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writes:hi dont know where to start ,i am in a relationship but since about last november my partner does not want sex. i have been under alot of pressure as i have a serous court case coming up this year for abuse i suffered as a child, and doing my statments for the court was very hard - they are now logged with the court.i have been with my guy for 4 years and trust him he knows everything about what i went through and he is the only man i have told everything to, yet we were abroad two weeks ago, no hugs, no sex, no romance. he never hugs me when i cry even to do with my childhood and i have now come to terms with this with the help of a very good phycoligist. i am ready for romance and nice things in my life but he rejects me alot and i dont know why. we have talked and he says he is the original mr nice guy ,but i need to be held now as i never was as a child when he rejects me i feel lonely but he still does it. he does not speak for days at a time just shuts down , i have faced my demons and he seems to resent me for this. i do not know how to get through that i just need to be loved and hugged. where do i go from here once the courts are over i feel i can now move on with my life. he says all i have to do is ask but when i do he walks away ? can you help ? thank you bernie.
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