to trust her niether. What should I do?...

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...

Met a guy on internet dating, met up, emailed him afterwards, he replied once, emailed him again and haven't heard back from him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Did the internet dating site. Met a nice guy and went out to lunch. After a lunch of about 2 hours, we walked around for 2 hours just talking. I emailed him the next day, then he emailed me back. I emailed once more - that was a week ago. No ...

My girlfriend lied to me about her past relationships, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently went through a break-up. We did our fair share of dirty deeds while we were seperated, but when we got back together we asked each other about the things we had done(not really the best idea we ever had). I told her of ...

Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I ...

He said he was confused, that I deserved better, he's not worth it. Should I wait till he gets his mind together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Alright...I started feeling a little itch. This weird feeling came over me one day when we were together. It was doubt. I mean not from my own feelings but from him. I don't know why but I did. The next few days I began to think and think about the ...

He told me he was confused about our relationship and wants to hook up with other girls, he apologised later for it but now I can't get it out of my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half now and for the past 6 months we've been having a long distance relationship, but we've managed to be able to see each other at least once a month. the other day my boyfriend called me and ...

Do I let him know I'm here for him? I really like him but he's not answering my questions....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Over 2 years back I fell for an older married friend. He offered a shoulder to cry on through hard times and I got closer to him. He gave me all the signals he was interested too. But then pulled back. Not being able to handle this well I moved ...

How can I get him to be more interested in ME and not keep looking at porn all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi I have been married for 1.7 years we are both 22 and we have a beautiful daughter who is 14 months and we have been together for 2.6 years now I love my husband sooo much and I know he loves me but the thing is he looks at porn online he ...

Help! I've just found out my boyfriend is using me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - help i just found out my boyfriend is using me, he lives with his parents and i met him online he had me send him stuff all the time for him and his son thousands of dollars said he needed money needed toys for his son, he was doing without food. ...

She wants the 'wow' in a relationship so she obviously isn't finding that with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend looks at other men and says that she looking for this 'wow' in a relationship. I said 'well you obviously aren't getting that with me then' and she didn't deny it, instead she said that she didn't trust me because my best friend is a ...

My boyfriend took his sister's side over mine and it really hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and over the time had a few probs with his sister. They are very close. Anyway every time she gets drunk she becomes all needy, turns her back to me, and makes comments that make ...

What can I do to make things more understanding between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6476 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect ...

Am I stupid that I keep taking her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Hey. I'm a 16 y/o boy and i need help. I'll start at the beginning, I met this girl wen she was going out with my best m8. She started texting me, telling me she wanted me and not him. I tried to keep away as he is my best mate and it wouldn't ...

I'm still very good friends with my ex but am with someone else who I'm terrified hurts me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6477 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - i need some help, and have two questions. 1. about 4 months ago i split up with my boyfriend of 15 months but told him that i still loved him and wanted to go out with him again at some point in the future, which i genuinely did - i even spent a ...

I told my work colleague I couldn't keep seeing him because of age differences, one month later he's getting married and I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - All my life.... i have met guys that have not treated me right. They said they wanted to be my friend but in the end they really want the sex. I am very shy, compassionate person and i am also naive when it comes to things like that b/c i want ...

It hurts my feelings that he ogles big busted women! Should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - My present lover and I have been together for over a year and a half. We get along petty good, until it comes to sex. Soon after we first got together, I found he had been viewing bare chested woman with big breasts on the internet when I was not ...

What should I do? Who should I choose? My current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - i need help here.... it all started when i got back in contact with my ex. my ex and me had been friends before for 7 years and then one night we kissed and everything changed and we started dating. i fell in love with him but he just walked away...

My girlfriend never lets me go clubbing with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my gf for 8 months she never lets me go clubbing with her (always with her girls only. we argue alot now over silly things and its beaking my heart what do i do ?...

What do you do when your husband does not see the bigger picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - whre do i go from here , im with my husband 13 years and since having twins 16 months ago life has become hard work ,im not complaining but i miss 1on 1 with my husband talking and just holding each other he thinks im just nagging .. i am only 27 ...

I've agreed to stay with her but I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - My partner recently cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. she said it meant nothing and she was drunk, at first she denied it and when confronted with overwhelming evidence she still tried to lie about it. Yes the cheating hurt but so did the lying. ...

An update about my recent problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - Thank you for your advice and this is just an update and not another issue. I found a more indirect way to cure my curiosity I Myspace him. I found out that he has a girlfriend named Monique and yes she is black. He said that he loved her on his ...

He told me he loved me but I broke up with him, now I miss him and want him back but he won't answer my texts, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6478 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i started seen a lad over a month ago but recently finished it with him because he told me he loved me but i didnt feel the same way but now i miss him and want him back but he doesnt reply to my texts now im scared iv lost him for good....

We have been together 10 years and have children together but he won't marry me and I'm so upset about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - We have been together nearly 10 years, have had our ups and downs, a few kids but he refuses to get married. He knows it means a lot to me. I don't even want a big do. Just him and me, to commit to each other. The years have just flown by, ...

I am 12 weeks pregnant and my partner wants me one minute then ignores me the next. I'm so confused, why is he acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i am currently 12 weeks pregnant i am 19 years old i have known the father for 6 years now of which he is 23 and we have been in a realtionship for the past 4 months, when i found out i was pregnant we were both so excited, my hormones started ...

How can I get my boyfriend to stop sponging off me all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i am 29 yrs old and my boyfriend depends totally on me for finanances yet he has a job i have confronted him many times but he still does it how do i tell him that this hurts me very much and i cant take it anymore i feel that the only reason that ...

One minute he likes me, the next he's horrible to me, what's he playing at?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - Im a teen and this boy who i have liked for about a year and a half who i was together with for a few months but still did things with afterwards, treats me horrible sometimes and we will do things and a week later or something he will not want to ...

Why do girls always laugh for silly reasons and why are they so emotional? It really pisses me off sometimes, why are they like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) - I don't like girls who cannot control their emotions. Especially those who keep laughing for silly reasons and get overwhelmed easily. It just pisses me off to be with someone who only likes to have fun and has nothing serious. But i don't ...

I want him back and now after his booty call the other night, I am feeling more desperate than ever. Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - Two weeks ago my partner and I broke up. We have been struggling for a few months now and just couldn't seem to get it sorted. The biggest prob was my inability to tell him what i want. I have now gotten over that and understand it is essentia...

After puking in my car, my ex told me 'he loved me' but was drunk! I want him back..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - i split with ex 10mths ago and have slept with him twice. I saw him 2nights ago when there was a leaving party. I didn't drink. I spoke to him and said i was sick of the way he treated me. I was better than him and I won't ever let anyone treat me ...

My girlfriend never wants to go out with me any more, she says she has no money yet she is always out clubbing with her friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

23 February 2007 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for 10 months. After new year all she did was go down town with her friends all the time. We live a long distance from each other and we used to spend every weekend together but latly she would rather go to the pub. Also ...