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writes:I love my girlfriend and she loves me, so she says, but I cant tell if I should trust her or no. She hasn't done anything for me not to trust her but she hasn'1 given me a reason to trust her niether. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (27 February 2007):
 i agree with the other aunt. another reason can be caused by insecurities emerging from your background like any history of abuse, being raised by a single parent while the other one didnt really care what happens to you, somebody that you know having untrustworthy wife, it can be a lot of things which means if its from your background learn to understand that people are different and your gf can not suffer other people' consequences. if u really open your heart and give her a chance you might find that she is the best thing that ever happened in your life. communicate more with each other that way she will easily earn your trust or your fears can be confirmed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Give her the benefit of the doubt: trust her with something small, and if she does well with it, trust her with something a little bigger until you've built up a foundation of trust. She has to earn your trust, but you need to give her some opportunity to show you she's trustworthy. Your private thoughts or ambitions might be a good thing to share first. If she's devoted, she'll turn around and share similar things with you.
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