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writes:me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months, he left for vacation for 40 days. I saw him before he left and now he's back but he doesn't seem to care about when he can see me again. He keeps getting mad at me lately because I say something stupid of the sort but he's also having some family issues which I understand but he won't talk to me. I talked to him for a while last night and he hung up mad then called 2 hours later being sweet and saying sorry, then today he was a jerk again, not saying I love you too but just goodbye. I can't call him back, I love him I really do and his personality. Would he have broken up with me by now if he didn't love me too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): hey it sounds like a tough situation with a multitude of possibilities as to why he's acting the way he is. im guessing asking him up front what his problem is isn't going to get you very far, so the only thing you really have left to do is to try playing it cool and aloof. hes being sort of cold, so throw that same attitude at him and see how he likes it. right now he sees that you're hanging on his every word, so don't! muster up the courage to play it cool for like a week and see what happens. best of luck!
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reader, *Rita*  +, writes (17 August 2007):
His family issues are obviously having quite an impact on him, he probably doesn't feel comfortable speaking to anyone about this (some guys think that if they talk about their feelings it will make them seem weak or less manly somehow) and this is making him really frustrated. You just need to let him know that you're always there for him if he wants to talk and that he can trust you. I'm sure he'll feel better in time, as long as he has support.
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