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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

In love with my boyfriend but always seem to develop little "crushes" on other men!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am currently in a relationship that has lasted for a few years. I am in love with my boyfriend so much but for some reason I always develop little "crushes" on other guys. Is this normal?!?! Or does this mean he's not the one for me??? Please ...

Are we at the end of the road?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I need help. Me and my partner have been together for 6.5 years, but i need to know if it is normal for a man to cause arguments everyday and for me to fight for any attention. i trully love him but need to know are we at the end of the road?...

My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...

I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I have a problem. I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill. We have a daughter together and we are expecting another one. I just cant take this marriage any longer there is no respect, ...

I desperately want to love her as much as she loves me! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - hello, this may sound obsurd but i have a partner whom loves me all the time i on the other hand feel love for her sometimes them sometimes not. she is really a wonderful person and i dont want to loose her and i desprately want to love her as much...

I told him he will get his things back when he returns the money he owes me; we're separated and I still love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago... After being together for 7 years. Since we broke up i lent him $400 and has not paid me back and he won't take my calls, well i took some stuff of his from his place and i told him he will get them bac...

My fiancee becomes mad at me, screams, offends. I didn't deserve it, what should I have done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My fiancee and I flew out to a diff city for a weekend. We were out walking out in public, while sitting on a bus stop he rips out the map that I was looking at since we were lost. So, I told him he can wait till Im done looking at, but he ...

Since i've seen him all my feelings have come flooding back!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have known each other since we were about 9 or 10 yrs old, we went out with each other when we were 17 years old for about a year and he was the first person I slept with until I met someone else a few yrs ago we met back up ...

He talks about his times with other women, we're extremely unhappy, but neither of us will leave

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I want to know how I should deal with my relationship that I am very unhappy in. I have a 7 month old daughter with my boyfriend of 2 years. Before I reached my seventh month in pregnancy, my relationship was perfect. We were happy, we enjoyed ...

Not sure if I've ever been in love with my wife, now I love her sister...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - I have the same dilemma as a couple of guys who say they're attracted to their wife's sister. I find myself in the same perdicament. The difference with me is that I am not in love with my wife, and I have fallen in love with her sister. I did not ...

Men, do you know what he really means by his comments? Does he want me or is he not sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

24 August 2007 (?) - I'm really confused as I'm not sure what this phrase means... and don't understand men at all!! I have been with my man for a year and a half. We have always had rows, but stuck by each other as we both said we loved each other and wanted it to...

Is it worth carrying on? I can't bear the thought of life without him again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Dear all, I'm hoping for some geniune logical advice to this problem. I wrote some time ago now, of my relationship with a man, now of 3 years plus, whose wife was a friend of mine, and sadly died 4 years ago. Me and him became friends, both ver...

I still love him and I'm pretty sure he still loves me but I have this feeling and he has brought it up before too that maybe we should break up because of this. I can't imagine my life without him but in a way I think I'm ready for it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we have lived together the entire time we have been dating, I would consider this a serious reltionship. He is 26 and I am 21 so he is at an age where he is ready to settle down, have kids, get ...

I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we see each other he just isn't as excited anymore that I'm coming to visit. How do I get my relationship back on track and get that spark back into our lives.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and recently he has told me that he loves me and wants to make the relationship work but doesn't feel the same passion that he used to. I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we ...

My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - Hi all. I've had a lack of help from people on this site with my questions recently, so I've decided to keep it as simple as possible: Last night, I told my ex long distance girlfriend of 2 years that I was meeting a girl on Thursday, as a f...

Has he pulled me back towards him to try and hurt me because I pulled him through he courts so he'd leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - I've been married for 7 years and just gone through the courts to get my husband to leave me alone, now he has left the city I feel like I've made a huge mistake, he's still puts the words there he wants me back but when I responded positively he's ...

We have no intimacy in our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - My relationship sucks!!!!!! We don't have sex in any form. Every day it's go to work, watch movies and then to bed. Thier is no intmacy at all. Time to bail or what?...

