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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty ...

I'm scared to break up with my boyfriend because of the repercussions it could have on both of us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 6 months now, I do love him but it’s long distance and when we’re together it’s amazing but when we aren’t we fall very quickly in arguing everyday. I think it would be best for us to break up instead of ...

Am I right to doubt his fidelity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

28 November 2017 (F) - We've been dating for two years. Mostly it's been great. Lately however I'm feeling hurt because he got drunk and told my best friend and me that he wanted to "play" with us both? My friends chalk it up to his drinking but now I feel like I'm not ...

How can I start finding healthy men to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

27 November 2017 (M) - So I recently moved to Dallas from Houston after my partner and I of 7 years separated. I'm still in love with him. I feel that ever since I had to let him go he has done better for himself. I believe that I was enabling him in so many ways. I also ...

My question is how do u determine if someone is worth giving a chance or hanging your coat and going out there and meeting new men again ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I recently met a older man (38) and Im 27. I am a bit of a rutt. He is incredibly sweet to me, dorky, handsome, secure job and apartment. But downside he is a bit like a manchild, abit of of a horder, collects disney toys, has a slight very light ...

Should I talk to him? I just want to be friends and cuddle from time to time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I don't know how to start this. I'm a 19 years old girl and I've never had a boyfriend before. I met a guy at school, we barely talked though. once there was a camping event, and we ended up cuddling one night. We didn't talk about it a...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

I just don't want to give much attention to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - Hi I have been single since 3 years but didn’t go on many dates. I feel attracted to hot guys and have had one fling as well but I can’t stand more than 2 dates with anyone . I met a nice guy and we went on 2 dates but then calls started pouring ...

I said yes to a guy but I just don't like him that way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

26 November 2017 (F) - So I know this guy for about 4 days now. We met when I was stuck in my car on a road and he helped me to get back home. Then he asked me for my phone number and I gave him, because he was acting sweet and I thought we could make good friends. He ...

I don' t seem to fit the gay scene

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

26 November 2017 (M) - I feel abit stuck in a rut, I work part time while setting up a business and accepted I’m gay I liked a guy who I thought would like me, cause we have a few things in common and spoke a lot now and again. I was hoping it’d be a fairytale we’d e...

Where would a 24 year old find a guy? What should I do to get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

24 November 2017 (F) - Hi aunties, I need some help. I'm 24 years old I've been single all my life, never been in a relationship and I've never been in love. I like to consider myself okay looking and I believe I have a good personality. However, I just can't seem ...

I'm 19 he's 16 and I'm worried about what people would think if we dated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

23 November 2017 (F) - ok, I'm 19 and I became friends with a boy whos 16 years old and I notice that i started to get feelings for him a little bit so i tried to put it to the back of my mind and ignore it, but recently he admitted that he has feelings for me which is ...

I'm in a seemingly perfect relationship but part of me really wants to be single..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - I'm having a bit of a dilemma. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, since I was 17 and he was 16, and we really do love and care for each other. On paper, everything is great. We have had an amazing relationship, but lately I have been wanting ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

I asked my co-worker out but she said she would think about it. How long before I ask her again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - Ok so I asked a girl I work with out to have dinner with me. We have been working together for around 6--8 months. I know her pretty well, but not really well, but in the end I just thought "who cares, go for it". So I asked her and she said it ...

I wasn't interested dating because I might move soon but looks like I'm in a relationship now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - So I am a 24 year old guy who had no intentions of dating anyone, because I did not want to start anything during this time in my life. I started working at a part time job and met this girl who I talked to from time to time, who eventually asked...

I think my boyfriend has a case of " internalised homophobia". How do I talk to him and help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - I am a gay 29 year old man. I have been seeing a 32 year old guy since early 2015. When we met I did not know his sexuality, but we clicked, and in no time we developed a sexual relationship. This man has never said he is gay, but we spend a lot of ...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

I'm like a weekend hobby for my boyfriend while his sister and nephew are his real family

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives 50 miles away and I only see him at weekends. In the week he lives with his widowed sister and works with her son to help him out as he is retired. The other week for the ...

Can you help explain my boyfriend's strange behaviour?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

20 November 2017 (F) - I have a bizarre problem! I've been seeing my boyfriend for ten months and we often go away and stay at hotels but the thing is he picks me up after work about 3pm then when we arrive at our hotel he wants to literally go to bed straightaway and ...

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

19 November 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the ...

How do I make myself more attractive now that I'm out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2566 days ago

18 November 2017 (M) - I’ve just accepted that I’m gay, I’ve told friends but not told family yet. There was this one guy I really fancied and I told him I liked him but his got a boyfriend his 32 his bf 22 (will that even work?) Anyway after exploring the gay world......

Would this relationship be wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I've already asked this question but I didn't outback detail in to it so I'm gonna try again! Is it wrong for me to be falling in love with my soon to be step uncle ? I've recently turned 18 and he's recently turned 21. My uncle is marrying ...

Is this the right person to hang out with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - Should I go back to hanging out with this friends - I had a friend that stopped talking to me because I called her out on her actions. One of my colleagues and I started having out and became friends - it’s a new friendship and within three months ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2559 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

Where do you go to meet momen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

17 November 2017 (M) - I still don't get where a guy is supposed to try and meet single women. Why is it so hard at my age? Everyone says that gym is a bad idea.. the bar is a bad idea, workplace is off limits, etc. You can't approach a woman at the park because you will ...