I'm not attracted to my bf of 6 years and now my ex says he wants me! My head is a mess - help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I really don't know what to do. I am 25 and I have been with my b/f for 6 years and I thought I was in love with him but now I dont think I am. But Im not sure- I think all the problems we have been having are because it boils down to the fact ...

He was talking emotionless and in a very formal way. Does this mean he no longer cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Dear all, Yesterday I was really shocked and I thought of sharing it with you, maybe I'm wrong? I'm 23 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we're planning to get engaged by year end. My boyfriend joined the military ...

He's changed since he came back from his 40 day vacation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months, he left for vacation for 40 days. I saw him before he left and now he's back but he doesn't seem to care about when he can see me again. He keeps getting mad at me lately because I say something ...

My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

15 August 2007 (M) - My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good ...

I have fallen for someone else, do I dump my boyfriend of 5 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

15 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he treats me pretty bad, he relies on me for everything! I told him that I had had enough and wanted him to go! So he did but then came back and kept telling me he would change but the thing is I have ...

I feel like the passion is dead and do not want to make the mistake by getting married to a man I do not love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

15 August 2007 (F) - I am 31, working as a senior management in a small company. He is 37 working in medical field We have been together for 4 months and have been friends for 6 months prior to our relationship. It was not the smoothest ride in the beginning ...

HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

15 August 2007 (F) - HI, I was hoping someone could give me some advuce. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have a beautiful son, I really love him but I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. We were very very close but I feel like I can't talk to ...

How and what do I do to win her over? I'm crazy in love with this girl and I don't wanna give up on her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

14 August 2007 (M) - Now, I know what 99% of people are going to think, but I love her. I'm 18 and she's 16. We were together for just over 2 months (yeah, not exactly the longest relationship I know but I fell for her fast). Things were going great, she was the one ...

Am I right with my assumption that she doesn't love me anymore and I'm bound to be broken up with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

14 August 2007 (M) - Am I going to be broken up with? My girlfriend and I are both 19 years old we've been dating for a almost 2 years and we're each others first love. Only problem - I've had to be in Europe for nearly 6 weeks. Since I've been gone she seems to have ...

He doesn't appreciate me. I feel like furniture - I'm just there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - Hello all, I have a big problem. I'm too attached to my boyfriend. Let me start from the beginning. We met in high school, and everything was great. He always reassured me that we were gonna be together, that he was gonna take care of me, and ...

I had the girl I had always day dreamt about and then she left me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

14 August 2007 (M) - Hey all, I met a girl at the start of university on my course, we had small talk in lectures whenever we crossed paths and I instantly liked her, I remember seeing and empty chair next to her and not daring to sit in it! So anyway I just ca...

He says I am a nut case...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight...

What's right, what's wrong, the poor guy doesn't deserve any of this, but I can't pretend or stand it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6308 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - He doesn't deserve the hurt he's going to get, married for 21 years, partner has always worked away, called home about twice a year, we have two children, lived alone, very little outside contact, bored lonely depressed, moved with his job ...

I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute! Okay, so I had been with my fiance for about 11 months and loved him dearly. I had no money and couldn't find a job so I began giving erotic massages. There was no sex involved. I adm...

He has said to me that he loves me but sometimes feels like were trying to flog a dead horse with our relationship but is really bad at expressing why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we lived together for a year in my student house then I moved back in with my parents. We have split up many times and he has cheated on me in the past but always comes begging for ...

A couple of months before we were okay, it just seems all of a sudden he's had enough and just wants the single life again. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years a couple of months told me that he wanted a break (whatever that means) at first I was shocked as I thought that we were ok with each other. We have a house together and just a couple of months before we bought...

Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

13 August 2007 (M) - Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University? She does after me supporting her financially and mentally for 4 yrs+. What shall I do?...

I think he's bored of me. Am I being insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6309 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - Hi There. I need advice on my relationship as after a year and a half together I am feeling terribly insecure in my relationship. My boyfriend of over a year and a half has never given me a reason to doubt that he is faithful and is very loving a...

I've been married to my husband for 30 years and I want out so bad that it makes me sick...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - i have been married to my husband for 30 years and i want out so bad that it makes me sick. i tell him and it is as if he doesn't hear me. he just keeps tellig me what all he has done for me and how hard he has worked. forgettong that i have work ...