Mr Nice Guy is perfect for me but why do I feel something is missing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

17 November 2017 (F) - I have a history of dating unavailable, cheating, lying, game playing men. In fact when I look back I've only ever had one healthy relationship that I ended up pushing away with my own actions. This guy is amazing! I am insanely attracted to him...

Does this guy who works with the man I'm sleeping with like me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I'm going to make this question as quick as possible haha! About 8 months ago, I got involved with my boss. He has just quit the company the day we slept together, so technically he wasn't my boss anymore that night, but you get t...

What is he doing? His last text said he still wants me but that was November third!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - hi i am seeing a man, don't what sort of relationship it is but hes not text me in 2 weeks and not seen me in 2 months now, i did text him 2 weeks ago asking whats going on my text to him was " how are you ive not heard off you in weeks how can yo...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

My girlfriend is exhausting me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - My gf is exhausting me. I'm fully convinced that she could argue for hours with a person who believes the grass is green and tell them no it isn't - it's blue. And then immediately turn right around and tell someone who believes the grass is blue ...

Should we remain friends

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

15 November 2017 (F) - I left a man i love because he preferred open relationships. He took the initiative to remain in touch with me by occasionally texting me and asking me out. One one hand, i was still attracted to him and my heart beat whenever i saw his messages. On ...

My sister's boyfriend kissed me and now we've been making out behind her back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - My sisters boyfriend kissed me what should I do?? I’m 15 years old and my sisters boyfriend is 19 they’ve been dating for about a year I’ve known him as long as she has known him. This all started about 3 months ago when he started grabbing...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2569 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Is $3000 too cheap for an engagement ring for a high maintenance girlfriend given my income and background?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

13 November 2017 (M) - Hi, I would appreciate if you can help me with my question. If a guy is a university professor, in his mid 40s with some debt from divorce, planning to propose to his high maintenance girlfriend who is beautiful and highly educated do you think ...

How much does having a girlfriend actually cost?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

12 November 2017 (M) - So, I was telling my roommate about my plans to build a new computer and media center for the living room, and he told me I should get a girlfriend (instead of appreciating my contributions to the house). While he might or might not be right, I ...

My housemate keeps having sex in our shared spaces and I don't like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - My housemate keeps having sex/foreplay with her boyfriend in our shared living spaces, like the living room etc. She tells me and laughs about it, but I actually find it so disrespectful and it makes me quite angry how she disregards my comfort ...

How do I react on my actress girlfriend intimate scenes on screen or on stage ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - My girlfriend is an Actor she has not yet done any intimate or kissing scene but i am very uncomfortable with that. i have read many articles on this but i really dont know how to over come this situation, she says she doesnt mind kissing on scree...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Now he seems interested in finally setting a date I don't want to marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

11 November 2017 (F) - Hello, new to the site. hoping for some help. I 39 years old and my bf is 46, we have been together for almost 3 years and engaged for 2 of those. When we got engaged i was so happy that i would be planning my wedding, but every time i mentioned ...

I don't know if I have feelings for him. I don't know if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - i've known this guy for close to 2 years (he's 2 years older than me), i knew him through my primary school's alumni association and i think i like him... i'm not 100% sure of my feelings for him. recently i told my best friends that i like him but ...

New Relationship Reflection, Age Gap and Polyamory

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I have been recently seeing a man that is 10 years older than me, I am 21, he is 31. Saw him at the bar and asked for his number, had a date, was pretty nervous but ended well with us making out and finding out we were really physically compatible. ...

I'm growing uncomfortable with his questions! Should I go meet him for coffee?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2571 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a 41 year old guy who describes himself as sophisticated, also wants a sophisticated lady, online.He writes he is ready for a new relationship. He writes he has never been married, has no children and lives alone. He has a ...

Can you help me find the words to express how I feel about him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - hi there im 35, ive been speaking to a man for a while now, i find it very hard expressing myself, i want to tell him the strong feelings i have for him, but i get embarrassed, would someone word it for me please xx...

The guy I'm dating doesn't believe I have social anxiety, does it matter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

9 November 2017 (F) - I've been on a few dates with this guy. I feel a bit of a spark but I am worried about something he said to me. Part of me feels that if I liked him enough to date him I won't worry about what he said. I told him that I suffer from social anxi...

Is online cheating okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - OK! I found out that my boyfriend of 8 years has been going on adult dating sites looking for women to hook up he'd say he hopes they can come over see I'd stay at my daughters sometimes and baby sit. is cheating OK if there's no actual contact ...

I've worshipped this girl since I was 16! Do I tell her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

8 November 2017 (M) - Basically, I've reconnected with a girl I had a relationship with in school. I was 16, she was 15 and we went out for about a year. She was my first love and in the end we mutually broke up for a number of reasons but it was not on bad or bitter ...

My confidence issues are stopping me asking for a date.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - Started messaging a girl I knew from school a few years younger than me around 3 months ago but she'd just gone travelling. It was fun and kept it up throughout her trip and her interactions with me on social media increased so thought she might be ...