Why when she turned her back on me at my lowest ever point do I still want her???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

12 August 2007 (M) - Me and the ex where together for 16 years married for 13 of them, two girls aged 15 and 10, I'll be the first to admit we've had your up's and down's over the years but when we where good there wasn't anything better but when bad nothing worse but ...

I don't want to break his heart but I also don't want to have this feeling of regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

12 August 2007 (F) - It's been about 3 months now since I've been going out with my boyfriend, and I am starting to regret it. I love him and everything but the only problem is that I am starting to have feelings for my other friend. My boyfriend is one of the sweet...

how can he know what he wants if she is trying to entice him away and how long should I wait for him to come to a decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Hi, really need some advice, my husband had been acting strangely, distant, etc etc and I suspected he was seeing someone else. I constantly confronted him and he denied everything. After one of these episodes he packed his suitcase and left, only ...

I don't know how i feel anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6311 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - OKay well I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have lived together for 1 and a half and we have been fighting alot lately. I dont want to be intimate with him at this moment. But this is so sudden, a couple weeks ago we were fine. Am I fed ...

I hate living on my own with just the 3 kids and I want him back but he won't come home and I dont know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

10 August 2007 (F) - I've kicked my partner our of 4 years for speaking 2 my eldest child who is not his, like rubbish. He calls her names and tells her he hates her all the time, we have 2 children together and I really miss him, he won't come and see his kids and he ...

I can't afford to leave my partner. We rent a place together but he is never there and when he is there we argue.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6312 days ago

10 August 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, please help me. I can't afford to leave my partner. We rent a place together but he is never there and when he is there we argue. I can't stand it anymore, I have no family or friends to turn to. I don't wanna be with him anymore but I ...

I thought my ex fiancee and I were just on a bit of a break, I didn't know he had met someone on the internet from another country and gone over to see her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

10 August 2007 (F) - I thought my ex fiancee and I were just on a bit of a break, I didn't know he had met someone on the internet from another country and gone over to see her. The next time they met they married in a quickie marriage over there and he brought her back ...

I have a feeling that he doesn't love me anymore...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

10 August 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for the last 2 years now. For our 1st year together he was okay and active in our relationship but now he seems changed, he doesn't even say anymore that he loves me, where he used to say before. He ...

He said I was the one and had a place in his heart - so what's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - i started chatting to a man on the net over 14 months ago we had a fantastic friendship then we met after 14 monts we had a great weekend no sex we just had a fantastic weekend he broke his leg over 6 weeks ago he live about 400 miles away from me ...

Even when I cry, my partner doesn't show me any affection. He says "just ask," but when I do, he walks away.

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9 August 2007 (F) - hi dont know where to start ,i am in a relationship but since about last november my partner does not want sex. i have been under alot of pressure as i have a serous court case coming up this year for abuse i suffered as a child, and doing my ...

He's getting married to someone else..Kicking myself for not telling him how I feel for him! How can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

8 August 2007 (F) - A few years back my best friend proposed to me. At that time,I did not feel anything. But some time in the last year or so, I believe I have fallen for him. Just when I wanted to tell him, he informed me that he is getting married. Now I am ...

Is my bf's depression because of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

8 August 2007 (F) - Hello, please help' I been with my bf for the last 3 years now' but 2 months ago he seemed to change, he said he was depressed and I really don't know how to deal with this. I miss him the way he is very much. but I cant force him to be the same if ...

He doesnt turn me on anymore and I wonder if I am still in love with him. I have feelings for another man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I am having doubts about my relationship. We have been together for 6 years nearly and living together for 1 year. My boyfriend is the best anyone could ever wish for, he is kind and would do anything for me and I know he loves me so much but lately ...

What's the point of remaining in a relationship that is never going to grow into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - My story is a little long, my major complaint is I don't believe in MEN anymore, or in my sense of judgement.. My ex boyfriend, I thought he was a real angel but he didn't treat me so great. Like I would always have to be the one to call him and ...